所有壓力都堆在一起我承受
午飯時,我先生和我傾,我知道若我如此繼續難相處下去,有日必把我先生往外推。我先生告訴我:“I just want my happy kitten back.”
我要求我先生要約我們三人飲咖啡。我需要如此行一次,我不知會不會對我的開心有幫助,但起碼冇壞。
於是, 我先生馬上在我們三人 text message 上發: “LJ, are you available to have coffee / brunch with D and I soon?
當天晚上,我先生送我回家的路上,他告訴我,“When you said you are not going to trust me, it is so hurtful.”
他聽錯了我的意思。我即刻補鍋 同佢講:"I said it was my estimation base on my condition to interpret what you would do. "
這天也是我第一天能平靜地問我先生為何已經選擇不再與LJ單獨約會,還要堅持跟她赴約那一回?
他的原因是出乎我意料之外的:「I don't like to be told what to do.」
我誤會以為他是由於受了LJ的影響而去赴約那一回的。