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gilgil39 發表於 20-3-20 22:10
其實係咪一般男人會比較容易接受阿氏女人做伴侶;而相反女人就很難接受阿氏男人做伴侶?因為一般女人會很 ...
唔知呢。我唸都會。好多阿保都係唔介意做順服型,係女人就會畀大男人覺得佢聽話,做事又質素高,容易滿足,容易氹,留佢係屋企當家自主最適合。好似我先生揀我咁,我對佢來講好0岩使。
我前夫,錯配,要我出去做嘢,佢留家自主,我係出面挨得好辛苦時,佢係屋企又投訴我。
我昨日同我前夫分享你投訴你老公嘅嘢同佢投訴我嘅阿保嘢好多都係一樣。
我前夫回我:“You definitely share some characteristics (阿保症). You may not be complaining about me complaining about you, but just in case, I want to make sure you understand something about me. I complained about your condition only to point it out so you could see what you could do. That is the basis for all my 'complaining'. To help someone. That is called love. Once a person cannot help their situation then that is when we need to get help if we can. Have you thought about going to a doctor to get diagnosed or are you worried it may cost a lot? I think it may cost more if you put it off. I want you to get help if there is help. Don't worry about the money. We still love you, I hope you know. ”
我心係度唸,而家我先生接受曬我同我嘅阿保症,而且從來冇投訴過我,從來唔使我「改進」,佢亦分析過點解佢可以同我一齊冇投訴,而我前夫有,係因為佢同我前夫有D乜嘢唔同。咁我使乜花錢去睇醫生。我前夫依然抵賴我改唔到嘅事實。我所見聞:佢從來都冇覺得佢要改來就我。
而家我同我先生,大家都唔需要改,我哋都可以相處歡愉。
Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own ~ H. Jackson Brown