My response to this saying:
是的,從這層面來看的確是。
不過,我看到更多層面:如果一對夫婦離婚,就根本沒有機會能給到孩子得到最好的家庭環境來長大。
我們基督徒慾望得到那最好的,要驅動取得那最佳的,最美好的。
我們不採取任何低於這一個美好指標的上等的福分。
這正是激勵我始初願意相信神和剛剛開始相信基督的欲望。
如果我們根據神的想法做到這一點,沒有離婚。
那麼我們做決策的基礎就不是取其於哪一個是比較少傷害我們孩子的。
而是我們的決策是基於,盼望我們能彼此相愛,創造最好的家庭環境來給我們的孩子來成長。
所以,從此例子,我看到我們基督徒思想的確與熟世思想有分別。我們憑著希望做決策,追求那上等的。
God through the bible train us or teach us to made our decision base on hope.
for example.
I hear people say that : if husband and wife doesn't love each other, the family environment to the children is worst than a single parent can provide for a child.
NDW: Yes, I agree. However, ......
I also see that if a couple divorce, there is no chance to get the best for their children at all.
We Christian desire and drive for the best. We don't take anything less than that. That was what motivate me to follow God at the first place when I first begin believe in Christ.
If we do it according to God's idea, no divorce. We are not making decision base on whichever has less harm to our children, we are making decision for the hope that we can love one another and create the best family environment for our children.