I have one daughter 3 1/2 yrs old & one son 11 months old.
My daughter is now on troubles three stages, very naughty and troublesome.
So, sometimes I will 鬧 her & punish her (not 體罰) i.e. no candies or TV show..etc.
My husband always said that I love my son more than my daughter.
I explained that because my son is still a baby and need to more time to take care.
But my husband does not agree my explains and think that I dun love my daughter anymore.
Honestly, I love my daughter but sometimes I feel angry because she’s very naughty.
Me too.My daugher is 5 ,my son is 2.At first , I think I am not love my son more than my daugher,but now,I know i am,as my daughter is naughty and I often scold her,and my son is more lovely and treat me better.My husband sometimes remind me treat them the same,and I remind myself
Yes, I always remind myself treat my daughter better, but sometimes, I lost my temper to scold her. I try to read more books about how to handle two child or how to control my attitude.
原文章由 angelonki 於 07-8-21 13:50 發表
Me too.My daugher is 5 ,my son is 2.At first , I think I am not love my son more than my daugher,but now,I know i am,as my daughter is naughty and I often scold her,and my son is more lovely and ...
Excellent book. Not only teach us how to deal with the kids differently, but also prevent the "fights" between kids because most fights are rooted from favoritism in the family.
YukiMommy
原文章由 tungtung125 於 07-8-21 11:58 發表
I have one daughter 3 1/2 yrs old & one son 11 months old.
My daughter is now on troubles three stages, very naughty and troublesome.
So, sometimes I will 鬧 her & punish her (not 體罰) i.e. no ...
Thanks all mami sharing your experience to me !! I'm so shamed that to hear about the turth. I will try to control myself and put more time to accompany with my elder daughter.