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佢地真係無野? [複製鏈接]

史科菲

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發表於 04-3-31 17:42 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

小manman,
好讚成你講的所有野 !!

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Re: 佢地真係無野?

你老公咁多

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taktakmummy

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發表於 04-4-1 09:58 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

真好多謝你地的關心....

我覺得由我發現張phone statement 開始, 到現在差不多已有半年了,during this period o既 painful 、思想的掙扎真是很難用word to say, i can't make the decision....i think the reason is i have a child....i try to do my best....i try many methods such as 你們提出的見議...

1.“以牙還牙" o既方法... but i think i can't
use because i think 只會把事情越攪越complicate.
and give him a excuse...don't forget this is his
fault not mine

2. move to live with my mom...i think i can't too,
because my mom 已年紀老邁,i don't want her to
worry me and she lives too far away from my
child's school,太不方便

3. suggest my husband move out....i don't know
why he also don't want to move out and i really
don't want to 被佢屋企人話,始終this is his property

過去半年裏 i talk to him many many times seriously....i crys and he also crys too...when i ask him what do u want exactly? me or her?he always says he must choose me ... he never says divorce in front of me and he really takes care of me and my child very very good ga....when i ask him why do u always promise me not to meet her ....一轉頭就forget 左.....he always says he doesn't know and he really don't want to hurt me!!!!! i know this is a ridiculous answer but 講真...i know my husband is a “soft heart”people.. he really has a kind heart(我肯同佢結婚亦都係one of this reason)其實he always go to work and back home on time everyday....he dayoff ..he also go outside with us ...就如同未發生這事前一樣...my husband 係無刻意揾佢, 手提電話紀錄亦再沒有不尋常的舉動, but i also remind him”牛唔飲水係唔咁得牛頭低"if u really love this family....please make a decision when 條女 comes out again....if u feel so hard to make a decision....i think i can do now la because don't forget u cheat me many many times ....i can't stand any more....i can't share my husband with the other people...
now we start to 分房 to sleep ...i hope he won't cheat me again la

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發表於 04-4-1 11:35 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

taktak mummy,
你的處境我都好明白, 我同你差不多, 只係我未結婚lor. 佢同我講話從未打算同我分開生活(因為我對佢好好). 仲叫我地一齊努力去挽救感情.你話好唔好笑?

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發表於 04-4-1 13:13 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

係人都覺得佢地有野啦!
不過照我估計，相信佢座正的機會不大，最主要係佢有個仔，唔係好多男人肯同人養仔ga。都係個女人痴my去，因為你老公係香港人ar ma，佢地兩個發展到什麼地步，佢地兩個最清楚，不過男人往往遇到尼d姣婆好鍾意拋住拋住，keep住做好朋友。

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發表於 04-4-1 13:24 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

stkyo 寫道:
你都去結識多D異性，多D去玩o下，以其人之道還自其人自身。

絕對同意stkyo o既講法, 一於以"其人之道, 還治其人之身", 如果佢咁都唔緊你, 證明大家緣份已盡, 都無謂強求啦。

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Re: 佢地真係無野?

話無野...99%無人信啦...佢扮晒野啦.....你husband好衰...read到我好氣憤...cher...佢下一次5返屋企就改door 鎖...see佢點死...自己另外再"伸"請公屋....請問你有無野做ga?....如果有...甘5need 靠佢啦....無,,,,快d try 下find joｂ...可以隨時fly 佢啦...做野．．搵d 藉口叫你媽媽lookａｆｔｅｒ　下啦．．．

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發表於 04-4-3 05:26 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

Win that man back whatever you love him or not. Don’t let that woman win this battle. Known your enemy more that will help you win this battle.

You need to find out how they known each other. (Club, Common social meeting or else). If you can find out the source, it will help me to give you more advice.

Let's make some assumption:

1. If you are alone, somebody come to give you a great heart. What would your feeling?
2. If you go home, your husband always argues with you. Would you like to stay at home?

I can see that your husband is so lonely. Everything began with phone calls. He wants to talk with somebody. I hope that you can find out the main problem first. Why he can find out so many topics with others? (Not you??). You can call him with other topic except that woman.

Tips for attack:
Don’t let him has too much free time. Make more family gathering. Let him remind himself that he still has a warm family. It will easier if you ask your child to date him.

Candle dinner, sexy dressing … so on. Try to turn him on. Let’s us show some women power.

Special TIPS:
Send him a flower. (That is his money, please be a big spender). Remind him how long that he hasn't send a flower to you.

If he brings it back to home, then you will have a flower. If he doesn’t, you remind him when he sees the flower just like look at you & you will always beside him.
***** He will think that you are so special. Your image will keep in his mind for a while. Then, he will no room for think of that women.

So late, talk with you later

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發表於 04-4-3 14:43 |只看該作者

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發表於 04-4-3 18:31 |只看該作者

Re: 佢地真係無野?

hi...every 靚靚 mom:

i think some of you said to be right..."your husband must be something wrong with you before"...what is it?????
其實...if i say no argue with my husband after we married ....i think bk's mom also don't trust la.....
i think our problems may be:

(1) i don't want to have a baby again...i think he
wants a boy exactly...but it is too hard la...he is
a 小員工only...and 老人家must like a boy la
(because my husband's 家人also have boys...i
haven't only...laughed by them many many
times la)...but i think to be a good parent...must
be 負責任 to their children...話之 it is a boy or a
girl!!!! 其實if 不用供樓就話may be can have one
more child .......but i think if i force to have one
more child...(為了my husband's feeling) then...is
it fair with my first child?......

(2) marry 頭幾年....經濟not bad....my husband can
still pay money to his parents....but 呢幾年D經濟
差左...income 少左...咪pay less than before ....講真
我地都唔想?大勢所趨!what can we do ar?...講真
la!...we married 時....都係用my husband's money
...唔係his parents's money....this property's 首期
都係we 好努力save 回來...之前 i also have a
job....my child 滿月時...were they care????生仔、
生女 i can't control ar!!!!!!!

(3) i think the main problem is “men” also wants
"face”...唉!!!!!because i know some of his
collegaues and friends also have “二奶" in
china......濡耳目染...奈何????

all these points 前提下(at least 我覺得係 la)...條女comes out la....i think 條女肯定唔係大陸識...因為my husband 甚少go to china...he still use 回鄉証...一目了然...有出入記錄...係 can't cheat me...
講真during the period of they talk on the phone...my husband still goes to work and back home on time everyday gar....so i 先無懷疑my husband ...聽my husband say...初初見條女好似好可憐咁...because she has to earn money to bring up her child ma......又無親又無故...咁又係幾可憐o既......she also always 讚 my husband 好好先生 gar...成日幫佢...i think 當初my husband 有無心去溝佢...i really don't know until now...but i think he can't 抽離 later...and 條女 also la......so now 才有this 局面!!!

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Re: 佢地真係無野?

they were collegaues before not now la...條女係做 part-time..聽my husband say...話佢同老細唔知for what 嘈? 老細咪炒左佢...

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Re: 佢地真係無野?

taktakmummy,

你唔好咁"好心"體諒佢o地啦~~ 你唔好理個女人點慘,
佢o地o感樣真係太過份!!

你真係要好好同你老公傾"最後一次", 除非你對依家o既
局面可以隻眼開隻眼閉~~

如果你老公真係對佢無意思, 佢一定可以揮慧劍斬情絲!!
(個女o的情絲) 你唔好再容忍佢, 時間長o左, 佢o地o既
感情就愈深..... 就愈難攪o架啦~~~ 你要快刀斬亂麻!!

唉~~ 做人老公有咩可能令自己老婆誤會, 傷心..........
都唔即時做番o的o野澄清同補救!! 佢對個女人無o野就
好應該同佢斷絕來往啦~~ 有咩可能繼續做o的會傷害老
婆o既事!!

天呀~~ 你唔好再忍!!

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