我比不到什麽經驗你 (I hv only 1 kid，我冇呢個煩腦)，但讀child psychology時，個tutor好強調好強調父母對2個kids一定要公平，賞罰分明，絕不能掛在口邊：你做大要讓細。多左個細之後，找些機會同大單獨去下街，傾下計，有時採納佢既意見，等佢知佢仍然重要&真係大個左...。同哥哥傾下計la，我諗佢心入面有些吾開心，吾好比佢慮積下去。
You should take more attention on the elder one, let him know you still love him as usual. Sometimes they feel lonely so they do something to make you take an eye on him. Give him more love and he will change his behaviour.
Why do they fight all the time in this TWO months? What has happened? Or Who has changed his altitude?
我兩個仔細d, 3.5yo 和 1yo. 我在圖書館讀過一本書講兄弟關係, 頗為全面而且內裡的建議很實用.
[He hit me first : when brothers and sisters fight / by Louise Bates Ames call no. 649.1 AME]
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