Both I and my husband have a job with high salary, I work in HK, He works in China. It would be quite hard to decide quit my job, and I don't think he would quit his job and find a job in HK because of earning more money!
I still don't know what I should do now! Check him secretly?
depends on which nightclub they are going... and most important if they have any after event..
my husband used to work for a company who had lots of customers from China/Japan who love to go to nightclub whenever they come to HK... what could I said... busines is business... if you don't let him go. he might loose the contract -> loose the job.
What I did is to tell him I don't like it but I understand he has no choice and "trust" him he will be good... just to let him know your feeling... and you do keep an eye on to him lor.