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Re: 我屋企有兩個工人, 寸到暈

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Re: 我屋企有兩個工人, 寸到暈

Please don't mind me saying that the "worst" person in your house is your husband......

The attitude of your maid is indirectly "allowed" and "approved" by your husband....

discuss with your husband and fire the two maid ASAP.....the situation will only get worst with time....

if you need someone to talk....PM me.....

I am very strict with my maids......

Take care and looking forward to your good news!!


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Re: 我屋企有兩個工人, 寸到暈

my husband is like this too. when I complaint about the maid to him, he would either defend her or ignore me. This made me even more angry. But after I really talked with him, I understand now, he doesn't want to have trouble and changes at home! He is feeling comfortable and the children are happy, why change the maid just because you are disrepected?
We have to help ourselves.

When my maid did something disrepectful, I talked to her immediately, not scolding her but just told her what I wanted her to do.

e.g. When she didn't greet me at once after I went back home, I talked to her immediately and asked her to greet me everytime. And I told her that it was impolite not to do so.
e.g. For a while, she would "remind" me to tell her what to prepare for dinner, even when I was busy. And I didn't like this, so I just told her that she doesn't need to "remind" me in the future.

Luckily for us, she does improve after being told clearly what she needs to do. So I can still keep her.

I think it is not good to keep the disrespectful maid after really talking to her. The children would learn from her that you can get away by treating others well but not mummy. This is a bad thing, and it is hard to discipline the children if they learn this.


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發表於 04-8-31 16:41 |只看該作者

Re: 我屋企有兩個工人, 寸到暈

serenacheung
哈哈,係呢到見到你!

你試下唔好講太多比你老公聽(廢事佢覺得你煩),
而要比佢自己睇平時佢地做野的態度.
d男人係咁架啦.
有時我同老公講:[好怕工人蝦亞b.]
佢就會話:[你成日聽埋咁多人講,自己就會成日"盈住盈住",我覺得無野喎,又係你話要請工人,依家又成日擔心.]

唉...佢地唔明做人亞媽就會處處擔心個b,而且防人之心不可無,d工人好識扮野,係你面前對bb好好,點知佢背住我地又做d咩.所以我都打算裝攝錄機,求安心.

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