for me, I will give her the same things that we have for meals except pork. At the beginning, she is very 'choicy' perhaps she does not know what they are and would not eat and throw away. She is now with us for sometime, she begins to eat whatever we give her, including pork (it seems she likes pork more than us after having our 'cha siu') and no problem. For your case, i suggest no need to ask her or suit her diet (cause you dont know), family first and she being a part of the family will eat whatever you give her. Given time, she will adapt
My maid is also very bad in her eating. two days ago, I gave an orange to her, since it was putting in kitcken for few days, the skin the a bit dry, so I said if you like you can take it, the skin is a bit dry but should be ok inside. Do you know what she said? she said "you mother saw it today and said what a horrible orange, how can human being take it". I was very angry and asked her if you did not want, you can throw it away. Then she really threw it to rubbish bin. I told her, next time if you don't want the food, just tell me you don't want. I was so angry that night. I asked my mother next day, she said did not not "how can human being eat, she just said the orange has been put here few day, what happen?" From now on, I will not give her any fruit. last night I wanted to give grapes, but finally i stopped as I don't know whether she would say this and that.
She came about one month, the thing I hate most is her eating habit. She eat very slow, very enjoy. I don't mind you enjoy the eating but when outside is in terribly mess, like my one baby is crying, the other one baby is pissing on the floor, the floor is slippy, and she still keep eating slowly without a look, it seems we are in totally different world. I was hurry around with two childred and she is quietly in the kitchen. I feel very bad. I eat like a dog does in order to take care the baby but she put all the stuff to me. I don't know how to do. She also care what food we give to her. When I give some food she doesn't like, she will turn black face and will not play with my babbaby at the time we are having dinner. She will just hold, no move at all. One time, she carried the baby and turn her face to the door. We heard the baby screaming. My younger sisiter scold her at once that "if the baby face the door, of course, she scream lar". Wheven we asked her to carry the baby, the baby will cry or scream becasue she dose nothing at all with her". She has no heart to my children at all. Since her attitute and household is OK, I will keep watch.
... ...I don't mind you enjoy the eating but when outside is in terribly mess, like my one baby is crying, the other one baby is pissing on the floor, the floor is slippy, and she still keep eating slowly without a look, it seems we are in totally different world. I was hurry around with two childred and she is quietly in the kitchen... ...she will turn black face and will not play with my babbaby at the time we are having dinner. She will just hold, no move at all. One time, she carried the baby and turn her face to the door. ... ...[size=small]her attitude is really bad. did you talk to her formally? i think you may consider giving her a verbal warning, followed by written one. give her 1 to 3 months to improve. if she still does not improve, you may use the evidence and warning collected to fire her. she does not deserve the job
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