(1) Use perfum inside bb room (she lives also there...)
(2) Doesn't listen to me... I tell her to tie up the hairs coz easy to do the household works maaaa...but she said she wants to cut it short... ... ... tonight, when I saw her, she has done the 'fu lei ji' w what's matter to her, cutting her hairs into layers... how can she tie up her hairs??? So, does it mean that she doesn't need to work and just sit down and make herself beauty???
(3) Like today... it is her rest day BUT I think for a 'smart' guy, she must know some essential things she must do... just like cleaning milk bottles... she JUST use her blanket to cover her head... letting bb to cry... TALKLING to her friends... and after I do all these thuings (bathing for bb, clean all milk bottles, pack up all the thungs for bb to go to church... she then go out to the living room and said "hello bb..."
I wanna to know who is the employer!!!!!!!!!
(4) every dinner she must eat very very fast and so take away bb to carry ... why does she do this??? this is because she can sit on the chair and watching TV and doesn't need to seve us!!! and whenever we request to take bb... she said 'okay la, I carry'... ...
(5) one day... I want her to find something which was placed above her bed (I brought a double deck bed inside bb room, she sleeps on the lower bed and I put all the 'unused' things on the upper bed... THEN, she said 'so many "lap sharp" and throw my boxes onto her bed... (not in a polite manner la of coz) and said, "so many lap sharp and therefore many mosquitoes come loh!!!...
By that time I want to say 'yes, I have so many lap sharp in my home and that's why I employ you here to clean loh!!! you think I employ you here just to eat and sleep???'
I am very very angry, in addition to the last event she said herself was too thin coz no sleep (bb needed to drink at night!!! ... and now didn't do housework (just mop the shower tray panels only!!!)at night and go to sleep... or talking inside the room so that I couldnt' put bb inside to sleep
PLUS the first event... switch on the washing machine at 3:30am!!!
I think I am too geneous to let her in my home for four months up to now laaa....
Everyday I wake up earlier than her and sleep much later than her... I think I like a bun bun than she... she has lots of cosmetics... skin care products inside the toilet she use (we have two toilets)... two trays are full of this... but for me,.. one 1/4 of hers... she looks like a mum more ... he!
This morning I saw her still leave her (Fu Lei Ji) hairs not being tied, then I asked her 'Emma, why don't you tie up your hairs?'...She pretended she heard nothing... and I asked her again, she said 'yesterday my friend gave me a coupon and the I went to a barber shop and made my hairs straight and also cut my hairs in layers...he said I couldn't tie up the hairs this month coz it will hurt my fu lei ji straight hairs...''
CRAZY argument!
Then I said...'Leaving long hairs with no tie will not facilitate your work and will not good to bb coz your long straight hairs will touch bb's face... I want you to tie up your hairs.'
She didn't answer me and turn her head to the other side!!!
and yesterday night, I found that she didn't follow my instruction again (I have my milk stored in the fridge but need to re-warm before feed bb) , I'd told her before to feed bb with formula so that bb will stop crying immediately at ngiht... still, she didn't follow and take time to re-warm /..// made both of us woke up in mid night!!!
Such a crazy bunbun!
But I still need to pay the one month salary together with the ticket also? any other thing else I need to note?
P.S. This bunbun has been worked in HK for two years... I will never employ these kind of bunbun who has experience in HK again!
Go ahead to fire her la... crazy bun ar. if i were you, i will ask her leave immediately and pay her one month salary in lieu of notice and air ticket... if possible, ask her agent come to your home first and ask her pack her luggage in front her the agent. ask her sign all document before she leave.. send the letter to immigration back list her bad thing.
yes,,, if i were you, i will NOT employ any maid who has experience in HK... it's really BAD.. same as my existing maid,. anyway, she will be leaving on coming Jan.
Same as my ex-helper(bun bun). I hired her for 3 months, then I fired her with 1 month and ticket. Even though I hate her so much. But later, you will find it is worth, because you feel much better after the bun bun gone. Remember to inform immigration to black list her.
My bunbun used another trick yesterday!!! Makes me so upset!!!
During Monday to Friday,my parents will go to my home and look at my bb... (not duty to take care bb)... and my bunbun starts to 'lun' my mother...BY
(1) do everything in favour of 'por por' (my mother) by holding her hands, accompanying her... and say everything to her which makes her feels so happy ... for me, she is just doing so 'making colours and water!!! :evil: ' and say to por por... 'this is good for mum, we leave this to mum to eat la... the food is not fresh, don't leave it to mum's lunch box'...
therefore, por por gives me a call yesterday afternoon and 'help her to speak'...and want me not to fry her!!! helppppppp...
BUT I feel more angry than before coz I find that 1/2 of the dinner (porpor will back to home in the afternoon everyday) is done by por por in the morning... coz por por said 'I'm frightened of Emma can't cook the cabbage all, so I cook for her to use in dinner time... and I've made the fresh fish meat for her to cook in dinner time!... it's okay la... even 3 hrs running water non-stop to wash bb clothes,...'
Helppppppp...
What she says make me very very upset!
Why a bunbun of only 4 months in my home can make like this...? Even my sister who has lived in her home for more than 20+ years still not like this...she is a brilliant bunbun!