感概。我前夫同我先生都評我做人堅持,責任心。當我前夫咁讚我時,佢加了層比較,佢覺得佢自己冇我咁堅忍,我心唸(我只可以keep it inside me, can't say anyting negative about him to him, 因為咁先襟撈 ):「如果你有我咁堅持,責任心同勿忘初衷嘅,婚姻生活中,一人搵錢擔起三代人幾戶生活費過世嘅就係你,唔係我。」
至於勿忘初衷,it is not applicable to me. 因為我根本沒有任何初衷,何來有忘掉的衷呢。但我有恆久忍耐又有恩慈,不求自己益處的愛。
Love is when the other person’s happiness is more important than your own ~ H. Jackson Brown