I carried my eldest daughter ever since I found out I was 5weeks pregnant. I carried her a lot during the period when I was 5 to 7 weeks pregnant because my maid and inlaws could not help me to take care of my daughter at that time. Then in later period, I only carried my daughter during weekends. I still had to carry and rock my daughter to sleep when I was 7-8 months pregnant.
When I had to carry my daughter all the time during my 5th week, I told myself that when it's mine it's mine. The embryo (my second baby) would stick firmly to me.
But if your doctor told you not to carry your 大b, I think you should wait till later period when the fetus condition is more stable (after checking by ultrasound scan) to carry your daughter.