i don't want her to sit on sofa coz she cooks and clean and I don't want to make the sofa dirty. Also what if baby threw up milk on the sofa, she can't compensate the sofa to us.
i understand maybe baby is heavy so she want to sit on the sofa to relief the weight, but if she ask me I would feel much better and would let her sit. Without asking (when I've already said no sitting on sofa before) makes me feel really uncomfortable.
Sometimes when I was watching tv on sofa, and she sits on the dining chairs feeding baby, I notice that she is watching TV very concentrate, so I don't want her to sit on sofa when I was watching TV when the TV was right in front of sofa.
I already let her do whatever she wants, she decide when to do what housework and even let her to decide what to eat for dinner. As long as the housework is done, the house is clean, I am fine.
But this time sitting on the sofa really hit my bottom line.......
I won't sit on my boss' chair in the office, will you? So she shouldn't either.....