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發表於 05-2-26 01:29 |只看該作者

你地點睇?

工人來了2星期,現在都仲係同bb大家適應緊.今日是工人來後,阿媽第一次來探bb,但我唔係到.阿媽平時都會每日來我家睇住工人.阿媽晚飯走後,工人話阿媽來後,bb唔肯食3點支奶及訓覺,又唔聽佢instruction又唔跟佢,淨係痴住我阿媽.佢話唔知點做? 其實我知佢係想暗示叫我叫阿媽唔好來.如果唔係佢教唔到我個2歲bb. 你地覺得佢係善意/惡意的暗示呢? 我只好對佢話可能bb太耐冇見婆婆,所以痴佢.下次我叫婆婆來前打來問下bb係咪開餐,係就唔好上來住啦.等食完,佢先打比婆婆叫佢上來.
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發表於 05-2-26 03:56 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

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發表於 05-2-26 09:32 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

agree!

My son also likes this though he lives with my Phil maid 1.5 years. When my mother comes (she will come to my home on weekdays when we both go to work, almost everyday but not fix the time and without notice to my maid), my son does not like to sleep, only wants to play with my mother and goes out with her. For eating, he also sometimes forgets to eat. But he can finish all when he is hungry and even requests more. (He eats bread and fruit at tea time).

So don't believe all from you maid but observe your baby's behaviour and ask your mother in detail. I trust my mother 100% but not the maid. They always has excuse to hide the mistake and make convenience.....

Hope it can help you.
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發表於 05-2-26 12:26 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

佢梗係唔想婆婆o黎啦, 有人"目及"住晒. 如果佢咁樣同我講, 我會求其應佢, "哦, 係呀!"就咁算數. 亦唔會叫婆婆上o黎之前要通知佢, 要佢知道婆婆鐘意幾時上o黎就幾時上o黎, 點到佢話唔俾上o黎, 要佢知道尊重婆婆. 再講, 婆婆又唔係成日
o黎, 咪由得佢o地玩下囉. 小朋友肚餓就會食, "倦"就會
"目訓", 婆婆o黎一次半次就話教唔掂個女, 小心佢第時恃寵生驕.

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發表於 05-2-26 12:42 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

贊成 的工人最鍾意講的老人家壞話,講到係得佢地先搞得掂的小朋友,最好的老人家唔好再黎騷擾佢地.:evil: 一於唔使理的工人,仲要佢地唔好咁多口,要俾多的心機湊bb,老人家來到,仲一定要茶水點心好好招待!

由 DoReMi媽媽 於 2005-02-26 12:26:52

佢梗係唔想婆婆o黎啦, 有人"目及"住晒. 如果佢咁樣同我講, 我會求其應佢, "哦, 係呀!"就咁算數. 亦唔會叫婆婆上o黎之前要通知佢, 要佢知道婆婆鐘意幾時上o黎就幾時上o黎, 點到佢話唔俾上o黎, 要佢知道尊重婆婆. 再講, 婆婆又唔係成日
o黎, 咪由得佢o地玩下囉. 小朋友肚餓就會食, "倦"就會
"目訓", 婆婆o黎一次半次就話教唔掂個女, 小心佢第時恃寵生驕.
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發表於 05-2-26 13:01 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

由 DoReMi媽媽 於 2005-02-26 12:26:52
佢梗係唔想婆婆o黎啦, 有人"目及"住晒. 如果佢咁樣同我講, 我會求其應佢, "哦, 係呀!"就咁算數. 亦唔會叫婆婆上o黎之前要通知佢, 要佢知道婆婆鐘意幾時上o黎就幾時上o黎, 點到佢話唔俾上o黎, 要佢知道尊重婆婆. 再講, 婆婆又唔係成日
o黎, 咪由得佢o地玩下囉. 小朋友肚餓就會食, "倦"就會
"目訓", 婆婆o黎一次半次就話教唔掂個女, 小心佢第時恃寵生驕.


Agree. I have experience similar case. But, I don't agree to ask your mother to ring the maid first before she come. For my case, I have asked my mother-in-law to try her best to come before the the feeding time.
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發表於 05-2-26 14:36 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

話俾佢知,bb同佢都要適應下啦!婆婆係mum阿媽,連mum都要尊重佢,bb又要,賓賓更加要!
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發表於 05-2-27 02:06 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

多謝各位的回應!!

其實原本以前舊工人係到,我媽係日日都買埋餸來.不過我諗真係叫我媽唔好係bb用餐時段上來,一次半次當突擊就好.但唔駛call工人先.費時比佢有心理準備,做咩我都唔知.
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發表於 05-2-28 10:42 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

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I will listen Maid's suggestions/comments but not totally to change, you're the employer not her, your mother has rights to visit/play with your daughter everyday, your maid should try to co-ordinate with anyone whose will stay at your home. NOT your relatives to try to co-ordinate.

My case, my mom & mother-in-law will come 1 time every weeks. I'll ask them don't call before. Sometimes I'll ask my maid any difference ? she said when my mom & MIL is here, my daughter will feel very excited & doesn't want to sleep, to eat. I understand the changes. But it doesn't a matter.

So don't ask your mom to call before arrival, you should let your maid who is in-charge!
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發表於 05-2-28 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

我工人都有提過哩個問題, 話婆婆來到吵醒bb, 婆婆係度唔瞓覺, 婆婆係度唔飲奶, 不過我話無辦法, 婆婆掛住bb, 慢慢佢無再提, 而婆婆來既時候就婆婆餵奶(bb要求)。

我諗妳工人唔多唔少都有d私心先咁講, 我會同佢話我都明白會係咁, 但係婆婆掛住bb一定會來, 叫佢自己要想辦法去改善, 唔可以因為咁而唔俾婆婆來, 提議佢入房餵奶, 或由婆婆餵。
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發表於 05-2-28 11:24 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

梗係不用理她,要她知道婆婆奶奶可以任何時間來,不用問她,bb不食奶和睡覺, 應該係要她想想怎樣做和適應. 唔係下下遷就佢.應該維持不用就她.
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發表於 05-2-28 13:47 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

我都會好似 DoReMi媽媽 咁 reply 個工人:

"哦, 係呀!"

婆婆或嫲嫲在家, 就梗係佢地話事啦, bb唔肯食奶? 我諗唔會有人捨得個孫唔食o野掛. 我媽同99在我家時, 佢地會自動波喂bb, 唔洗工人操心.
DoReMi媽媽 寫道:
佢梗係唔想婆婆o黎啦, 有人"目及"住晒. 如果佢咁樣同我講, 我會求其應佢, "哦, 係呀!"就咁算數. 亦唔會叫婆婆上o黎之前要通知佢, 要佢知道婆婆鐘意幾時上o黎就幾時上o黎, 點到佢話唔俾上o黎, 要佢知道尊重婆婆. 再講, 婆婆又唔係成日
o黎, 咪由得佢o地玩下囉. 小朋友肚餓就會食, "倦"就會
"目訓", 婆婆o黎一次半次就話教唔掂個女, 小心佢第時恃寵生驕.
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發表於 05-2-28 15:10 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

You can give the key to your mother. She can come anytime. Don't tell the maid first. When bb 開餐, your mother may go to bedroom, take rest for a while.
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發表於 05-2-28 15:25 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點睇?

一定唔使理佢, 唔使叫你媽上去之前比電話佢, 唔係你就 "種" 佢計, 等佢有防避, 我放工返屋企個女食緊飯都成日要我抱係特別食得慢唔通我唔返屋企咁末陪佢食 or 入房休息下, 你要比工人知婆婆一定要尊重, 咁快對婆婆就有微言, 都好大擔.
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