my new yan will come within these few days and I have a question on her sleeping place:
1. my home has three rooms: Master bedroom, bedroom for my bb who is now sleeping in his baby bed, and a study room.
2. origianlly I have a double deck bed also in baby's room and my ex-bun was slept in there (same room as bb)
3. now, I don't want my new yan to sleep in the same room with my bb anymore and I've brought a fold-up type bed for her to sleep in studyroom at night.
4. So my proposed arrangement is:
maid - sleep in her fold-up bed in studyroom and need to fold up in the morning...
bb- sleep in his baby bed in his room and the double deck bed is left vacant...
5. My father said my new maid will be very unhappy of this coz he said when she sees that there is vacant fixed bed but she can't sleep there... she will become angry woh...
6. Is that arrangement okay?
Any advice...
also, the meal arrangemnt is another question:
my mother lives in the same estate with me... and I know a maid can never work for two houses...
but now bb is carried by her in the daytime...
and I need to go to her home for dinner and visit her...
my proposed arrangement:
two dinners eat in her house... (also bring along the maid)
in daytime after maid cleaning my house, go to my mother's house and look after bb.
Arrrr... I feel hiring a maid is very ma fan... she seems like a queen of the house!!!