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複式洋房

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發表於 12-4-24 23:59 |只看該作者
各位柹妹們怎樣好和老公教仔方法不一致?? 講過叫佢唔好,佢又照做,真係慘,其中有以下幾点:

1) 阿仔己快到5歲,根本可以自己wipe the bottom after bowl (依賴老豆),但係老公又照樣幫佢抹.我見到就出聲啦,最激氣就係他說趕時間返工,所以同阿仔抹, 我跟住就反問要好多時間咩. 己經唔係第1 次咁做

2)老公同佢刷牙唔駛2 mins, 我話比佢知要教阿仔用2 mins先係正確, 佢就好快刷好,所以阿仔每次就要叫老豆同佢刷,唔要我

3) 早上刷牙又幫佢,唔係自己刷, 佢太過遷就,唔識教,我真擔心,点算好, 我出聲話,佢又唔happy, 請比意見.


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發表於 12-4-25 11:43 |只看該作者
想安慰一下你, 其實呢D都係好小事啫, 未至於感情漸差溝通唔到, 只因為得1個小朋友, 自然有時間細心照顧, 如果有2個年齡相近的孩子, 到時就不會那麼好服侍, 實忙到踢晒腳. 遲D讀書揀學校重大鑊.





複式洋房

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發表於 12-4-25 13:48 |只看該作者
Hi wiiabcd

I'm appreciate for your kindly response. I'm understand they're little things but often happen again, so I don't know how to communicate with him and solve the trouble.

Cheers





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發表於 12-4-25 20:52 |只看該作者

回覆:夫婦感情漸差,溝通唔到,点好?????

有無同你老公傾過?你教仔時佢唔好插手!問清楚傾清楚先啦




任何地方同樣的你,
有人把你抬得很高,
有人把你眨得很低,
有價值的東西,
只有在懂價值的人面前才有價值!
不要管別人怎麼看,
關鍵是自己怎樣看自己~


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發表於 12-4-26 15:51 |只看該作者
toffiedd 發表於 12-4-24 23:59
各位柹妹們怎樣好和老公教仔方法不一致?? 講過叫佢唔好,佢又照做,真係慘,其中有以下幾点:

1) 阿 ...

有一點好重要係佢用佢方法去對個仔既時候你唔好插手唔好出聲, 同樣你用自己方法佢都唔可以出聲...等小朋友訓左或返學後你同你老公關埋房門LIST哂D問題出來, 講佢聽你既感受, 再係咁會有咩後果, 佢唔可以自私, 對你對小朋友都要負責任, 你要續點咁解釋點解你會咁要求, 點解你會唔開心...試下咁可唔可能好D?

所有父母都會有自己不同既教法同意見, 最重要接受對方意見後再討論點去協調

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Mrs.Kangaroo  agree  發表於 12-4-26 20:41


複式洋房

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發表於 12-4-29 01:35 |只看該作者
Thank you very much.


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發表於 12-4-30 23:17 |只看該作者
haha...sounds like my family here. My husband actually enjoys doing all the things for my kids..e.g. feeding, bathing, cuddling, tooth brushing even sleeping in the same bed. I was just like you arguing with him for 2 years since my son was born but as soon as my daughter was born 2 years ago, i had no time to argue with him anymore...I let him to do what he likes to do while he is at home. But i'll do it my way while he is away from work. It turns out just fine. My kids know they need to take care of themself e.g. feed themself while father is not home.

Everyone is happy and no more arguement between us when i step back and let him enjoys doing all things for my kids. My husband works long hours and seldom has a chance to see our kids on weekdays. He actually told me he would grab every chance to look after our kids such as feeding, bathing...he simply just wants to be a father.

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