I'm appreciate for your kindly response. I'm understand they're little things but often happen again, so I don't know how to communicate with him and solve the trouble.
haha...sounds like my family here. My husband actually enjoys doing all the things for my kids..e.g. feeding, bathing, cuddling, tooth brushing even sleeping in the same bed. I was just like you arguing with him for 2 years since my son was born but as soon as my daughter was born 2 years ago, i had no time to argue with him anymore...I let him to do what he likes to do while he is at home. But i'll do it my way while he is away from work. It turns out just fine. My kids know they need to take care of themself e.g. feed themself while father is not home.
Everyone is happy and no more arguement between us when i step back and let him enjoys doing all things for my kids. My husband works long hours and seldom has a chance to see our kids on weekdays. He actually told me he would grab every chance to look after our kids such as feeding, bathing...he simply just wants to be a father.