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對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．． [複製鏈接]

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頂級美人

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發表於 06-9-30 19:52 |只看該作者

Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

what's more, I don't hate her. I simply ignore what she says. I cannot change her personality but I can adjust myself. I have trained myself to have very high EQ. Sometimes men are helpless. They cannot help you even they love you. Husbands have no choice. Mums are mums.

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nausica

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Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

我同99一齊住架..

因我媽咪早過身,我剛結婚時係諗住當99係自己媽咪架,點知個衰神趁我大肚時係咁恰我,我果時岩入門又大肚唯有忍氣吞聲,佢成日講埋d衰野,又話"佢另外個仔無結婚因為結完又離結來做咩啊",呢句我岩岩結婚講過不下十次,仲有好多說話俾我聽...我就來生得果排佢仲日日叫我同佢去街市買送,個街市又迫又滑又多人,我後尾辛苦到直情要問燒臘檔借張椅坐...

我陀緊果陣佢一路都係煲d好涼既湯水,因為佢自己高血壓,同埋佢幾個都係仔係飲呢d涼同下火既湯水至岩,我完全食唔到,因為我就算陀之前唔受得涼野架,咁我都無所謂,佢又唔係奉旨要煲野俾我, 我咪請個陪月來煮野俾我食law,哈,佢激到彈起咁製,因為佢無諗住我坐月可以咁輕鬆同埋有野食到law..

我真係想問下你地有無人慘得過我呢?

佢依家成日黑面,我就當佢透明,同埋保持距離,平時唔會主動同佢講野,

對付呢d人最好就係呢招,當佢見到你咩反應都無就最無癮,亦都唔會哦你

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poor_me

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發表於 06-10-1 01:11 |只看該作者

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060228 寫道:
If it is possible, you can move within the same 屋院, your C6 may accept more about this....

No one should lose in the family, Look for a balance(平衡) for 3 of you. AGain, you need a serious talk with your C6. TALK!

Thamks for your advice & support, express myself here makes me feel better now. I do talk with my C6, and he said if i really want to go, you go then.
so upset.......... :-( :-( :-(

C6 always support her mum, she is old , at 70 yrs old la. But she has very long ear, may have an age of 100, can i wait until she die, i will be an 69 yrs okd lady

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060228

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發表於 06-10-1 16:18 |只看該作者

Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

dear poor_me,

just for sharing. If I am u, I NEVER be a full-time mother, (a full mother is the hardest job in the world except u are rich & no need your C6 support)

If I am u, I will go to work, hire a maid. Usually the 99 will focus her 憎恨 on the maid (change the target)... then u will have a better relationship with C6 & 99.

Talk more later. busy today.

執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱

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060228

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發表於 06-10-1 23:32 |只看該作者

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寧教人打仔,莫教人分妻. To look forward, forget about what your C6 say, he just protect his mum, he didn't have the other woman, so.... forget the words... (his 無心快語)..lar...

Men don't have sex usually because of the pressure. If he is the only one who supports the whole family, maybe he is worrying about the money everyday. It is TOUGH. He has to suffer all the pains to let u be the full-time mother.... he doesn't want to listen to your complains anymore after work........ please show your understanding about this... (BTW, men do not know "full-time mother" is also a tough task.)

Most of men won't let their wifes be the full-time mothers, your C6 thinks he do the best for you, he thinks... you should not ASK for more & more.....so, no free lunch (to be jobless), you know

Find out the win-win situtation for 3 of you is always the best way. Any ideas? strategy is needed.

poor_me 寫道:
I do talk with my C6, and he said if i really want to go, you go then.
so upset.......... :-( :-( :-(

執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱

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小寶貝兒

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發表於 06-10-2 10:31 |只看該作者

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nausica 寫道:
佢依家成日黑面,我就當佢透明,同埋保持距離,平時唔會主動同佢講野, 對付呢d人最好就係呢招,當佢見到你咩反應都無就最無癮,亦都唔會哦你

唉.... 如果我99係當佢透明,同埋保持距離之後就唔會哦我...... 我就真係開心到要請食飯!!!

我99佢係如果你唔理佢, 佢會一直煩, 一直叫, 一直鬧到你理佢為止!!
如果我過去佢度, 佢一叫我走我就走, 佢就會鬧我架啦, 要叫好多次, 差左未攞個pan pan我走, 咁我呢個時候走就冇事...... 試下早d走丫, 之後佢就會鬧我, "係咪唔想見到我呀!!"

♡女人想要奢侈品，其實要的是男人的捨得！
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♡女人想要的一切，無非是要男人在乎她的感覺！

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elfho

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發表於 06-10-2 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

睇完咁多媽咪o既留言, 我更加覺得我要努力工作, 因為起碼唔使同99住, 睇佢面色. 自己經濟獨立, 連老公面色亦唔使睇. 鍾意大家可以見吓, 唔鍾意就唔好見咁多. 我自己屋企有工人睇住bb, 如果激嬲我, 我可以叫工人唔俾佢入屋. 有乜唔對路, 老公都無情講, 好彩我老都知佢阿媽有乜問題.

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發表於 06-10-3 10:26 |只看該作者

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[quote]
mattjon 寫道:
您62係唔係到呀?如果62係到仲有機會ga,再唔係老公返左工,call姐妺上來單打佢,又或者用DV映低佢再話比老公睇bb有趣ga事,唔角意俾佢睇99真面目,係老公面前就對99客氣lo,老公又角得您好(好9呢

)quote]

我62十幾年前怕左我99所以走左lu！我９９未黎我屋企之前，原本係同佢一個未結婚個仔住既。你個方法都幾好，等我試下先，thank you！
不過，我９９前幾日同佢其中一個女訴苦，話係我度好辛苦，好唔開心，仲大興問罪添呀！ :-( 好彩我個ｃ６一路都有將我地ｄ事話比佢另外一個家姐知咋！如果唔係，又比佢屈到喇！連我個工人都話我咩都唔出聲，唉∼出聲咪又比我個ｃ６話我好煩！！！！

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nausica，梗係大把人慘過你喇！我生ｂｂ係開刀既，我出院第二日，個工人未到，我９９話屋企冇廁紙同麵包（ｄ麵包係佢既早餐），叫我出去買，因為佢唔識路喎！果時我老公出左trip，屋企又住得遠，我要自己駕車出去市中心買，ｄ野又重，個傷口痛到死呀！

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發表於 06-10-3 14:21 |只看該作者

Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

我99都唔好得幾多, 上次生呀B係醫院4天只係黎過15分鐘, 仲係因為咁arm去睇演唱會路經醫院至上黎一陣, 佢講到明架, 唔洗同你客氣.
最憎佢勁擺99款, 好彩我老公知我憎佢, 幫我擋左好多不必要既應酬.

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發表於 06-10-4 01:49 |只看該作者

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今次真係終於頂唔順, 足足十年, 忍左你地十年啦))))))))

每逢過時過時過節都玩哂野))))))嘜都就哂你地仲想我點???????我真係好受氣呀)))))就快癲)))))

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世界上最憎的人就係妳.........99.
$$真係咁重要......有$$就可以捺住妳對眼......
傻瓜.......有時$$係買唔到快樂和関懷......
換來黑人憎和寂寞！！！！！！！

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發表於 06-10-5 17:48 |只看該作者

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唔止99喎,仲有老公個家姐同亞哥加埋....就等如....

唔識計添......請問由地球表面去到地球中央核心層有幾深呀???

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發表於 06-10-8 01:51 |只看該作者

Re: 對９９的憎恨有幾多�深．．．

我都好憎我奶奶架

我生果陣時，啱啱老公出trip一星期，咪住響hosiptal 一星期, 等佢返HK接我同BB出院law, 住院期間，我奶奶日日都去hosiptal探我，佢目的就係check 下我每日喺hosiptal要洗幾多錢，check 住我叫左D咩食, 當佢知道我日日飲鮮奶, 就黑哂口面話咁貴，洗吾洗日日飲ar, 又話佢自己生3件都只係飲煉奶, 住兩日就自己出院，點會咁巴"敝"要人接ga, 分明比說話我聽啫，仲要叫我吾好比錢返外家，

當時真係好

不過都無頂撞佢，不過自此之後，我就決定同男家保持距離，只有過時過節先見，費事接觸得多，又比說話我聽，到時有乜頂撞就吾好la、

雖然見得少，但每次去奶奶度食飯，佢把口都無好野講，早幾日做節，姑奶問阿仔係邊度讀小一，阿仔話xxx小學，跟住姑奶男友話，呢間學校幾好wor, 突然間，奶奶居然好大聲講 "都吾知讀吾讀得上啫"