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發表於 06-10-24 14:11 |只看該作者

~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

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發表於 06-10-24 14:25 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

其實無話現成好唔好, 請工人真係好講妥數, 我前後請過3個工人, 其中一個即炒, 其餘兩個都好好, 無任何問題發生過.

其實你先生點解唔鍾意佢呢? 係唔係工人做o野唔得先?
你阿仔有幾大? 會唔會係剛剛返學o個種, 因為剛返學d小朋友係一定會容易病, 原因係小朋友對外界人接觸多咗, 好多病都係交差感染, 同埋近呢兩個月天氣都唔係幾好, 時熱時凍, 小朋友係容易病, 未必一定關工人事, 你工人有無病過先?

如果你真係想炒依家呢個工人, 你可以請d現成完約工人, 又或重新申請一個過o黎, 最好就等新工人可以上工先至叫佢走, 咁咪唔會有真空期囉! 不過你千其唔好預早同佢講話會唔要佢, 費時佢玩o野啦! 即時叫佢走會好d!

另外如果你真係唔想再對住佢, 依家即炒, 你可以揾d本地師奶幫你照顧阿仔, 同常唔過夜, 大約要$3000, 再唔係你可以揾d托兒所, 應該會貴d, 如果小朋友大d最好返全日班, 因為可以學識獨立, 係好好!


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發表於 06-10-24 14:44 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

軒靚媽媽 : I agree with cmsm. The new one may not be better than the old one. It's by chance & luck!

I also changed the maids three times per year. Whenever I change any maid, I can see the most impact is on my son who is taken care by the maid. On any change of care takers, he cannot tell how he felt as he is only 3 yrs old. But, I can feel he is trying to adopt to the new care takers. It is the hard time for him as mummy lost temper to the maid..... He is under pressure, but he has no choice.

I have an experience. If I speak loudly to my maid, my son observe this situation, and his temper become bad around that time. Talk to the maid in the room, so your children will not involve.

If your son can talk, u can ask him whether he likes this maid & why.



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發表於 06-10-24 16:17 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

軒靚媽媽

咁阿仔成日病就唔關工人事, 剛開學係會咁, 你都盡量叫工人take care阿仔多d, 同埋俾d維他命阿仔食都會好d, 等阿仔適應咗之後, 就會無咁多病痛, 我以前阿女剛開學都係咁, 頭第一個月返得1星期學, 學費都蝕埋!
之於你先生, 你真係要好好同佢傾吓工人係d咩問題, 同常男人都係唔多鍾意多過人係屋企, 遲d佢就會慣啦!
如果工人係幾好, 無咩特別問題, 就得啦! 可能下一個仲衰, 就弊啦!

軒靚媽媽 寫道:
cmsm>.
THANK YOU...MY SON IS 3YRS OLD...佢係剛剛開學, 個工人知道先生唔鐘意, 所以佢同我講話如果先生唔鐘意, 咁佢返屋企, 佢都唔知點解個仔會咁~~~唉......


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發表於 06-10-24 17:41 |只看該作者

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發表於 06-10-24 17:46 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

最好搞清楚係個工人唔好定係你先生唔鍾意先...
"正常工人"唔易求ga...有好多野用多d時間就會有答案...
請箸重工人既個人能力同品行...


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發表於 06-10-24 18:00 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

I have a similar problem, my son is also 3, he got sick every 2 weeks start from my maid arrived, which is Jan 2006 till now. But we change this month to bath my son and take him to sleep by ourselves, the situation is much better, no more cough during nighttime and morning. You can try first better than fired her.


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發表於 06-10-24 20:05 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

軒靚媽媽, & akycheung,

I also tried to help my son before when I change the maid. To make less changes and less impact to him, it's better to take care our little prince by ourselves under some uncertainties (say if you are wondering whether the maid is trustworthy).

軒靚媽媽, it seems that your maid is not so bad as long as you see she is loving your son.


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發表於 06-10-25 00:18 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

軒靚媽媽,
要知道工人實在無責任幫我們教仔,如果佢湊得到個仔無問題已經好好,而且教仔無可避免鬧和打,如果工人真係幫你教但又好嚴厲地鬧佢,你又受唔受到?? 唔好講工人,真係縱d細路既人分分鐘是99或你亞媽亞爸呢!我試過因為我個女食飯唔正經,話極都唔聽,係咁2用手打2下patpat,我c6個亞嫲就話我係咪想打死個女呀,呢d你咪仲無得出聲!仲煩的是我個工人連湊細路都唔掂,莫講話縱,因為佢實在係無心機湊. (唔好意思,借d位發吓嚕蘇漆!)


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發表於 06-10-25 12:24 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

軒靚媽媽,
所有工人都一定會縱d細路, 因為咁樣佢地先會聽佢話多d, 另外教仔方面, 一定要靠自己, 你一定要同工人講明, 你教緊阿仔時, 工人一定唔可以出聲 & 出手幫阿仔, 如果唔係連工人都鬧埋, 咁樣工人就會知道, 唔會當小主人有難時, 就走埋o黎, 幫佢, & 你要話俾工人知有d咩事係要阿仔自己做, 唔可以咩都幫佢, 例如 : d玩具玩完一定要阿仔自己搞點, 你同工人講清楚咁大家都會好做啦!

另外之前有位媽咪提到講得好啱 "稍為好o既工人都好難求" 只要普通, 唔會成日出錯, 唔會出古惑, 唔會偷o野, 其實都已經好好啦! 你都要同你先生講, 係唔會有完美o既工人, 只會係驚一蟹不如一蟹, 到時就敝啦!


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發表於 06-10-25 13:04 |只看該作者

Re: ~~請大家幫我諗諗辦法, 好煩呀 ~~

我個舊同學個妹妹未就係咁比工人中壞晒囉, 人仔細細已經串到pk, 乜都大晒, 好恐怖架


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me too

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