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發表於 07-1-22 17:28 |只看該作者

Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

My husband sister can take care of my bb during weekdays, but she is living in Tin Shui Wai and we are living in Kowloon. I am afraid that I will miss my bb during weekdays. We are also thinking to hire Indonesian maid to take care bb so that I can see bb everyday. Although my husband works at home, that takes time to train the maid, and he has to stay with the maid alone at home. How should I do?

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發表於 07-1-22 18:38 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

我覺得長遠計都係請個工人好D, 橫掂你老公又可以係屋企教個工人, 兼睇住佢, 唔駛驚個工人對個BB亂黎!~ BB係人地道寄居, 成日都見唔到面, 我就唔捨得啦! 而且BB好快就會開始認人, 見得少, 佢唔認得咪弊?!~ 學我老公話齋, 點辛苦都無諗過放BB係人地道, 佢話BB點都要跟住自己喎!~

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發表於 07-1-22 18:49 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

我都想請個印印, 雖然我奶奶都係同我地住, 不過佢一個人根本攪唔到甘多野, 又要湊阿b, 又要做家務, 而家我老公想找個係香港滿約的, 不過又唔知有無人介紹, 同有甚麼手續跟收費, 我3月要返工架啦, 都唔知點算, 因為仲未有開始去搵.

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發表於 07-1-22 18:51 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

Your husband is so nice. My husband only thought of the advantages of putting bb in sister's house. He said we can have free time during weekdays. I am thinking the same thing as you do cuz I don't want my bb call someone else as mom or dad. We are thinking to put bb in sister's house until about one year old and then hire a maid after. Well, I have to care about my husband's thoughts as well since he will be the one tie up at home to train the maid with no freedom.... :cry: It's so difficult.... Orginally we both thought my husband can handle the bb as well as work at home, but after giving birth, we realize there is so much work to do....

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發表於 07-1-22 18:53 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

snoopy123 , 可否叫工人去你姑奶度學下野, 之後才叫佢同bb一齊返屋企, 又得唔得, 行唔行得通呢?

snoopy123 寫道:
Your husband is so nice. My husband only thought of the advantages of putting bb in sister's house. He said we can have free time during weekdays. I am thinking the same thing as you do cuz I don't want my bb call someone else as mom or dad. We are thinking to put bb in sister's house until about one year old and then hire a maid after. Well, I have to care about my husband's thoughts as well since he will be the one tie up at home to train the maid with no freedom.... :cry: It's so difficult.... Orginally we both thought my husband can handle the bb as well as work at home, but after giving birth, we realize there is so much work to do....

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發表於 07-1-22 18:54 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

我都同意丫... 我都係兩公婆要返工，而加請左工人湊bb，但我都會儘量自己湊，就算之後要返工，夜晚bb會跟我地訓。

由 SheetaLi 於 2007-01-22 18:38:49

我覺得長遠計都係請個工人好D, 橫掂你老公又可以係屋企教個工人, 兼睇住佢, 唔駛驚個工人對個BB亂黎!~ BB係人地道寄居, 成日都見唔到面, 我就唔捨得啦! 而且BB好快就會開始認人, 見得少, 佢唔認得咪弊?!~ 學我老公話齋, 點辛苦都無諗過放BB係人地道, 佢話BB點都要跟住自己喎!~

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發表於 07-1-22 18:56 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

I have checked out some agent, and they said those香港滿約的 is really picky. They may choose job to do, and don't really like new born bb especially having an adult at home to monitor. That's why it's so difficult for me to decide...

Plus who knows if the maid is good or not? I have heard so much bad things about them...

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發表於 07-1-22 18:58 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

Then you leave the maid with your newborn bb at home alone?

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小夢星寫道:
我都同意丫... 我都係兩公婆要返工，而加請左工人湊bb，但我都會儘量自己湊，就算之後要返工，夜晚bb會跟我地訓。

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發表於 07-1-23 11:03 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

我都係請左印印再叫我阿媽黎住幫手睇下, 點知我媽咪對個工人好不滿 (我覺得都過得去啦, 人總係有好有唔好....), 搞到我而家好鬼煩

不過有印印做阿四幫頭幫尾就無咁辛苦, 但變左我要manage埋我媽咪囉 (成日聽佢彈呢樣果樣囉)

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發表於 07-1-23 14:40 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

係喎, 唔想搵工人, 可唔可以搵d pt係屋企呀, 家務助理都得...

係呀, 最辛苦係頭2年, 2歲就可以去托兒啦....
我都係煩緊呢個問題.....
我屋企地方細, 跟本唔會請印印....
老爺奶奶又未退休, 我父母亦已經仙遊左, 好煩....
托嬰最近又係天水圍(我住元朗)......
可能搵人湊啦, 未知

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/angel-myself我個blog~~!

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發表於 07-1-23 18:05 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

You are a lot better la. At least you live in Yuen Long, closer to Tin Shui Wai. You can go to visit your bb after work. I live in Kowloon and my husband's sister live in Tin Shui Wai. We now plan to put bb in his sister's house for first 6-9months and then hire maid after. I am afraid that if bb stay with sister's house for too long, bb won't recognize me.

Angel小茵寫道:
係喎, 唔想搵工人, 可唔可以搵d pt係屋企呀, 家務助理都得...

係呀, 最辛苦係頭2年, 2歲就可以去托兒啦....
我都係煩緊呢個問題.....
我屋企地方細, 跟本唔會請印印....
老爺奶奶又未退休, 我父母亦已經仙遊左, 好煩....
托嬰最近又係天水圍(我住元朗)......
可能搵人湊啦, 未知

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發表於 07-1-23 18:52 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

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發表於 07-1-23 19:08 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

snoopy123,

Same as you, my husband is working at home and he doesn't want to have a stranger at home and it isn't convenience for him as well. My mum can help me to take care of bb but she needs a helper. So our solution is we move to somewhere near my mum and share the Indo maid with her. The maid brings my bb to my mum house in the morning and helps my mum to do the housework and cooking. We have dinner at mum's house and bring the bb back home so that we can see bb everyday and the maid cleans our house during weekend.

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發表於 07-1-23 19:30 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

六個月先開始認人, 不過, 你俾邊個湊, 你如果要返工, 都係見咁多je..放工bb 都要訓覺啦.

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發表於 07-1-23 19:51 |只看該作者

Re: Please give me some opinion! Who takes care of my bb?

52806cm, your case is very good. my mum also stayed nearby us. She lived in NorthPoint, I lived in Saiwanho. But I dont want the maid brings my babe to travel everyday. So sometimes, i will ask my mum to my home to monitor the maid. Actually, just let the maid know someone is here.

Snoopy123, long time no see. From some reference said, babe can recognized the smell and sound very clearly. This is not a good solution to let your bb stay at your hubby's sister home, if you only take her back every weekend and cannot see her during weekdays.

My bb is approx. 2 months~ My experience tells me no need a long time to train up a maid. In the beg. i have to write down my regulations / bb schedule to her and ask her to follow. BTW, you'll better to seek for an Indo. maid from Singapore and having take care of bb experience. As Sing paid lower salary than HK, not much picky than HK.

The important thing is : talk to yr hubby and tell him your concern. this is a big adv. that your hubby can stay in to monitor the maid.

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