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你地覺得CIO (Cry It Out)方法使BB入睡是否會對BB造成心理傷害? [複製鏈接]

maysiupoon

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發表於 08-1-8 16:55 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I'd like to collect some advice before applying this method.

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sa2501

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ChungChungMommy

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發表於 08-1-13 19:23 |只看該作者

DEAR ALL,
"CIO" IS IT MEANS LET BABY CRY UNTIL HE/SHE CAN SLEEP BY HIMSELF/HERSELF?

原文章由 sa2501 於 08-1-8 20:04 發表
yes, definitely damage more than anything. esp. young baby.

in western world, doctor already stop recommending this method.

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ChungChungMommy

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發表於 08-1-14 09:42 |只看該作者

I REALLY WANT TO KNOW. I WANT TO TRAIN MY BABY TO SLEEP BY HERSELF.

原文章由 ChungChungMommy 於 08-1-13 19:23 發表
DEAR ALL,
"CIO" IS IT MEANS LET BABY CRY UNTIL HE/SHE CAN SLEEP BY HIMSELF/HERSELF?

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原文章由 maysiupoon 於 08-1-8 16:55 發表
I'd like to collect some advice before applying this method.

bb就唔知
但聽過係會影響bb既心理
如果換係我
喊極媽咪都唔理
我自己會覺得好慘
母性驅使我會立即抱起喊緊既bb
所以我仔就黎1歲
我都係抱住等佢訓著先
辛苦少少但唔緊要
抱極都係幾年啫
第時大左想抱都唔俾你抱
(個人意見:loveliness: )

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mm7163

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發表於 08-1-15 10:24 |只看該作者

I agree. 我覺得咁樣太殘忍啦！我個囡係一歲前都係抱著黎暗瞓覺。但而家我一話夠鐘瞓，佢就會拖我入房，我就喺隔離陪佢瞓著為止，都ok架！Of course有時佢都扭抱。
其實都唔使需要什麼trainning, BB大大下就會識自己瞓，到時你想抱，佢都覺得唔舒服

原文章由 雪~bb 於 08-1-15 01:51 發表

bb就唔知
但聽過係會影響bb既心理
如果換係我
喊極媽咪都唔理
我自己會覺得好慘
母性驅使我會立即抱起喊緊既bb
所以我仔就黎1歲
我都係抱住等佢訓著先
辛苦少少但唔緊要
抱極都係幾年啫
第時大左想抱都唔俾你抱
(個 ...

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emmyfok

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發表於 08-1-15 11:10 |只看該作者

My two daughters and many of my friends' babies used this method. Very good method indeed. It seems to be a little cruel. But I do think it make both babies and mothers get better rest. And all those babies I know are very healthy. No psychological problem found.

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發表於 08-1-15 16:49 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 maysiupoon 的文章

Hi

It really depends on how you use it... it is OK to let your baby to cry for a few mins (My case would be 5 mins) If you want to train your baby to fall asleep him/herself, you may consider doing this

1. Put her on bed when she is awake (make sure she is full and burp and nappy is clean)
2. leave the room and let her cry for a mins
3. go back in and pat her for a min (no eye contact)
4. if she keep crying, let her cry for another min
5. go back in and rock her (no eye contact)
6. if she keep crying again, let her cry for a min again
7. go back in and give her a dummy (noeye contact again)

From my experience, my BB will fall asleep in 15 mins, and after 2 weeks, she can fall asleep herself without crying much (less than 2 mins normally) Sometimes she didn't cry at all

Hope it helps

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原文章由 雪~bb 於 08-1-15 01:51 發表

bb就唔知
但聽過係會影響bb既心理
如果換係我
喊極媽咪都唔理
我自己會覺得好慘
母性驅使我會立即抱起喊緊既bb
所以我仔就黎1歲
我都係抱住等佢訓著先
辛苦少少但唔緊要
抱極都係幾年啫
第時大左想抱都唔俾你抱
(個 ...

Agree!!!!

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原文章由 牛精仔 於 08-1-15 17:14 發表

Agree!!!!

Agree too!!!

冇必要,bb大左自己就會去訓,到時你想抱佢佢都未必采你啦

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orion_ckho

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發表於 08-1-16 12:54 |只看該作者

When my son was 1 month old, I started using this method, and he could fall asleep on his own after one-two weeks. He is now 17 months old, and he is a happy baby. When my son cried, I would take a look at him from time to time, saw if he was ok and then left the room. We only let him cry when we were sure he was sleepy and not having any other needs.

家裏有林小菲和林小昊.......

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ChungChungMommy

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發表於 08-1-17 01:33 |只看該作者

THANKS FOR THE SHARING. I HAVE MORE IDEA NOW!

原文章由 BabaTed 於 08-1-16 16:11 發表
有冇曾經試過的媽媽可以分享一下呢？
我想知ＢＢ有冇聲沙？喊左幾耐同用左幾日先ＯＫ呢？同埋係咪之後都好少喊返轉頭呢？

想分享一下我最近睇一本書叫Healthy Sleep Habit, Happy Child, 是有關ＢＢ睡眠的。

ＢＢ在１至４個月時未識摟抱要人注 ...

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sasa@uk

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發表於 08-1-17 03:36 |只看該作者

CIO 係完全唔理個 bb 由得佢喊幾個鐘又好, 喊到嘔都好. 唔理佢.

CC (control crying) 係由 bb 喊 1分鐘, 回去 check bb, 2分鐘 ... 漸漸將時間拉長.

CIO - not recommended.

CC - 最好 6個月以上先試. 如果唔係好易有負面影響

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Carlsson

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發表於 08-1-17 10:25 |只看該作者

我初時見到cio, 都想試的...
但亞仔同工人瞓, 我又唔忍心, 所以無試...:lol:

咁亞仔(細時)要抱&食奶嘴至瞓, 所以我首先唔抱佢, 係牀度睇吓書, 玩吓...
佢想瞓就同佢講, 不如關燈瞓覺, 拍吓拍吓, 1-2日已經唔洗抱佢瞓...
但奶嘴到e+20個月都未戒, 等佢2歲先啦...