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別墅

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發表於 07-7-31 10:18 |只看該作者
我覺得同工人相處真係有好多學問,有時候提点佢地都要好多技巧,如果唔係佢地會以為我地針對佢,影响大家既關係。
My new Bun come to work for us just for a week, we think that she is quite good and take all the housework without our reminder. Besides, she likes my son and seems to very responsible and keep an eye to my son even when she is doing housework. Yesterday, we found that there is some blood over the head of my baby, we think that the baby hurt himself at bed(there is a toy hanged at the bedside, somtimes he will hit it when he is losing temper). I just tell and ask our maid if she observed the sign. She is quite defensive and think that we were accused her to hurt the baby. After we have explained, she felt a bit little released. It's hard to cnvey this type of message sometimes, right?!
bowie_p ;-)


複式洋房

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發表於 07-7-31 12:01 |只看該作者
I have the same kind of experience as you. After you have explained to her that it is just a friendly reminder and not blamed her for the fault, she is relieved. However, after 2-3 weeks, the maid finally left us due to her financial problem. Therefore, my feeling is that even though how you care about what she feels, she doesn't really care about you and your family at all.

Anyway, good luck to you!! I am still trying hard to search for a replacement.


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發表於 07-7-31 12:09 |只看該作者
yes, totally agreed. i will tried to just talk casual.... and sometimes I will even try to find an excuse for her so that she won't feel I'm blaming her...... but then.. now, she will copy what I did.. in the morning, she will look through baby's .. and if she found red spot.. or sth.. then she will just ask me "there is red spot on baby xx"..........sound like I've to report to her............................



原文章由 kinmom 於 07-7-31 12:01 發表
I have the same kind of experience as you. After you have explained to her that it is just a friendly reminder and not blamed her for the fault, she is relieved. However, after 2-3 weeks, the m ...


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發表於 07-7-31 12:39 |只看該作者
my 14 months baby, sometimes I found that my baby has red spots on her pet pet when I came home at night, when I ask my maid, she must say that she found some bowels when she change diaper for baby when baby wakes up (as baby sleeps with me at night), which means it is my fault, as my maid knows that I can't change diaper for baby in the early morning


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發表於 07-7-31 15:57 |只看該作者
Yes, agreed. Frankly speaking, they are cool-blood even though how emphathy you are. I raised my example, the maid I just fired had asked me to advance $1000 from her salary. Of course, I lend it to her and automatically deduct it in three installment, i.e. $400, $400, and $200. However, just after the first time deduction, I were told that she became a guarantor for her friend, I asked her why make use of the contract and my personal information in this way, she argued with me ......... without any shame and gultiy at all


原文章由 kinmom 於 07-7-31 12:01 發表
I have the same kind of experience as you. After you have explained to her that it is just a friendly reminder and not blamed her for the fault, she is relieved. However, after 2-3 weeks, the m ...
孩子需要鼓勵, 適當的稱讚和鼓勵, 會使他更努力去完成任務, 對自己更有自信. 在小朋友的學習過程中,父母的啟發與鼓勵是十分重要。

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