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the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do? [複製鏈接]

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發表於 07-8-17 17:44 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I found that the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do?

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原文章由 yi 於 07-8-17 17:44 發表
I found that the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do?

stole? what do you mean? she kept the apple and eat outside during holidays?

I placed the fruits in open area, my maid don't eat it unless I tell her to eat, but actually I don't mind she eat fruits after lunch when I am not at home, she don't need to stole any food.

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發表於 07-8-17 17:55 |只看該作者

Is the Apple come from Japan? If yes, don't buy the expensive fruit. or you ate it after you buy.

You can euqire her, If she want to eat, buy some come from China (fuji apple) HK$10 have 4 pcs.

If you go outside to work, don't buy too many expensive thing at home. cus you didn't have too many time look after everthink.

She need to take care children? elder people or pet?

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發表於 07-8-17 18:06 |只看該作者

你之前有無講明咩食得,咩無食得架?
在我家,除左講明唔食得既野之外,任何野佢都食得,
我地無偷呢個概念架噃!
我成日焗蛋糕,pizza,煮海鮮,煎扒,整呢整路,但得兩公婆,唔食得咁多,就成日叫個工人食多d,食多d,佢話我嘈肥佢,死都唔肯食咁多!

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-17 17:44 發表
I found that the maid stole apple to eat, what should i do?

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發表於 07-8-17 18:11 |只看該作者

你點知她食了, 係無問你之下吃了, 定你認為她貪心胃食,

其實都好小問題, 吃了你地無得吃, 咪叫她唔好再有下次, 唔洗太緊張, 唔係c好多細胞.

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發表於 07-8-17 18:37 |只看該作者

Apple is not expensive, in fact, I don't mind her to eat fruit if she ask. However I think she don't expect me come home suddenly, so she keep the apple in the 米缸櫃內，this makes me feel unhappy, seems very dishonest and 鬼祟.
It is a matter of honesty誠信, I don't know what she do behind me.Do I take it too servious? What should I talk to her?

黃阿ma, she needs to take care my child .5 yrs old.

[ 本文章最後由 yi 於 07-8-17 18:39 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-8-18 00:06 |只看該作者

I talked to her already, but 會唔會傷了她的自尊，從此無心機工作？:-|

[ 本文章最後由 yi 於 07-8-18 00:09 編輯 ]

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原文章由 <i>yi</i> 於 07-8-17 18:37 發表 <Apple is not expensive, in fact, I don't mind her to eat fruit if she ask. However I think she don't expect me come home suddenly, so she keep the apple in the 米缸櫃內，this makes me feel unhapp ...

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I have not specified what she can eat and what she cannot. Basically my maid is free to eat fruit, bread and daily food.

Once I walked by the kitchen and saw my maid eating a cake. She looked nervous when she saw me and she squeezed the cake inside her fist trying to hide it. I didn't understand why she did it. I did not mind her eating the cake at all. My daughter also had similar experience and she was puzzled too and felt sorry that the maid treated herself so lowly.

I think sometimes maids are not clear about what employers like and dislike especially when employers do not give clear directives. Your maid being "gwai she" may not be a bad thing. At least she is not "dai yiu dai buy"

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發表於 07-8-18 11:20 |只看該作者

我個人從來唔會理我工人食咩,成屋野任佢食,我最驚佢唔食添.

所以我工人唔會有收埋d野食呢種怪行.

樓主,其實您可婉轉d同工人講,唔好太惡,畢竟呢d係好少事,您可以同佢講,下次想食蘋果就食啦,千祈唔好擺呢d野係米缸櫃呀,會惹昆虫架.
咁講會唔會好d??:mrgreen:

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發表於 07-8-18 11:45 |只看該作者

me too

原文章由 FA8866 於 07-8-18 11:20 發表
我個人從來唔會理我工人食咩,成屋野任佢食,我最驚佢唔食添.
所以我工人唔會有收埋d野食呢種怪行.
樓主,其實您可婉轉d同工人講,唔好太惡,畢竟呢d係好少事,您可以同佢講,下次想食蘋果就食啦,千祈 ...

我鐘意你同我講 I Love U, I Love U Too！
You are the sunshine of my life. That's why I'll always stay around. You are the apple of my eye. Forever you'll stay in my heart.

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發表於 07-8-18 13:35 |只看該作者

點解d工人要咁鬼祟?
咪因為佢覺得個主人會唔比/唔like佢地食屋企既任何野囉.
有d工人開聲問,又會比主人話:獅子開大口,想創你個心....
你都見到係呢個討論區,都有d媽咪係咁講野架啦,
或者佢以前個僱主,只比白飯青菜比個工人食呢,佢咪唔敢問囉.
之前都有個媽咪post過,話佢99成日比d爛生果比個工人食,如果屋企無其他人敢幫個工人,個工人都只可以敢怒不敢言.而且,99可能會睇住個工人有無食,唔食就唔like添!
如果比我發現佢收埋個萍果係米江,我會即刻問佢,點解有個萍果係米江既?我會順勢同佢講,"d萍果好易爛架,買左就要2,3日內食,唔等得.你快d食左佢啦.第時咪再比生果係米江啦."
等佢知道,你係唔介意佢食.
好多時候,講大話係因為唔想比主人知,以為主人會鬧,唔鬧咪唔洗驚,唔洗講大話囉!

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發表於 07-8-18 13:57 |只看該作者

I won't destroy the relationship between me and my maid for an apple, especially I need her to take care a 5 yr old child.

[ 本文章最後由 clarasun 於 07-8-18 14:06 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-8-18 14:52 |只看該作者

你工人會唔會怕你覺得佢食緊o野（除吃正餐）等於佢偷懶，驚你唔鍾意，所以急起想黎，亂左陣腳，諗住求其找個地方收埋先呢？

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發表於 07-8-18 19:27 |只看該作者

I think the case is just like sunba mama said.
Anyway, I have explained to her I don't mind her eating fruit. Of course fruit is for eating, so no need 鬼祟. I hope she understand.

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發表於 07-8-19 01:08 |只看該作者

My maid also likes to steal food to eat. Actually, my ex-maid already told her that we are very generous to give enough food to maid since we understand that they need more energy to do housework. However, my maid always like to steal food.

She always pretends eating few food (my ex-maid also thinks so as they have met for handover). Indeed, she eats a lot. For example, she eats 4 eggs in one day. Also, she will eat dinner twice (one before we come back home and one with us). Actually, I really don't mind her eating a lot. But I should know how much we should buy every week. I hate her because she is not honest.

From the webcam, I always saw her eating those food that we haven't told her to eat (but we are more than pleased to let her eat if she asked) or we have offered her but she pretends that she does not like. She will eat my baby's cheese and biscuits, use knife to trim the dry bbq pork and chocolate that you have opened the wrapping, drink your juice and add water afterwards. I really don't understand why.

We always offer extra food and snack (if we eat in front of her). But she is just not honest and keep telling lies even we told her honesty is the most important thing in our house. I don't mind the food but I hate her not honest.

原文章由 yi 於 07-8-18 19:27 發表
I think the case is just like sunba mama said.
Anyway, I have explained to her I don't mind her eating fruit. Of course fruit is for eating, so no need 鬼祟. I hope she understand.

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發表於 07-8-19 01:27 |只看該作者

yes,agree.如果我係樓主,我會好驚訝個工人咁淒涼收埋個泙果响米缸

我會問佢咁樣係咪好味d?

然后叫佢herher聲幫手食生果,個肚有位掃埋d零食,舊o既唔去新點黎呀,我都係同fa咁,而得佢食晒,我無咁肥tim:mrgreen:

原文章由 方方媽媽 於 07-8-18 13:35 發表
點解d工人要咁鬼祟?
咪因為佢覺得個主人會唔比/唔like佢地食屋企既任何野囉.
有d工人開聲問,又會比主人話:獅子開大口,想創你個心....
你都見到係呢個討論區,都有d媽咪係咁講野架啦,
或者佢以前個僱主,只比白 ...

春有百花秋有月夏有涼風冬有雪若無閒事掛心頭便是人間好時節

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因為我都明若一句任佢食的話,可能一發不可收拾,在意的唔係十元八塊,係我都會怕佢亂食野食到病,但我一早講明"點去食"屋企野,我自問屋企無野係唔俾得佢食,盒裝飲品,咖啡奶茶或零食佢都可以食,但我講明佢要顧及自己健康,唔可以過份,and我飯後生果也好,甜品也好,我都鍾意叫埋佢一齊食,平日得我女同佢兩人時,我都教我女食野預埋佢一齊,anyway而家無問題,工人放假時重買包餅返嚟俾我女,同我女一齊食!所以佢都習慣左食係唔洗鬼鬼鼠鼠的啊!
不妨多D叫佢同你地一齊食野,或者佢明呢

[ 本文章最後由 cameo 於 07-8-19 15:39 編輯 ]