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發表於 07-9-20 11:46 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 20:57 編輯

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發表於 07-9-20 13:48 |只看該作者
你的心情我可以理解,要點解決亦好明顯.希望你加油啦 !
cheep up:lol !


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發表於 07-9-20 14:26 |只看該作者
ellislui

唔好唔開心,大家心平氣和商量吓,凡事總有解决嘅方法架!

原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-20 11:46 發表
I'm a working mum with two children, last one only at his 6 months, it's understood that some person must be involved in helping to care the children, a maid therefore was a/v. My mon would help somet ...


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發表於 07-9-20 14:29 |只看該作者
我好明白你o既situation, 不過同時間地我覺得你唔可以太依賴你媽咪, 我覺得佢冇責任幫你照顧bb, 好似我自己咁都有2個小朋友, 我從來冇要求屋企人幫我, 當然有時佢地幫我我都好感謝佢地, 但我個人認為小朋友係自己o既, 我地就有責任安排好點去照顧佢地, 如果你一個姐姐照顧唔到, 可以請多個, 如果係budget問題咁可以請part-time, 問題始終要你自己先解決到, 加油吧~!!



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發表於 07-9-20 14:44 |只看該作者
唔係你的父母一定要幫你看小朋友, 我的父母亦一様, 不喜歡照顧孫兒, 覺得十分困身, 我亦曾跟你一樣, :-( 過很多次.但現在已明白了, 小朋友是自己的, 沒有人有義務照顧他們, 任何事只可靠自己和丈夫, 你也要努力面對.


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發表於 07-9-20 14:46 |只看該作者
babyoush

你講得好啱!我都係2個小朋友,所以轉咗做全職媽咪啦!

原文章由 babyoush 於 07-9-20 14:29 發表
我好明白你o既situation, 不過同時間地我覺得你唔可以太依賴你媽咪, 我覺得佢冇責任幫你照顧bb, 好似我自己咁都有2個小朋友, 我從來冇要求屋企人幫我, 當然有時佢地幫我我都好感謝佢地, 但我個人認為小朋友係自己o既 ...


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發表於 07-9-20 15:08 |只看該作者
小朋友是自己的, 沒有人有義務照顧他們, 你要努力!!!


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發表於 07-9-20 15:24 |只看該作者
原文章由 vane@nana 於 07-9-20 15:08 發表
小朋友是自己的, 沒有人有義務照顧他們, 你要努力!!!

同意! 所以 ellislui 妳唔好再寄望媽媽的幫忙, 因為咁只會令自己越來越唔開心, 倒不如考慮可不可以轉做 ft mama。 不能的話, 唯有盡自己的能力做到最好就 ok!

努力、加油呀!


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發表於 07-9-20 21:21 |只看該作者
你媽咪係咪覺得揍孫辛苦呀,可能佢諗都揍大你地,而家都大年紀想去玩吓,唔想咁困身,不如你考慮請工人啦,我覺得幾好喎,又唔駛自己煮飯,又有人執屋


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發表於 07-9-20 22:44 |只看該作者
原文章由 fishmum 於 07-9-20 14:46 發表
babyoush

你講得好啱!我都係2個小朋友,所以轉咗做全職媽咪啦!


我都做咗全職媽啦, 你d小朋友幾大呀??


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發表於 07-9-20 23:00 |只看該作者
babyoush,

你講得啱, 我都係因為覺得要bb係自己既決定, 既然要得就要負責任, 無人有責任幫我.

原本plan左是媽媽幫我湊的, 只是在放產假期間, 自己深深體會到湊bb有幾辛苦, 尤其是無覺好瞓, 我唔想將自己的一個決定, 讓媽媽辛苦, 現在應該是媽媽享福的時間, 所以轉了做全職mami.

原文章由 babyoush 於 07-9-20 14:29 發表
我好明白你o既situation, 不過同時間地我覺得你唔可以太依賴你媽咪, 我覺得佢冇責任幫你照顧bb, 好似我自己咁都有2個小朋友, 我從來冇要求屋企人幫我, 當然有時佢地幫我我都好感謝佢地, 但我個人認為小朋友係自己o既 ...
老公 + 仔仔 = 我一生的成就


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發表於 07-9-21 09:46 |只看該作者
原文章由 cat.siu 於 07-9-20 23:00 發表
babyoush,

你講得啱, 我都係因為覺得要bb係自己既決定, 既然要得就要負責任, 無人有責任幫我.

原本plan左是媽媽幫我湊的, 只是在放產假期間, 自己深深體會到湊bb有幾辛苦, 尤其是無覺好瞓, 我唔想將自己的一個決定 ...


我仲記得初初生大女冇請工人幫手, 老公日頭要返工夜晚幫唔到我, 自己一個人抱住個女冇得瞓, 個女又日夜顛倒晚晚都唔願瞓, 咁o既生活維持咗2,3個月人都顛, 試過夜晚一個人望住個女喊, 不過我同自己講, 係我自己話自己揍, 唔衰得架衰咗都唔會有人可憐, 所以頂硬上終於大女日夜正常返, 好開心苦盡甘來


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發表於 07-9-21 15:15 |只看該作者
原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-20 11:46 發表
I'm a working mum with two children, last one only at his 6 months, it's understood that some person must be involved in helping to care the children, a maid therefore was a/v. My mon would help somet ...




Hi ellislui,

I'm same with u, my mom is too old (> 80 yrs old). My 99 does not like to take care my daugther (2 yrs old). I have maid, she does the cleaning and cooking only. My hubby and me work shift, so we can take care of my daughter by our selves, sometimes we are very exhausted. At some occation, both of us were not at home for 2-3 hrs, maybe once per month, my hubby will ask/request my 99 to look after my daugther. Once I arrived home, my 99 would leave as soon as possible. Our relationships is ok, she only just look at my girl playing with the maid. I'm so confused is it really a hard job? I know she has no obligation, but just help me occaionally. Why she doesn't help?


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發表於 07-9-21 18:22 |只看該作者
萬二分同情。不過你唔開心+埋唔夠瞓會好易病,再傳埋俾BB,咁就係惡性循環啦。你有冇諗過暫托呀?你可以search下你住果區有冇,有時可以托幾粒鍾架.

原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-20 11:46 發表
I'm a working mum with two children, last one only at his 6 months, it's understood that some person must be involved in helping to care the children, a maid therefore was a/v. My mon would help somet ...


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發表於 07-9-21 23:59 |只看該作者
原文章由 cat.siu 於 07-9-20 23:00 發表
babyoush,

你講得啱, 我都係因為覺得要bb係自己既決定, 既然要得就要負責任, 無人有責任幫我.

原本plan左是媽媽幫我湊的, 只是在放產假期間, 自己深深體會到湊bb有幾辛苦, 尤其是無覺好瞓, 我唔想將自己的一個決定 ...


我同你一樣,本黎都係媽咪湊,但佢發覺太耐無湊好辛苦,而且佢有糖尿病,又湊到隻手痛...所以當初都有埋怨...我同佢都唔開心...最後我把心一橫做 ft 媽咪,而家佢反而一得閒就黎我屋企睇阿b...或者我要做freelance job時都主顧黎take care bb...咁情況仲好..


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發表於 07-9-22 15:09 |只看該作者
ellislui,

Taking care of children esp toddler is not an easy task really.. It requires lots of energy and patience since they start to crawl, run, climb, jump, break things, talk.. Well, stage of exploration & experimenting. Sometimes, things they do could be harmful to themselves too. Feeding a toddler is also full of challenge and the house could end up very messy.

I am grateful that my mother is willing to help. Yet, I don't want her to be too tiring & exhausted since she is not young anymore. She has the right to enjoy her life & freedom so basically I am taking care of BB myself. I will ask for help as needed only..


原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-20 11:46 發表
I'm a working mum with two children, last one only at his 6 months, it's understood that some person must be involved in helping to care the children, a maid therefore was a/v. My mon would help somet ...


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發表於 07-9-22 15:55 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 20:58 編輯
原文章由 babyoush 於 07-9-20 14:29 發表
我好明白你o既situation, 不過同時間地我覺得你唔可以太依賴你媽咪, 我覺得佢冇責任幫你照顧bb, 好似我自己咁都有2個小朋友, 我從來冇要求屋企人幫我, 當然有時佢地幫我我都好感謝佢地, 但我個人認為小朋友係自己o既 ...


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發表於 07-9-23 00:23 |只看該作者
原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-22 15:55 發表


thank you for the reply, I'm so glad as here was place to share, I think that all the full time moms got their reasons and 'power' for example money for being a full time mom, however, I had been di ...


你都唔好太難過啦, 其實講真你估我唔想舒服d咩, 唉...得先得架, 你媽咪已經好過我媽咪架啦, 我係阿媽眼中係咩都唔好, 咩都唔o岩心水, 成日少少事都鬧, 唔係話我白痴就係話我冇腦, 我唔想個女好似我咁先迫住堅持自己揍, 家家有本難念的經, 得閒多d上嚟bk吐下苦水, 大家互相支持時間好快過, 到小朋友大d就會好好多架啦, 加油努力啦~


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發表於 07-9-23 08:45 |只看該作者
Hello ellislui

見到咁多人支持你,心情應該好D啦係咪?

我好同意你講"certainly would help my children to care their babies in the future because I love them",其實有孫湊都係一種福份。自己都係媽咪,梗愛錫D仔女,可能有時表達嘅方式唔同遮!我唸你媽咪係鍚你嘅!

努力呀!

原文章由 ellislui 於 07-9-22 15:55 發表


thank you for the reply, I'm so glad as here was place to share, I think that all the full time moms got their reasons and 'power' for example money for being a full time mom, however, I had been di ...


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本帖最後由 ellislui 於 13-4-8 21:00 編輯

thank you for the reply,

babyoush,

sure,
thank you again

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