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candynoble


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發表於 07-10-9 10:29 |只看該作者
I divorce a year ago, I am so tired. I have no hope on her.


Whenever I ask her to finish her homework, she just don't follow, my maid said that she keep watching TV until I come home. Is always like this. unless I am violet angry then she will behave for one day, then another day back to normal, lazy and irresponsible. Always take it for granted or give my son hard time.
I am a single mother, my ex even don't want to pay the maintenance, everyweek when he see my kids my maid will ask him money for the expenses, She told me that he try to ask the maid to stop to buy milk for my son. (2 yrs and 10 months). He said he is growing up and no need that much protein. He only give 100 to her, so totally is only 400 for a month so how can I survive for our family. He is really hopeless.


But now my problem is my daughter's character. I kick away my husband because I cannot stand on such a man who is totally irresponsible, don't want to pay money for the house and sleep in the living for whole night. If I ask him to go back to the room, he go back unwillingly. So what is the point to get married? He should marry the TV and computer games, I bring up this in few times, He always just say " I know, will go back to the room"


My son is an acccident, I will not do abortion. so heres come another bb, I stand for another year, hope he will change back to a responsible person. But it never happen.
I bring this up because I don't know where to tell and say. I suffer, but I still have a hope on my kids, but now my daughter really put me down because her attitude is really poor. She is also very rude to her classmate. Her teacher told me that there is a lots of comments on this matter.
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ding-2003


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發表於 07-10-9 23:36 |只看該作者
反叛年齡開始，你只能用軟，不可硬施。
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wakeup07


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發表於 07-10-10 17:32 |只看該作者
原文章由 candynoble 於 07-10-9 10:29 發表
I divorce a year ago, I am so tired. I have no hope on her.


Whenever I ask her to finish her homework, she just don't follow, my maid said that she keep watching TV until I come home. Is always l ...




you know your daughter is 12yr old, not too young to know what happen with her parent....she know you both can't live happily togther,but did you both sit down and tell her the problem and your decision clamly??? she has right to know what is going on and you hv to treat her as a adult and family member.

what i can guess is your daughter's temper is affected by the divorce, she can't stand or can't accept the truth, plus you hv new baby now, she might think you both going to lleave her alone, no one love and care her anymore.....so she is behaving badly to get your attention like a baby or toddlers's attention seeking....

you might want to talk to the social workers in school, let them talk to her and explain to her fr the third person. Also, i know you're in a hard time but please do remember give your daughter more love, HUG HER MORE, KISS HER MORE AND TALK TO HER MORE.....later on your baby born, can ask her help to take care of baby, give her more responsibility, she will think she is belongs to this family more and you need her.

REMEMBER " ALWAYS TELL HER YOU LOVE HER "...:loveliness: :loveliness:

[ 本文章最後由 wakeup07 於 07-10-10 17:34 編輯 ]
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candynoble


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發表於 07-10-11 11:43 |只看該作者
Thank for both of your advice, I will try hard, but sometimes is very tired. Especially need to chase those maintence from my ex.

Why are they like that, totally change without any morol

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發表於 07-10-12 13:19 |只看該作者
原文章由 candynoble 於 07-10-11 11:43 發表
Thank for both of your advice, I will try hard, but sometimes is very tired. Especially need to chase those maintence from my ex.

Why are they like that, totally change without any morol


好明白你 (我個細囡都係12yrs), 佢地係好受朋輩影響, lee個時候係考我地EQ ge時候, 希望大家一齊努力.
至於你個ex, 都5好再諗佢la.
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wakeup07


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發表於 07-10-12 15:58 |只看該作者
原文章由 candynoble 於 07-10-11 11:43 發表
Thank for both of your advice, I will try hard, but sometimes is very tired. Especially need to chase those maintence from my ex.

Why are they like that, totally change without any morol


did you officially divorce with ex??? did he sign the maintence for you? if yes, still can run away with the money??

for my case, we hvn't go officially but he said he will...yep, so far still give maintence but not on time, so i hate it so much...i hate the feeling chasing or reminding him to transfer, looks like i'm begging him gum......:tongue: :tongue:

they totally change without any moral, i guess they think we're not his wife anymore, not related, so not unresponsibled...also, they need more money to chase the new target ga ma.................
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