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你地有冇開始擔心?! 自己本身都係做教育既,
見到而家時下個d小朋友, 真係"店"....
而家我要係紅豆手上拿野個時, 佢有時都會發脾氣
(好勞氣既打身邊既野, 如地下, 學行車)....
不過我而家都耐心教佢"比"既意思....

今日有一樣好窩心既, 就係我一放工返黎....
佢見到我就叫 "媽媽"............"lum"晒........

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教佢好困難o架...現在才叫剛開始要打好根基的好時候了...小叭都明白俾俾的意思, 亦都肯做. 因為佢的性格係好想做到俾人睇, 做到之後有人贊佢叻叻, 佢會好開心, 但如果有時候佢做唔到就會好生氣...要我幫下手, 幫佢再做到才唔生氣. 所以現在同佢做每一樣o野, 都會同佢講 eg: 坐低食o野就係good good boy, 叻叻. 飲水水(指住個水樽)就係good good boy, 當佢發脾氣時, 我會話no no 咁樣唔可以o架, 睇下, 係地下了. 痛痛啊....哦佢成5mins, 等佢知道自己唔對...so far到現在都ok

原文章由 Angel小茵 於 07-11-20 22:49 發表
你地有冇開始擔心?! 自己本身都係做教育既,
見到而家時下個d小朋友, 真係"店"....
而家我要係紅豆手上拿野個時, 佢有時都會發脾氣
(好勞氣既打身邊既野, 如地下, 學行車)....
不過我而家都耐心教佢"比"既意思....

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小叭係06年12月5日出世時重3.23kgs,1個月4.55kgs,2個月6.40kgs,3個月7.72kgs,4個月8.20kgs,5個月8.80kgs, 6個月10.00kgs, 7個月9.55kgs, 8個月10.00kgs, 9個月10.16kgs, 10個月10.45kgs, 11個月10.91kgs
(4個月第一次反身, 5個月坐, 8個半月爬, 9個半月出牙(上面兩只),10個月出牙(上面兩只)12個月7只牙, 11.81 kgs

細叭係09年1月26日出世, 體重6磅半.
4個半月轉身, 5個月識坐, 7個半月出第一只牙(下面)

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my bb always 得把聲，if he wants to get sth and we don't allow him to do so. he will 發老脾n fling 手fling腳！then we explain to him. if he cont' to behave like this, we just leave him alone and sometimes even put him back on his crib. then he will stop and smile back to us again. :tongue:

i always remind myself not to spoil him. we still have a long way to go!!!!

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發脾氣亂丟o野打人 bu口水依o的不當o既行為都會照話佢同佢講no no! 曳曳!
佢有時好似明明地會望下你然後唔做一想做見你say no 佢就停
有時又會特登做你話佢呢佢就笑好似挑戰你咁
話係會話會講一大輪解釋一大餐但係又唔會太擔心太勞氣o既
都知道佢依家依個階段就係會做依o的o野正常~~
好似特登丟o野俾我o地執係佢地依個年齡會出現o既行為反而佢唔做即係唔識向前擲依個動作我就仲擔心
所以依家o米俾個波佢擲囉佢要擲就擲個波囉
我擲俾佢佢又擲返俾我互相拋波仔咁囉~~~ 當做運動!!!

總之唔好理佢識唔識明唔明一做錯就要say no 俾佢分辨是非對錯!

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我個惡女真係好難教第時,我每次都話佢,佢都係發晒脾四,佢有佢發,我都會講,等佢知道佢吾可以

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希希都係唔LIKE 人地捉佢隻手, 好似教佢"飽飽" 咁, 佢拍左上心口, 我捉佢隻手拍肚腩, 佢就甩都甩唔切, 重要發脾四走左去. 叫佢唔好行埋電視&禁D制, 越係say no 就越要做. :tongue:

我已經成日no 佢. 同佢講, 不過佢都係走左去. 呢
輪學埋發脾四時整拱橋添呀.

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甜甜都係勁臭脾氣, 又霸道, 我都成日鬧佢, 不過都一樣o甘奀皮!
自己細個時好唔鐘意俾阿媽鬧, 估唔到依家到我鬧我個女... 我依家先知阿媽湊大我係好辛苦, 媽媽i love you!!

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Hi, i just finished reading a book which is suggested by some members in BK. The book name is "孩子, 把你的手給我". It talks about how to communicate with ur kids.

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我宜家每日講得最多, 就係個"NO"字...

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原文章由 baby_yuyu 於 07-11-21 01:22 PM 發表
Hi, i just finished reading a book which is suggested by some members in BK. The book name is "孩子, 把你的手給我". It talks about how to communicate with ur kids.

什麼出版社的? 在哪間有售? 大約幾錢?
謝謝~!

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原文章由 Angel小茵 於 07-11-21 21:54 發表

什麼出版社的? 在哪間有售? 大約幾錢?
謝謝~!

Between Parent and Child: The Bestselling Classic That Revolutionized Parent-Child Communication (Paperback)
by Dr. Haim G Ginott (Author), Alice Ginott (Editor), H. Wallace Goddard (Editor)

Over the past thirty-five years, Between Parent and Child has helped millions of parents around the world strengthen their relationships with their children. Written by renowned psychologist Dr. Haim Ginott, this revolutionary book offered a straightforward prescription for empathetic yet disciplined child rearing and introduced new communication techniques that would change the way parents spoke with, and listened to, their children. Dr. Ginott’s innovative approach to parenting has influenced an entire generation of experts in the field, and now his methods can work for you, too.

In this revised edition, Dr. Alice Ginott, clinical psychologist and wife of the late Haim Ginott, and family relationship specialist Dr. H. Wallace Goddard usher this bestselling classic into the new century while retaining the book’s positive message and Haim Ginott’s warm, accessible voice. Based on the theory that parenting is a skill that can be learned, this indispensable handbook will show you how to:
• Discipline without threats, bribes, sarcasm, and punishment
• Criticize without demeaning, praise without judging, and express anger without hurting
• Acknowledge rather than argue with children’s feelings, perceptions, and opinions
• Respond so that children will learn to trust and develop self-confidence

http://www.amazon.com/Between-Parent-Child-Revolutionized-Communication/dp/0609809881/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1195656419&sr=1-1

[ 本文章最後由 bakusensei 於 07-11-21 22:51 編輯 ]

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發表於 07-11-21 23:55 |只看該作者

hi baku

just supplment your info

there is another version just called
between parent and child
similar stuff

原文章由 bakusensei 於 07-11-21 22:49 發表

Between Parent and Child: The Bestselling Classic That Revolutionized Parent-Child Communication (Paperback)
by Dr. Haim G Ginott (Author), Alice Ginott (Editor), H. Wallace Goddard (Editor)

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發表於 07-11-22 00:03 |只看該作者

聽到大家 share bb 的曳嘢，都稍為安心！

因yesterday 和1個教才顧問講BB 的情況，佢立刻好武斷話我BB有情緒問題！

then 我話BB好定，佢話定同鈍系5同！！！我話BB有時会tear 書，佢就話手指不協調！

激C我！！！
所以now, 都冇咁驚！

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what is he/she selling you? educational tools or what
let's share?

better stay away from people who have an aim to get advantage lor

1. tear books very normal for bb due to hands not fully developed
2. how do he/she judge a bb has emotional plb? how many hrs he/she spent in observations?

原文章由 XOGOGO 於 07-11-22 00:03 發表
聽到大家 share bb 的曳嘢，都稍為安心！
因yesterday 和1個教才顧問講BB 的情況，佢立刻好武斷話我BB有情緒問題！ then 我話BB好定，佢話定同鈍系5同！！！我話BB有時会tear 書，佢就話手指不協調！激C我！！！
所以now, ...

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原文章由 XOGOGO 於 07-11-22 00:03 發表
聽到大家 share bb 的曳嘢，都稍為安心！
因yesterday 和1個教才顧問講BB 的情況，佢立刻好武斷話我BB有情緒問題！ then 我話BB好定，佢話定同鈍系5同！！！我話BB有時会tear 書，佢就話手指不協調！激C我！！！
所以now, ...

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原文章由 XOGOGO 於 07-11-22 12:03 AM 發表
聽到大家 share bb 的曳嘢，都稍為安心！
因yesterday 和1個教才顧問講BB 的情況，佢立刻好武斷話我BB有情緒問題！ then 我話BB好定，佢話定同鈍系5同！！！我話BB有時会tear 書，佢就話手指不協調！激C我！！！
所以now, ...

佢賣咩既....? 情緒問題.......下.....好誇.....

by the way, 我就覺得而家個個bb都係咁上下,
因為可能奶粉太營養啦,
我只係覺得雖然bb自己本身都係有天生既性格,
不過, 佢都仲係一張白紙, 佢大個曳唔曳,
係在乎你點去教囉, 正所謂有其父必有其子,
所以身教好重要, 大家都比心機~~~!!!!!!!

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我個b 食人奶架. 都係咁有性格. 我冇食奶粉架喎.

其實我諗個個 bb 都係咁, 無論以前定依家都係. 只不過我地父母果時邊有咁多理論, 唔岩就打. 依家要氹要講解. 唔急得. 真係要慢慢教.

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