You & your husband can find a private counselor to talk face to face. For the practising counselor, it only costs $50-60/45mins. He/she will talk about your child life, family life, marriage life & everything which can help you. You can go by yourself or even with your husband.
Of course, you have to discuss with him if you want him to go with you. If he doesn't want, you can also go by yourself first. At least it helps a bit on your side.