The elderlies in my family are doing almost the same thing. They think waht they do are "adding value", but don't realise it is actually "making trouble".
And, the more surprising is that, friends around me are gradually becoming more stubborn, making trouble, expecting the others to follow themselve, as they are now aging while assuing that they have the brain (and the others don't have ). I don't realise if I'm going in this direction but I'm always reminding myself to learn from those negatives things of ppl around.
原文章由 pollyw 於 08-11-17 12:47 發表
The elderlies in my family are doing almost the same thing. They think waht they do are "adding value", but don't realise it is actually "making trouble".
Yes ..Take an example...Last time when we had a gathering (all ladies) we had a buffet dinner in a Hotel. One of my lady freind noticed that the handkerchief provided to her (which she claimed she hadn't been using it) had a little red stain, suspected of lipstick. (this was indeed arguable, as she was also wearing lipstick). She then kept complaining it to the staff, and then the captain...arguing , and then of course, no result in the end...An end up the captain took the whole lot of handkercheif to show and explain the proceudure of taking and assigning handkercheives and such and such.....They do have strong 原則, but to me this is an act of stubborness...Almost everytime we gathered, similar matters will happen.
Can you sense what the problem is??!!! Mayb it's a problem of mine..