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前晚我老公去飲,我老公裝了個cam睇吓,見到個工人除了我BB吃粥仔無講電話,3個鐘頭30min都講電話,坐係sofa到就不停fing腳一隻手抱住一手不停講,站係到時就用揹帶咩bb好大動作搖左右左右咁一手就不停講电話,由頭到尾完全無望個我bb,有幾個動作仲好危險,差d跌BB落地,又唔理bb,之後我bb睡了她就放bb到廳的bb床,她就立刻関燈走左去,到我回家時前就着了門口燈,仲好関心咁幫bb整披,我地在錄音聽到佢好惡好大声講电話,坐係sofa到就不停fing腳,在bb床抱我bb起來時完全唔顧bb頭仔一手抱起,放bb到床到又係,同我地平時見她是完全兩個人..
佢平時在我地面前講野好细声,好溫柔,講野好似無氣咁,同我錄底佢完全兩個人,好孔佈好驚,我bb無扭計,如果佢扭計我覺得佢一定打佢個種人,點算???比D意見...換工人?又要等??唔要工人找人睇??去育嬰院??唉!

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回覆 #1 Dorisdoris 的文章

工人就係咁假架啦

......我都係新手MAMI, 短短幾個月已請了2個工人, 之前一個自己RESIGN了(回印結婚

), 係呢幾個月時間, 令我看了很多嘢, 亦明白真亦假時, 假亦真, 呢個世界所有嘢都係假, 只有假嘢才係真(好玄, 希望你明白)...若你放心, 咪繼續用佢囉(我唔會放心囉), 否則, 你只可以炒佢魷魚, 換個個工人(博一博重有個希望, 唔博咪等佢改善囉, 不過相信等都完約都唔會改架啦....呢D係佢地個格 - 即衰格....

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發表於 07-12-31 12:46 |只看該作者

dorisdoris,

does your maid know you have a cam??

if she knows.. and I were you, I will talked to her seriously about the problems of 1) talking on the phone (i. can't use the phone next to baby; ii. can't use phone during work hours); 2) dangerous handling of your baby - 大動作搖左右左右

regarding to her attitude / tone of talking on the phone... unless she is scolding at your baby or being very rude to your baby... I guess I won't care how she talks with her friends.. as long as she won't scare of my baby or bother us.

honestly, I won't 100% believe my maid is the person I see lor ... however, as long as she is not harming my baby, I don't care her real personality is... afterall, she is not my friend.. i paid, she works, i'm happy.

原文章由 Dorisdoris 於 07-12-31 12:35 發表
前晚我老公去飲,我老公裝了個cam睇吓,見到個工人除了我BB吃粥仔無講電話,3個鐘頭30min都講電話,坐係sofa到就不停fing腳一隻手抱住一手不停講,站係到時就用揹帶咩bb好大動作搖左右左右咁一手就不停講电話,由頭到尾完 ...

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發表於 07-12-31 13:11 |只看該作者

我一定會出warning,"提"佢唔可以係工作時間講電話.
並"強烈"表達請工人係為左要佢照顧小朋友呢個目的,希望佢可以做到呢個最基本既要求.

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i don't think it helps to warn her, she will not change but just won't let you know what she has done. find another one.

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發表於 07-12-31 14:03 |只看該作者

想問....佢黎之前, 你有同AGENT 講明家規嗎?

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2025勳章 2025勳章蛇年勳章

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發表於 07-12-31 14:24 |只看該作者

俾番d帶佢睇, 睇下佢有乜反應都好

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發表於 07-12-31 15:36 |只看該作者

工人到我家時已講明家規唔可以講电話,而錄影佢係偷錄的佢唔知,咁仲可唔可以出warning及話佢??我又覚得佢個人好假,完全無理bb感受!!!!其實我係唔係立刻要換呢人??但都唔可以即刻有工人請倒,點算??唔通出面話佢講电話,咁對呀亞b,比機會佢??定立刻要換人但同佢公司點講,我又偷錄佢又無warn佢就要佢走??

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發表於 07-12-31 16:01 |只看該作者

比我一定換, 因為我擺bb係重要個項, 佢工作亦係湊bb, 根本佢都冇愛心係bb度, 你重keep佢做咩呢?
雖然唔知第2個得唔得. 但比我呢個一定唔留囉!

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發表於 07-12-31 16:17 |只看該作者

其實值得一讚嘅係, 我覺得版主已經好聰明、好穩陣, 起碼有裝cam監視個工人, 對BB都有保障.

我贊成靜靜換個另外一個囉, 第一, 揍緊B講電話係一大忌, 佢做戲咁叻, 我敢擔保, 就算佢誓神劈願應承你都係假, 呢鋪癮佢哋係戒唔甩

第二, 既然佢做戲咁叻, 就算佢喺你面前做得幾咁出類拔萃, 到你睇唔到佢時, 始終都無信心佢會對BB好

第三, 從佢喺無人嘅時候對BB咁粗魯,好明顯佢係無愛心嘅人.

趁未做成大錯, 不如靜靜地換人啦, 仲要小心D唔好比佢察覺 (輪到考你演技), 免得佢對BB不利.

都係果句, 工人始終都係外人, 防人之心不可無, 做多D工夫, 都係為咗保護自己仔女, 唔好比小朋友受不必要嘅苦啫

原文章由 Dorisdoris 於 07-12-31 15:36 發表
工人到我家時已講明家規唔可以講电話,而錄影佢係偷錄的佢唔知,咁仲可唔可以出warning及話佢??我又覚得佢個人好假,完全無理bb感受!!!!其實我係唔係立刻要換呢人??但都唔可以即刻有工人請倒,點算??唔通出面話佢講电話 ...

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原文章由 沙沙女 於 07-12-31 16:01 發表
比我一定換, 因為我擺bb係重要個項, 佢工作亦係湊bb, 根本佢都冇愛心係bb度, 你重keep佢做咩呢?
雖然唔知第2個得唔得. 但比我呢個一定唔留囉!

但係立刻抄又無人替我睇bb,點算??可唔可以同公司換人,到有人到先立刻抄工人呢??我果個係印印,有d人話菲傭好d有愛心d..

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原文章由 awaa06 於 07-12-31 16:17 發表
其實值得一讚嘅係, 我覺得版主已經好聰明、好穩陣, 起碼有裝cam監視個工人, 對BB都有保障.

我贊成靜靜換個另外一個囉, 第一, 揍緊B講電話係一大忌, 佢做戲咁叻, 我敢擔保, 就算佢誓神劈願應承你都係假, 呢鋪癮佢哋 ...

我贊都稱成靜靜換個另外一個,第一我係已bb安全,而我老公覺得我太憂,太緊張,我地女人睇野睇細節,我老公就話佢由頭到尾都無放底佢(BB),但個工人不停講电話,我bb扭計唔肯坐sofa佢就用手"cold"住佢等bb唔yuk,當我bb係公仔(7month only)!!!!我老公就話佢都無放底佢???全晚都唔比玩具bb,只係食粥仔先比佢玩,等佢食快d,唉!!!

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呢種工人唔掂呀,完全冇愛心,跟本唔係黎打工既,勁傾電話...對bb又粗魯(佢人格都好粗魯)

呢種人絕對唔可以揍bb,冇愛心係大忌！試搵本地姨姨揍住bb先啦,等到新工人到咪接返屋企囉,起碼保障到你bb既安全先丫,如果我睇完段片,一定驚到訓唔安食唔落

我戥你肉赤啊 :-( 感覺好似請個廢人返黎遭質自己個寶貝,試問咁辛苦去搵錢為咩先？盡快炒啦！

[ 本文章最後由 vic-wing 於 08-1-1 02:26 編輯 ]

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原文章由 Dorisdoris 於 07-12-31 16:45 發表

我贊都稱成靜靜換個另外一個,第一我係已bb安全,而我老公覺得我太憂,太緊張,我地女人睇野睇細節,我老公就話佢由頭到尾都無放底佢(BB),但個工人不停講电話,我bb扭計唔肯坐sofa佢就用手"cold"住佢等bb唔yuk,當我bb係 ...

唉,D老公係咁,覺得工人做好過佢做就得,多數都係出咗事先覺得工人唔啱,咁就遲啦,我都覺得你要換工人好D,唔係真係出事先後悔就太遲

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發表於 08-1-1 13:46 |只看該作者

Doris,

Find a local philipine maid who finished contract with good reference, if you are a simple family (ie a couple and a baby), a lot of maid would come. It takes only 3 weeks for to process immigration documentation, kick this one out when the new maid arrive.

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原文章由 elegant 於 08-1-1 13:46 發表
Doris,

Find a local philipine maid who finished contract with good reference, if you are a simple family (ie a couple and a baby), a lot of maid would come. It takes only 3 weeks for to process immi ...

我果個係印印,但都想換個Philipine,而我家只有我同老公+baby,十分簡單,不過都想請oversea,好似容易教.....

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