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發表於 15-3-27 04:49 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

包括坐月期間自己飲食，換片, 餵奶，沖涼，洗奶樽，洗衫，啲時間要點樣分配？？
又話餵奶前換片，餵奶後大概半個鐘後又要換，仲可以點樣休息？？
我想知幾個月後我會唔會痴左線？？

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發表於 15-3-27 08:49 |只看該作者

冇話唔得，呢度美國同香港好多媽咪都係自己一個坐月，
樣樣簡單就OK，最緊要老公肯幫手唔投訴，你已經有一個仔，
咁上次係點？仔仔有冇返preschool？有的話日頭你一個照顧BB應該可以，
有冇其他人可以幫下手？通常第一個月都係咁，餵人奶更忙，
可以兩個鐘餵一次，換完片餵完，BB瞓咗，你可能得返半個鐘又夠鐘餵過，
但過得第一個月就會越來越好，咁多人都得，你都得嘅。

花旗太太生活在花旗國，留意時差，你問我未必即時答到。

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發表於 15-3-27 13:11 |只看該作者

我得老公陪我，有洗碗機，洗衣機同乾衣機。
呀囝頭一星期隔日沖涼，但有便會用水沖pat.
坐月頭三日冇沖涼，頭十五日冇洗頭

產前執好一包包湯料同代茶
教定老公煮超易既餸
買定電子煲去煲粥同湯
呀仔半泵半粉，日間9-9我老公餵同睇佢，我泵完訓
夜晚9-9我同呀囝過。
奶樽有時我洗有時佢洗。

產後2星期，我都好自如，開始take over all housework.
Wk 3老公返工。

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發表於 15-3-27 16:06 |只看該作者

LOTS of moms 一手包辦 here in the States.
The first month is not easy but things will get better every week.
Top priority is to meet the needs of the newborn, feed yourself and get enough rest youself when the newborn is napping/ sleeping.

Forget the housework in case you have no energy or time to handle it.
Certain things can wait.
Your husband can also help out after work.

Smart use of a slow cooker can be a lifesaver.
Collect some tested and trusted family recipes for one-dish meal soups, congee etc.
Keep in stock dried/ canned food and frozen meat/ ingredients for the recipes.
(And your husband can always bring home take-out food on his way home from work. So, relax.)

Unless you are a die-hard environmentalist, you may consider this option: a friend of mine only used paper plates and bowls during the difficult stage.

As Rose-Mag said, 咁多人都得，你都得嘅。

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發表於 15-3-27 16:17 |只看該作者

bigbigb331 發表於 15-3-26 15:49
我想知幾個月後我會唔會痴左線？？

You will be fine.

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發表於 15-3-28 09:00 |只看該作者

頭兩星期辛苦架，吾好一個人湊，第一個星期傷口又未好，人奶又子宮收縮，都係盡訓盡食好D，乜都吾好理。

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發表於 15-3-29 01:20 |只看該作者

就當鐵人耐力賽

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發表於 15-5-14 04:19 |只看該作者

回覆 bigbigb331 的帖子

Hi BigBig,
How are you doing?
Is baby here yet?
Hope everything is alright.

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發表於 15-5-21 05:46 |只看該作者

回覆 IaMMoYY 的帖子

預產期係下月15号呀，係自己好驚攪唔掂 ^^"

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bigbigb331 發表於 15-5-20 13:46
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預產期係下月15号呀，係自己好驚攪唔掂 ^^"

最緊要搵定backup到時入院邊個湊大仔，小朋友唔可以入產房，到時你要安排好。

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發表於 15-5-22 01:31

花旗太太生活在花旗國，留意時差，你問我未必即時答到。

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bigbigb331 發表於 15-5-20 16:46
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預產期係下月15号呀，係自己好驚攪唔掂 ^^"

5好嚇你自己ar.

Other moms have already shared with your their experiences and practical advice.
It's going to be alright.

Relax and enjoy yourself in this quiet month.
ENJOY your son now before the baby comes.

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發表於 15-5-30 05:40 |只看該作者

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Don't worry. Believe in yourself. You will be ok. "horse die walk on the ground" (sorry, don't know how to type Chinese)

If I could do that and finally made it work out ok, you can also make the mission complete without problem.

My parents are living us, but they got something must take care of in HK of when my little girl was a month old, so they went back to HK for a month right after we celebrate her 1 month old birthday. I also have a older boy (6 years older), he can be independent physically, but was busy to take care of his feeling when the little one just arrived. I also had 2 dogs (1 was very old and 1 was not healthy) need to take care. Crazy busy, but I made it .... So, you can do that too!!

Just from experience, try to direct breastfeed if possible (and of course if you prefer) ... cuz save you lot of time from cleaning + boiling bottles.

Good luck and hope you have a safe + smooth + fast deliver!

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發表於 15-6-12 04:42 |只看該作者

另外想問暫時有四個medela細奶樽，打算會夜晚埋身日頭用奶樽，

想問如果出街應該點準備？

原想埋身餵帶巾算，又要俾人話唔文明 =="

雪奶袋係咪一定要買做準備？

座奶器？無知嘅我好想問咩時候應該點用？？

同埋應該預幾多個 8oz奶樽呀？

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發表於 15-6-12 14:41 |只看該作者

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我初初都俾老公 question 過真係出街都埋身餵。我就話𠵱邊係美國、個個人奶媽都係咁㗎啦。啲美國人直情圍巾都唔用啦。咁我當然有用巾 cover 住，但酒樓、公園、餐廳、呀囝游泳學校 ... 總之到時間開餐就唔理得個地點咁多。亞囡醫肚要緊。

我都只有4個 medela 細樽 (跟 pump 送嘅). 但我另外買嘅就全部9安樽，因費事要買過另一批，慳返啲💰 😁

我諗 depend 你 plan 儲幾耐先洗及消毒啲樽而去決定需要買幾多個，及 how often you want to use bottle instead of direct breastfeed.

我開頭3個月差不多全直接餵 (除咗瞓前 breastfeed 完再加少少奶粉想填飽啲亞囡). 所以 so far 只買過 6個大樽。

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