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我自從照完超b知道有7~8成係女之後 , 有一輪失眠同發惡夢 , 之後d牙肉唔舒服去睇西醫都有同醫生講有咁情況 , 醫生開過d會好瞓d既葯俾我 , 後尾又好返d喎 ! 但呢幾日我又開始不停發惡夢(不是關於鬼怪同bb有事的夢 ) , 我又不能太詳盡咁同大家講 , 只可以話有個老公既阿嫂常常不停向我老公放生電同猛發嬌嗲 (仲要係我面前都係咁 , 如果係我背後都唔知點 ?

) , 我06年生完細女後她亦再懷孕仲要當懷孕6星期時仲只係同我講話她懷的又是男孩 , 又不停周圍叫她身邊d親朋戚友猛咁話我生2個女 , 人哋會生男孩就有2個仔了 , 現在我陀既又係女 , 我真係好驚我老公現在就話唔介意啫 , 人年紀一老d思想就會唔同到時先嚟介意我仲想死 , 我寧願他現在嚟介意 , 大家分開仲好d , 我現在每晚都會夢到那個阿嫂同我老公一起又不停敎我老公點樣做 , 我已經頂唔順了我次次都會喊醒的 , 當醒後又會坐係度不停喊直到喊到倦先停 , 近幾日我開始用刀手 , 雖然好痛但手既痛可以減輕心既痛好多 , 我近排連街都唔想去唔想同人傾計唔想見到熟人因為我會覺得好辛苦 , 我又不想同醫生姑娘講我寧願係呢度同大家講吓又唔難為情 , 大家又唔知我係邊個 ! 會放心d !

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發表於 08-7-16 20:05 |只看該作者

BE HAPPY AH !!!

Remember u have two lovely girls around you, also one more cute baby is coming ! If I were you, I will not care 'outside people' escpecially your 老公既阿嫂. Your family (your son/daughter) is none of her business. If she 'bad mouth' you, just simply delete her from your memory. If you meet her in family gathering, just show your bad face to her and let her know you don't like her....I think it may let you feel better.....

But, the most important thing, have u talked your C6 ? I think you have better talk to him and let him know your feeling....Remember, son or daughter is not be determined by you. You try to ask him to share your burden and help you to get rib of 'bad people'.

Try to talk to your C6 first la !
Last, take care yourself ah ! Add oil !!!

*** Besides, my 2nd bb is daughter too (I have mentioned before). I have pressure too as my C6's family like 'boy' v.v.much, they have great expectation to me (they have ALL granddaughters). I have share my worry to C6 and he asked me no need to mind it. So, I decided to show a 'bright' smile to them if they ask 'why 2nd time is girl too ?' and tell them 'we like girl v.much'

[ 本文章最後由 sugarcane 於 08-7-16 20:11 編輯 ]

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發表於 08-7-17 13:19 |只看該作者

sukilee,

我為你擔心，你的情況真需要其他人幫一下，你下次去產檢同醫生或自己的家庭醫生講好嗎？

原文章由 sukilee 於 08-7-16 19:18 發表
我自從照完超b知道有7~8成係女之後 , 有一輪失眠同發惡夢 , 之後d牙肉唔舒服去睇西醫都有同醫生講有咁情況 , 醫生開過d會好瞓d既葯俾我 , 後尾又好返d喎 ! 但呢幾日我又開始不停發惡夢(不是關於鬼怪同bb有事的夢 ) , ...

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回覆 #1 gunsou 的文章

sukilee,

睇你個女幅相咁得意,你就己經要開心啲啦!人哋點講係人哋嘅事,最緊要同C6同醫生講你的情況,等佢地分擔吓同教你點樣放鬆,其實依家都不知有幾多人鍾意女,只要佢健康快樂,聽聽話話,女仲好過仔啦!而且生仔生女係男方的問題,都唔關你事,你唔駛自己唔開心喎!

俾心機啦!千祈唔好自己亂唸嘢呀!

Take care!

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原文章由 sugarcane 於 08-7-16 20:05 發表
BE HAPPY AH !!!

Remember u have two lovely girls around you, also one more cute baby is coming ! If I were you, I will not care 'outside people' escpecially your 老公既阿嫂. Your family (your son/d ...

我英文很難的 !

我睇唔明啊 !

mouth:

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發表於 08-7-18 13:20 |只看該作者

妳唔好諗咁多啦, 人地點講咪又得佢囉, 個個係你既BB, 最緊要你地一家人開開心心, d閒人講野唔駛理喎

我DFriend都不知幾恨女呀, 你自己都係女性, 唔好覺得自己係次一等啦, 總之記住個B係你同老公既結晶品就得啦

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發表於 08-7-18 14:29 |只看該作者

我現在係怕我老公將來介意 , 到時仲傷心仲受唔住 !

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你老公將來介吾介意你都控制吾到價啦，何比為Ｄ吾知會吾會發生嘅事而自尋煩惱呢,最緊要你而家吾好自己睇吾起自己.你知麻,你有得生已經係好０力啦，有好多人想生都無，而你有三個播！我都係幾經辛苦，花左好多心血同眼淚先有呢一胎ja。你要好好欣賞自己。

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發表於 08-7-18 22:46 |只看該作者

我唔識中文打字吖嘛！手寫扳又壞咗

！宜家好、好、好努力每隻字打出嚟架

點呀！心情有冇好番D呀？其實仔女都係上天安排，我哋都無得'簡'！你有冇同C6傾吓呀？等佢知你嘅憂慮，好多嘢都要兩公婆一齊分擔架，何況生BB！你講哂你D憂慮/佢D'姨媽姑姐'麻煩嘢比佢知，大家一齊解決嘛。

至於仔仔女女，其實我好多朋友都恨女，因為女比較'貼心'，到大咗重會記得亞媽，仔就記得孝順外母。宜家都唔望仔女大咗會照顧返我哋，女會call我哋出嚟飲茶機會重大添。

小朋友同BB會知媽咪唔開心架。不如我哋努力D，生過肥肥白白、精靈活潑、人見人愛的小公主出嚟，引C D男仔，嘻嘻...

原文章由 sukilee 於 08-7-17 21:42 發表

我英文很難的 ! 我睇唔明啊 ! mouth:

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原文章由 sugarcane 於 08-7-18 22:46 發表
我唔識中文打字吖嘛！手寫扳又壞咗！宜家好、好、好努力每隻字打出嚟架

點呀！心情有冇好番D呀？其實仔女都係上天安排，我哋都無得'簡'！你有冇同C6傾吓呀？等佢知你嘅憂慮，好多嘢都要兩公婆一齊分擔架，何況生BB！你講 ...

我老公一早就知有人係度周圍講同做小動作的 , 但係他是一個不會理人講 , 又不放係心上既人 , 但我係女人又小小嘢都會放唔低既人 , 所以好唔match到思想上既問題 , 我呢幾排都沒有胃口同瞓得唔好 , 又瘦咗又週身骨痛仲頭痛 ; 頭暈 , 好在大女放緊暑假可以睇吓細妹咋 , 如果唔係又唔舒服又要出街買餸煮飯 ; 又要睇住細女呢隻小魔怪 , 我諗我以頂唔順了 !

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