其實佢唔鍾意讀書不是今日的事, 平時我都有間唔中 "哦" 佢, 佢講個陣就好似好明白你講乜, 但轉頭就乜事都無晒 !!
但係 this week is final examination, she still feel nothing, ask her to study, 佢就好應酬我咁 !
好辛苦, 好担心, she study F.1 now, very very worry about after F.3........ !!!!
Your kid is F1, age around 12, she has her own attitute, quite hard to teach her now.
The attitude you should take : Don't loss your temper(i.e.發怒), try to encourage her positively for low marks or even fail,( i.e. telling her that u believe her is able to get a better result next time and telling her今次只是一時失手, telling her every kid just got similar IQ, what the other can do, you are also able to do it),
At her such age, you must say something positively, try to say something from her point, she may listen to you. Futher, our positive attitude is very essential at her such age, as she sensitively feel whether there is any actual warm and love in the family when she is down. I think keep on using this method may have some surprise at the end.
責罵永遠是得不到效果, 只是發洩自己的不滿而已.
橫點哦佢都無效, 試吓另一個方法吧. 我明白做父母一定緊張自己小朋友任何方面的法展, 學校成績尤其重要. But as I always say, IQ is more important than EQ. Please refer to "心聲留言" 貓BB的message.
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