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我知自己有問題, 但真係有小小唔開心 [複製鏈接]

Melody_Che

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我之前都講過我老公屋企個大嫂好度叔, 又小家... 但又鍾意認叻...成日扮依樣果樣, 又睇小個老公...

今朝, 我知道我隻鄉下婆99連續2晚煲野比果個小女人食... 唉~ 我99又玩偏心, 雖然我同自己講過以後都唔好當佢係自己家人, 當佢普通人一樣(結婚前, 我對我99一家好似自己家人甘, 成日同佢地去玩, 又出錢又出力令佢地開心, 但都比唔上佢心肝2仔2新抱, 佢地成日屋企有事走左去, 食飯又繞埋對手等食, 最衰就係問屋企羅錢...), 而佢對邊個好都唔關我事, 因為我已經心淡... 但依家個心都有小小唔開心... 我係未真係好衰呀??

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zxzx

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I'm in the very similar situation as you. In the past, I was very unhappy ... for 5 years. But now I don't care them, esp. 偏心's 9962.

You can't change 9962, but you can change your mood ! Be happy :)

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catherineleungg

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駛咩唔開心呀, 唔啱傾咪唔好理佢囖, 又唔駛你理佢哋, 又無問你攞$, 你咪置身事外, 無眼屎乾淨晒.

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Melody_Che

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最幣係我地有俾錢99佢力去貼2仔一家... 雖然我都唔想理, 俾佢d錢佢鍾意點用就點用, 但有時d野做到出晒面, 令我幾難受... 唉! 老公樣樣都好, 好錫我, 至衰有佢依對父母...

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zxzx

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原文章由 Melody_Che 於 08-9-4 11:49 發表
最幣係我地有俾錢99佢力去貼2仔一家... 雖然我都唔想理, 俾佢d錢佢鍾意點用就點用, 但有時d野做到出晒面, 令我幾難受... 唉! 老公樣樣都好, 好錫我, 至衰有佢依對父母... ...

I totally understand your feelings, because exactly same to me.

d野做到出晒面, 令我幾難受 --- my 9962 deliberately do it for me to see, so now I don't go back to have dinner with them as that often (just once every 3-6mth, but they still do it & treat me not well). But now I really pretend I didn't see/know/hear these. Not easy, but try.

Most importantly, I know I'm living not for them, they have no right to take away my happiness !