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大宅

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發表於 04-6-21 15:05 |只看該作者

我應唔應該炒佢?

我個賓妹經常:
1.對我黑面,尤其叫佢做嘢時
2.冇禮貌,同佢講嘢唔望我唔答我
3.做嘢真的很慢很慢
4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但佢只做了半年
6.成日將我同舊僱主比較

我自問對佢都唔錯,又冇"now"佢,換唔換人好?


別墅

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2#
發表於 04-6-21 15:09 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

D工人是甘, 她覺得你對她好是應該, 你同她傾下, 否則炒你, 你好自為知. 


別墅

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3#
發表於 04-6-21 15:16 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

Iris 寫道:我個賓妹經常:
1.對我黑面,尤其叫佢做嘢時
Ans: Most of Domestic helper will [黑面].

2.冇禮貌,同佢講嘢唔望我唔答我
Ans: You should explain it to her at once OR ask your agency to teach her what is politeness.

3.做嘢真的很慢很慢
Ans: It's hard to give comment on it.

4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
Ans: You must always trust your kid. According this point, if I were you , I will fire her then. At least warn her to stop it.

5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但佢只做了半年
Ans: By HK labour law and the service contract, domestic helper must sleep at employer's home. Employer has her/his responsibility to take care of DH. Don't let her test your border line.

6.成日將我同舊僱主比較
Ans: She seems want to be fired and get compensation.

我自問對佢都唔錯,又冇"now"佢,換唔換人好?
Ans: My opinion is 換人


水晶宮

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4#
發表於 04-6-21 15:41 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

1 & 2 都係bun bun的common problem.
3. 做o野慢 - 就set time table 同work target 比個工人, 較易改善.
4. 搣個仔, 唔可以接受.
5. 放假唔返屋企訓 – 都唔係好想同個工人住埋同一間屋, 但係法例係規定個僱主同個工人要同一屋簷下, 放假都係咁話. 出去訓? 有d乜o野事, 保險唔陪, 你唔追討我, 你屋企人, 香港政府都唔會放過我la. 放假返菲律賓? 有急事嗎 ? 唔係就sorry, 阿mom個boss 都係咁對阿mom wor.
6. 同舊僱主比較 – 人之常情, 但唔應該講到出口, 兼一成不變, 以舊僱主o個套fit 落而家個mom度. 個工人始終都要適應個mom,唔係個mom跟佢o個套.

如果個工人冇犯大錯, 都係同個佢傾下先, 叫佢改善. 換工人, 最怕係, 洗o左錢之餘, 換著第2個又係咁, 可能仲會係過之而無不及.


複式洋房

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5#
發表於 04-6-22 15:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

即炒換人,何必貼錢買難受呢??


別墅

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6#
發表於 04-6-22 15:46 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

I think your DM wanted you to fire her, so she made a lot of complaints, bad temper and don't want to work, fire her, if i were you. 成全佢啦。


大宅

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7#
發表於 04-6-23 09:52 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

炒左佢啦.


大宅

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8#
發表於 04-6-23 16:29 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

我會安排新工人先,然後即炒佢,如果你同佢傾咁多問題,佢會覺得你好唔like佢,好既咪聽完當無聽過囉,唔好既聽完收o係個心度你就有排煩啦,都唔知佢會做d咩,到有事時,後悔莫及架啦........
各位姨姨好,我係cherrie,,我仲有個姐姐13歲啦,佢唔想出鏡,所以我......!!


大宅

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發表於 04-6-23 17:54 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

My last DM is the same as you . Only that she did the work very fast so she will have her private time.
I suggest to fire her because it is hopeless that she will change !
My girl is very clever and do the work fast and independantly. She also borrow from many finance company. BUT the worse that she shouted and hit
my son even my neighbour can hear ! Every morning, I wake up and hope that she will change but answer is NO.
She will change ONLY when she request you to fulfil her needs like holiday and borrow money.


別墅

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10#
發表於 04-6-24 20:06 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

1.對我黑面,尤其叫佢做嘢時
* My P Maid is the same!

2.冇禮貌,同佢講嘢唔望我唔答我
* My maid is the same two!

3.做嘢真的很慢很慢
* My maid is the same three!

4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
* I found she always make my baby sleep, not play and talk to my baby (10 months old)

5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但佢只做了半年
* She just testing your bottom line.

6.成日將我同舊僱主比較
* Tell her you are her boss !

I have been asked my maid what's happening on her to give long face to me and my baby. She said `nothing'. Then I said you must be not happy working for us, means you do not want to stay here.
She said `No', then I said to her......I have no reason to keep a person at home she doesn't feels happy and comfortable. She said 'No and she want to stay and work for us. I asked her don't bring her own emotional to work because you are working to me - your boss!

I hope she will get improve, if not, I must fry her.Try to talk to her yo will fry her if she won't improve her autitude.


水晶宮

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11#
發表於 04-6-25 09:33 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

我都曾經在個菲生日o個日, 好似nsinsi同個工人講過佢黑面的問題, 我問佢係唔係做得唔開心, 佢話唔係. 但事過2個星期, 個工人又係咁, 昨晚

(1) 夠胆死將1件bb上衣+1口水肩+2手巾仔+1紗巾, 擺落洗衣機到’fing’乾. 我緊係唔比啦, 佢就好大聲咁同我講話d衫會一陣味 (冇理據). 我就叫佢將o個幾件布仔, 掛入toilet. 個工人唔扭乾, 就咁排起到. d衫細細件好易扭乾水啫, 都唔做. 我即叫佢扭番乾d衫仔, 同 remind佢要慳電. 佢掛住針水,唔應我. 要我問多句 ‘do you get it?’,先至答一聲 ‘yes’.

(2) 我出o左街, 得番佢同 bb在家, 我個friend 打電話黎, 佢冇聽電話, 亦冇話比我知有 人打過電話黎.

(3) 我去完街番黎, 個8個月大的仔見到我, 即刻識同我笑, 反而個菲好似又聾又盲又啞, 郁都唔郁, (當時背住我), 冇望我,又冇greet 我.

(4) 我老公成10:00pm先番黎食飯, 個工人竟然冇比湯我老公飲. 我今朝同老公講我先知佢冇飲湯.

我同個工人仲有成年幾約, 佢o既心情就時好時壞, 我都忍佢, 有時比個excuse 佢, 有離鄉別井的情緒, 亦睇在佢係一個honest maid, 我請第2個都未必好過佢. but, 昨晚的事真係令到我好嬲, 但我始終都冇’丙’佢. 我應唔應該繼續忍佢呢?


複式洋房

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發表於 04-6-25 10:09 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

炒左佢啦.


別墅

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發表於 04-6-25 11:02 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

Iris,

1.對我黑面,尤其叫佢做嘢時
Fai: 我果個有時開心對住d小朋友, 有時又黑面, 粒聲唔
出。 如果唔係有小朋友, 我都唔鬼睇佢心情做人, 你
知啦個仔細比人蝦都唔識講。 所以黑面時我都會問聲
佢: Are you OK?

2.冇禮貌,同佢講嘢唔望我唔答我
Fai: 我果個就係我鬧佢時唔鬼望我, even係佢錯死都唔
認, 仲要喊好可憐, 唉!

3.做嘢真的很慢很慢
Fai: 大部份都係咁, 做得快你又會叫佢做多d啦, 鬼咁醒!

4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
Fai: 呢樣我一定唔接受, 不過你話佢一定唔認, 如果可以裝
個鏡頭留意吓!

5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但
佢只做了半年
Fai:唔返嚟訓就一定唔可以, 我果個要8pm前返屋企, 遲咗
要解釋(我會accept 15-20mins late only), 因為慣
咗就唔改。 佢都未做夠2年係唔可以放大假, 除非有好
緊要嘅事。

6.成日將我同舊僱主比較
Fai: 我以前有一個泰妹一嚟到就私自偷我個女d candy
食, 話以前僱主任佢食, 又比較我哋食咩(因佢前僱主
係大户人家), 唉...激到我, 我同佢講: 你都唔可以返去
前僱主度, 人哋唔要你, 依家我係你僱主, 你要跟我方
法做, 唔鐘意你就唔好做。

我自問對佢都唔錯,又冇"now"佢,換唔換人好?
Fai: 我覺得d賓妹得寸進尺, 所以你有時要話吓佢, 我個賓妹
初嚟由得佢自已安排時間, 都好trust佢, 點知幾個月我出多咗街後就懶, 水費單一季多$500, 你話點用


別墅

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發表於 04-6-25 12:01 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

BirdBird,

昨晚的事真係令到我好嬲, 但我始終都冇’丙’佢. 我應唔應該繼續忍佢呢?
Commend
I think you should tell her you do not satisfy her working performance. Do let her know you will fry her if she repeat the mistakes.

I suggest you to put a IP cam in house to montior what's your home situation during the day time.

I think most of the P maid think they are important, educated and they wouldn't work as a home maid from heart.

Need to have more communication with them and remind them they are working for you - You are her employer !!


水晶宮

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發表於 04-6-25 16:26 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?


nsinsi,

我應該係今日, 星期五, ‘質問’ 個工人點解佢昨日有咁o既表現, or 等到星期日, 佢放完假心情好 d, 我先丙佢呢?


別墅

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16#
發表於 04-6-25 20:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

birdbird,

I suggest you to `Ping' her today. Do let her know you are `CARE' and don't give her time to forget her bad performance.

Hope she will improve after talking to you.
Our aim is not giving hard time to her, just wanna to help a good helper, right ~!


禁止訪問

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發表於 04-6-26 09:52 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

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複式洋房

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18#
發表於 04-7-3 01:40 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

「黑臉?」--- 就是這一點已可以炒了她, 我以前嗰果都是, 由於這我的第一個helper, 常以為自已待慢了她, 又或她太辛苦了, 結果我忍了她一年, 後來我炒了她, 最後, 我得出一個結論, 是我發現我炒得她太遲, 我新請的印印已工作了一年了, 從没有黑臉, 只有我有時會厲聲罵她... 。 做僱主的, 是不可以反被helper 吓...! 你說是嗎?

....而現在你工人的下場是怎樣?


大宅

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發表於 04-7-13 17:14 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

我個工人都是一樣,每天早上我都希望她變好,但沒可能。我個仔6歲,姊姊滅他都要我問很好次,他才告訴我,可


複式洋房

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20#
發表於 04-7-13 19:31 |只看該作者

Re: 我應唔應該炒佢?

對於回答新僱主嘅電話, 我覺得我朋友有一句好精景...

佢重難服待過我奶奶呀!!!


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