Iris 寫道:我個賓妹經常:
1.對我黑面,尤其叫佢做嘢時
Ans: Most of Domestic helper will [黑面].
2.冇禮貌,同佢講嘢唔望我唔答我
Ans: You should explain it to her at once OR ask your agency to teach her what is politeness.
3.做嘢真的很慢很慢
Ans: It's hard to give comment on it.
4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
Ans: You must always trust your kid. According this point, if I were you , I will fire her then. At least warn her to stop it.
5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但佢只做了半年
Ans: By HK labour law and the service contract, domestic helper must sleep at employer's home. Employer has her/his responsibility to take care of DH. Don't let her test your border line.
6.成日將我同舊僱主比較
Ans: She seems want to be fired and get compensation.
My last DM is the same as you . Only that she did the work very fast so she will have her private time.
I suggest to fire her because it is hopeless that she will change !
My girl is very clever and do the work fast and independantly. She also borrow from many finance company. BUT the worse that she shouted and hit
my son even my neighbour can hear ! Every morning, I wake up and hope that she will change but answer is NO.
She will change ONLY when she request you to fulfil her needs like holiday and borrow money.
4.我個仔話aunt揻佢
* I found she always make my baby sleep, not play and talk to my baby (10 months old)
5.好多要求, 要求放假唔返嚟訓,要求返家鄉放假二星期,但佢只做了半年
* She just testing your bottom line.
6.成日將我同舊僱主比較
* Tell her you are her boss !
I have been asked my maid what's happening on her to give long face to me and my baby. She said `nothing'. Then I said you must be not happy working for us, means you do not want to stay here.
She said `No', then I said to her......I have no reason to keep a person at home she doesn't feels happy and comfortable. She said 'No and she want to stay and work for us. I asked her don't bring her own emotional to work because you are working to me - your boss!
I hope she will get improve, if not, I must fry her.Try to talk to her yo will fry her if she won't improve her autitude.
昨晚的事真係令到我好嬲, 但我始終都冇’丙’佢. 我應唔應該繼續忍佢呢?
Commend
I think you should tell her you do not satisfy her working performance. Do let her know you will fry her if she repeat the mistakes.
I suggest you to put a IP cam in house to montior what's your home situation during the day time.
I think most of the P maid think they are important, educated and they wouldn't work as a home maid from heart.
Need to have more communication with them and remind them they are working for you - You are her employer !!