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ckp


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發表於 04-7-18 21:23 |只看該作者

你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

如果老公在大陸做事, 自己又時常不在身邊,其實真係好擔心!
:lol:
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mei-mei


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發表於 04-7-18 21:28 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

我諗你要有預左o既心態先得,
唔冇話係大陸做野,係香港做野咪一樣有第二個,
哎!總之男人.......,
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ckp


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發表於 04-7-18 21:34 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

我老公已在上面做了多年,我都上去住了差不多兩年多,他工作很busy, 我暫時都會相信佢無做對不著我的事,不過長此落去,我就會擔心!
:lol:
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lovelyanyan


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發表於 04-7-19 04:13 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

咁你有冇工作呀?如果冇,不如跟個老公返大陸住,咁就唔洗擔心啦.睇緊自己個老公好喎

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lcy1998430


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發表於 04-7-19 12:34 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

所以呢…我同我老公講如果佢公司要搬返大陸咁唔好做啦，我一定唔比囉，我覺得結婚就係想大家一齊，咁如果要分開兩地，咁洗乜結婚呀！
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小manman


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發表於 04-7-19 17:57 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

lcy1998430:
我好同意你講的野~
如果係我,我老公一定要返大陸做野架話,我會跟埋上去,結婚就係想兩個人一齊生活,日日都見到面,如果要分開兩地,使乜結婚姐,拍拖都得喇!!!
我honey依架無野做,我爸爸都問過不如叫佢試下揾d要返大陸做野的工,我即刻好大反應咁話,梗係唔得喇,諗都唔好諗呀!!!我想我honey快d揾到野做,都係想結婚姐,第日生活安穩d姐,如果佢返大陸做野,一個唔該識左第2個女仔,我連男朋友都無埋,如果係咁我情願佢無野做好過喇!!!
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yammyma


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發表於 04-7-19 19:37 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

"結婚就係想兩個人一齊生活,日日都見到面,如果要分開兩地,使乜結婚姐"

同意,我有個同學自己同兩個女嚮加拿大,老公嚮大陸做生意,我問過佢,咁分開兩地值唔值得,你咁有信心,當時佢好有信心,但而家佢老公嚮大陸有另一頭家仲有個仔,做緊齊人,唔淮我同學返香港,要佢嚮加拿大照顧d女,我同學嚮個度無親人,但為左兩個女的前途,仍要在加拿大生活.
丈夫-- 一丈之內係夫,一丈之外唔係你老公.
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lcy1998430


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發表於 04-7-19 19:39 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

Hi, 小manman:
希望你老公快D搵到野做啦！
你老公想做乜呀？我公司可能要請個貨車司機喎！
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lcy1998430


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發表於 04-7-19 19:42 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

Hi yammyma,
睇到你朋友個case，我突然個心o拿住咁，真係為乜呀？ :-(
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小manman


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發表於 04-7-19 19:49 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

lcy1998430:
多謝你~
我同我honey仲未結婚架!!!
雖然大家都想盡快結婚,都打算短期會結婚,但始終佢一日未揾到野做一日都唔可以結婚住,有時都覺得好無奈 ~
我honey無車牌架!!!
佢話打算等佢媽咪做完手術康復好,就會同佢親戚做生意喎!!!佢個親戚不嬲都做開生意既,我都希望佢成功,咁我就可以快d嫁得出喇!!! :mrgreen:
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lcy1998430


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發表於 04-7-20 00:25 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

小manman ：
哎，真係唔好意思，我已為你結o左婚添！
咁我唯有祝你早日嫁得出補數啦！ :mrgreen:
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ckkwkl


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發表於 04-7-20 05:23 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

I think this depends on one's character and whether the man can resist the temptation or not. Not fair to hit all people in a boat by one bamboo.

我自己同兩個女嚮加拿大,老公stations嚮大陸 for more than 4 years. 咁分開兩地值唔值得 - yes because for our daughters' future.

I have信心 with him till now. I have warned him what I will do if he finds another woman (hard); and telling him the same meaning in some very soft wordings (soft + "eyes wet wet") - both just reminding him to behave good, really not too worry (but must let him know you mind - wash his brain). He ensures me that he will not do anything wrong, I trust him as we had been going through a lot within the past 22 years. the most important thing is i still love him so much. He said that he loves us more than before and feel so sorry for not treasuring the time when we were together, spent so little times with the girls etc. His work is very busy and needs to travel a lot in China, but he prefers busy than have time to rest (I have the same opinion too, but have not told him <a little bit "c sum">; and told him that it is really hard for him "sun fu"). Initially, we plan to move back HK this summer, as it is really harsh of not seeing him, but thinking of daughters' education (P.1 and P.5) and the economy in HK (not easy for me to find a job as PA or Exe. Sec. with high salary as before), we stay in Canada instead. He said he will come back to Canada in two years' time.
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viviancfhung


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發表於 04-7-20 09:27 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

I am a woman, I was stated in China about 2 year. Most of my HK colleague are men. No of them had a 2nd wife in China. But most of them will go to Kara OK or any other place sometimes. Most of them will drink a lot of bear everyday. Because the life is too boring. In my point of view, it is OK, because they love their family. So don't worry too much, if your HB offer a middle to higher position in China branch. It is bacause They don't want to lost their job only because a chinese lady.
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小草


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發表於 04-7-20 09:42 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

我老公星期一至五o係大陸工作，其實由我地拍拖開始佢已經上大陸做野(阿哥既公司)，到而家結左婚生埋仔女都成十幾年，其間有返過黎香港做野，舊年開始又上番去，所以我都習慣左，都好信任佢，信任自己! 其實佢都係為左頭家，為左搵錢，為自己將來，如果o係香港搵到錢又有發展既話佢都未必會上大陸做野! 大家互相信任、支持係好緊要架!
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yammyma


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發表於 04-7-20 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

當然唔係所有老公在大陸工作都會有二奶,但係個比率實在好高,我四個朋友都係老公在大陸做生意,有三個都有第三者,可能佢地都係生意人,特別受大陸女人歡迎.
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ckp


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發表於 04-7-20 20:27 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

小草 & ckkwkl:
我好開心認識兩位,真係有人會了解自己的心情,只是同一情況才會有所體會,一般人只會說一定不會給他老公去大陸做事的,當你要面對現實的時候, 說話就不是這樣說了! 其實當初老公要選擇去大陸工作是為了大家將來的生活好過點, 否則他可以在香港隋便找一份工就算了!

其實我都係好信任他,只不過自己時常掛念,雖然已裝有cam, 但始終自己都覺得好悶!有一段時間我都跟他上大陸,我只是每天食和訓, 無事做,始終自己後生, 於是找工做一段時間,又不做一段時間又跟他上上落落, 就是這樣了! 希望我們將來
都好幸福地生活!
:lol:
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ckp


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發表於 04-7-20 21:09 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

小草:
我剛剛看過你的web-site,是否你自己做嫁! 幾得意! 見到你有一仔一女, 好開心!我暫時未有小朋友,老公在大陸做事,所以覺得好寂寞,又因為我前兩星期小產了,所以心情都吾係幾好!
:lol:
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ckkwkl


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發表於 04-7-20 22:16 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

ckp 寫道:
一般人只會說一定不會給他老公去大陸做事的,當你要面對現實的時候, 說話就不是這樣說了!


agree - reality needs to have support by money.
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doggie


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發表於 04-7-20 23:27 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

i gone thru' that situation. I used to work in China for over 2 years. (Beijing and Shanghai).. life is very boring, but no choice.. we need the money.
I knew while I'm away, my husband go out to "wet" drinking beer, playing mahjong..or so...I do have faith on him la... but still thinking separate with the family is no good... so I bargain with my company to come back to HK at least twice a month for the weekend stay.
however, when I moved back to HK to work, my husband's job got change and need to go to china... he used to tell me thing -like some one will call to his room at night - asking him if he wants any "entertainment"... :lol:
trust is the main thing la... so what ever he said you just need to believe.. unless you don't let him accept any job that need travel...
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4607


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發表於 04-7-21 00:15 |只看該作者

Re: 你們點睇自己老公在大陸工作,有冇......

ckp,
My husband also works in China for almost 8 years, I very trust him at the first few years, but I start worry these one year. Recently, I more worry about him, he used to travel to different place in China, but recently, he stays overnight at SZ quite often, but before, he would come back to HK. Recently, he sometimes forward (or turn off) his mobile phone when he is SZ at night time, he said no battery, but I don't believe it! Except this, he is fine on other things, no private phone call when he is HK!


Dear all sisters, should I believe him, ask him, or suspect him? Please give me some suggestion!
I really don't know, I am so upset tonight! As I still can't contact him until now (12:10am already)
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