Last week I found out that my husband ex-gf sent a message to his mobile with the following message: " Do u want to have dinner? I miss you, kiss kiss" Actually I didn't intend to check his message, he was sleeping and I wonder maybe his co-worker wanted to contact him. After I saw this message, I disappeared for 2 hours, and later I knew that my husband went everywhere to look for me.
Actually I went to the clubhouse to do exercise and then do facial. After my daughter was born, we always argue with each other and isn't as good as before. He said he got a lot of pressure from his work. But I don't think this is a good excuse to see his ex-gf. He said he only saw the girl for 4 times and he has explained to the girl that he got a family already.
He said he didn't have sex with him. But I don't know whether I should trust him or not. :cry:
jc-mom,
Strongly adviced you not to lose temper. I have experienced similar thing. The purpose of sending this msg, might be to lighten up your fire, making you have fight with you husband, and then she can have chance to kick you away.
She might predict that you have chance to see this msg, so she sent it...等登令你們鬧交, 然後顯得自己賴好一賴通情達理, 賴體貼你老公!!
If you lose temper, your husband may find that girl more comfortable to get close with.
You should in fact talk to him in a peaceful way, making you feel that you are tender and caring wife. You should 打親情牌...不要發脾氣, 讓第三者有位懾!!!
Actually I told my husband I want a divorce in the beginning, but he didn't agree. He said he still love me and the daughter. He said only the ex-gf wants to stick with him, and he explained to her he has a family already. He said he started seeing her in May because we always argue a lot at that time. He swear that he didn't have sex with her.
Sometimes I just don't know whether I still love him or not. He treated me so good before and can tolerate my bad temper. But after I gave birth to the daughter, he was very busy at work and his temper is getting worse. He has to work on shift and only come home around three times every week. You know, I feel much better when I don't have to see him and I can concentrate on my study.
I choose to forgive him this time, however, I told him if he see the ex-gf again, I will want a divorce. At this moment, I am busy in making myself look more pretty. I became fat after my daughter was born. I want to lose weight, not because of him, but for myself. Even though he always said his ex-gf is tall and thin.
I will be very careful from now on, thanks everyone.
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