whymea,
老爺奶奶係無得選擇而又吾可以get rid of 既,除左努力適應之外別無他法。老爺慣左係一家之主,所以屋企什麽都管,當然包括個孫啦。老人家好難接受一家之主既地位比後生佔左架,即係等如叫一個做左幾十年老闆既人做番夥計一樣。你老爺會吾會係因爲仔女大左少左講嘢他知,所以唯有偷聽?又或者他從來都習慣偷聽仔女講電話(當仔女仲細),所以聽埋你講。有d人係人地做o羊都彈既,吾因爲你係心抱所以彈你,而係用彈來台高自己地位。你練習下收放自如啦,arm聽就聽,吾arm聽當聽吾到,反正他只係講,煩係煩d,整整下就慣。如果你頂得順就得閑同老爺傾下,等他知多d你地既生活,話吾定會吾再偷聽。其實你已經handle得好好,好有修養law,比第二個可能已經反抗左。我老爺以前好似一般男人淨係搵錢養家,吾多理嘢。退左休之後變左師奶,無公司管管屋企,所有嘢都要話事,咪話我地,我奶奶都煩到死,但係衣家都慣左law。你都會慢慢習慣當聽吾到啦,最緊要吾好因爲呢d而令自己吾開心,老爺只係你生命中一個閑角,吾好比他影響你開心生活。
thanks all,thanks for袁太's ideas.
twg is right, the baby is my first baby,so every one in the family love he,and his grandfather and grandfather love he so serious , but they have forgoton how to take care of the baby,so they could not give me a hand ,only say a lot ,and something he had said about the baby is so "stupy", but I will try my best to get along with them ,