he is not paying the money for me more one year
because he is terminated the contract by the company
and stay at home.
i used up all my saving to support the family
when he have job he do not pay monthly money to me
now, i do not want to have a helper because i do not enough money
every day i only allow me to buy 20 dollars for lunch and dinner
sometime he will pay 15,000 to me but some not
but when he back home he must request me to buy fresh fish, meat and vegetable and prepare soup for lunch and dinner. he said that i already pay money
other wise he will angry with me and my child
and do not allow me to sleeping in the room and ask me and child sleeping on the floor or sofa
even the child is sick, he do not care and ask,
he will go out for tea with his family
this situation is continue about 3 years, i cannot let my child like that
every month he do not pay, i will ask him for money,he will angry with me and said every time i come you ask me money.
my opinion is "lan for yourself and your son.
first of all, transfer your son back to a public school first, see if your parent can help picking up your son.
Try moving closer to your parents and staying with your son in a smaller flat is better than being force to sleep on the floor
Divorce not divorce is not an issue, the main point is to let yourself and your son have a normal lives."
原文章由 Helloleung 於 08-10-16 17:58 發表
i cannot living with my parent, my parent is living in the public housing, it is illegal
i can spend no money on myself, but i still need to pay for my child's expense
原文章由 ngmyan 於 08-10-16 22:02 發表
my opinion is "lan for yourself and your son.
first of all, transfer your son back to a public school first, see if your parent can help picking up your son.
i am now thinking about how to do
because my parent is over 75 years old and have heart problem
my husband his salary is over 70,000, he is a manager in the large company
my salary only 10,000 more, i already pay all the expense of the house (water, towngas, electricty, management fee, maid salary, school fee, food and transportation)
every day i just allow me to spend $20 for buying food on lunch and dinner.
or buy more eggs, everybody has an egg
my lunch time in office just eat bread.
i already talk to his mother, his mother alway stand on his side say that you have a job and you have salary also.
i don't how he spend his money, i know he buy a car in China
This situation is about 3 years, i support the family 3 years,
last year winter in January at around 12 oclock at noon
my son said Dad i am very hungry can you bring me out to eat.
he shouted to my son and ask him to eat "doll noodle"
and angry with me to let the son ask him go out to eat.
he do not want to spend any money on me or my son
but he is willing to go out dinner or lunch with his mother.
his mother said if i want to divorce, i can divorce.
but think about the son is NO DAD, how sad of him
i feel very upsad to him attitude and behaviour
i do not talk to my parent i don't want them to worry about
i cannot talk to office colleague, i worry about they laugh
at me.
i only crying and crying
i think this situation about 3 years, i cannot long time allow the son to sleeping on the sofa without end date.