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姐妹你好，

我想要您的看法，我是否與我的丈夫分離或我可以怎麼做
我有一個孩子，我的丈夫不給我家用, 或有時給和有時不給

他在中國工作，每週回家，當他回家，他說要睡在床上，並且單獨睡
我和孩子睡在沙發。
當我的孩子做作業時，他關閉光並且說他需要睡覺

我的兒子對祖母說(丈夫的母親)，父親要他睡在沙發, 不允許他睡在床上，並且有時睡在地板上

丈夫的母親她對我的兒子說, 您睡在床上五天, 父親睡在床上二天
您(兒子)處於優勢

我哭, 我傷

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發表於 08-10-16 16:45 |只看該作者

有工作不是新移民

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發表於 08-10-16 16:48 |只看該作者

my salary is not high, now i also need to pay for the helper

i do not have any brother and sister.

my parent is old and no money

my husband said that if i want to separate, he is willing but i cannot ask for any money, otherwise, he will not agree to separate

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發表於 08-10-16 16:58 |只看該作者

不夠錢支付如學費

房子屬C6

自己無錢租一間小房

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發表於 08-10-16 17:30 |只看該作者

原文章由 Helloleung 於 08-10-16 16:48 發表
my salary is not high, now i also need to pay for the helper

i do not have any brother and sister.

my parent is old and no money

my husband said that if i want to separate, he is willing but i cann ...

"helper" 是指工人? 你個仔幾大?要交學費?

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發表於 08-10-16 17:33 |只看該作者

now, i have a helper
because i need go to work

my child 7 years old, i need pay school fee because my husband choose a private school before

my helper will leave this month

nobody pick up my child after helper leave

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發表於 08-10-16 17:41 |只看該作者

可以回父母家住嗎? 你要想清楚, 離婚就要靠自己, 沒有工人, 個仔不能再讀私校, 什麼也要慳, 你可以嗎?

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發表於 08-10-16 17:53 |只看該作者

he is not paying the money for me more one year
because he is terminated the contract by the company
and stay at home.

i used up all my saving to support the family
when he have job he do not pay monthly money to me

now, i do not want to have a helper because i do not enough money
every day i only allow me to buy 20 dollars for lunch and dinner

sometime he will pay 15,000 to me but some not
but when he back home he must request me to buy fresh fish, meat and vegetable and prepare soup for lunch and dinner. he said that i already pay money

other wise he will angry with me and my child

and do not allow me to sleeping in the room and ask me and child sleeping on the floor or sofa

even the child is sick, he do not care and ask,
he will go out for tea with his family

this situation is continue about 3 years, i cannot let my child like that
every month he do not pay, i will ask him for money,he will angry with me and said every time i come you ask me money.

i very very sad

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發表於 08-10-16 17:58 |只看該作者

i cannot living with my parent, my parent is living in the public housing, it is illegal

i can spend no money on myself, but i still need to pay for my child's expense

helper will leave next week,i need to pay salary and ticket
i will hire helper again.

now, i try to find the somebody to pick up my chidl from school

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Connielai

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發表於 08-10-16 18:30 |只看該作者

3年都係咁?好彩你吾駛佢養, 只係搬走左無地方住。請工人真係好貴, 靠你自己一個應付咁多開支, 點頂?

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發表於 08-10-16 22:02 |只看該作者

my opinion is "

lan for yourself and your son.
first of all, transfer your son back to a public school first, see if your parent can help picking up your son.

Try moving closer to your parents and staying with your son in a smaller flat is better than being force to sleep on the floor

Divorce not divorce is not an issue, the main point is to let yourself and your son have a normal lives."

原文章由 Helloleung 於 08-10-16 17:58 發表
i cannot living with my parent, my parent is living in the public housing, it is illegal

i can spend no money on myself, but i still need to pay for my child's expense

helper will leave next week,i ...

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發表於 08-10-16 22:07 |只看該作者

我是男人, 但係都覺得你老公唔係人! 心諗, 我差成點都好吖, 起碼都識得為個仔著想.

而家, 你應該為自己打算一下; 船到橋頭自然直.

比心機啦!

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發表於 08-10-16 22:08 |只看該作者

原文章由 ngmyan 於 08-10-16 22:02 發表
my opinion is "lan for yourself and your son.
first of all, transfer your son back to a public school first, see if your parent can help picking up your son.

Try moving closer to your parents and st ...

您的建議真好!

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發表於 08-10-17 00:37 |只看該作者

家庭係2人負責維繫, 佢都好似冇尊重你地.

有份工, 就唔洗驚, 最緊要去行, 冇話冇左邊個唔得. 開始新生活更有意思.

如果還有遺憾又怎麼樣呢
傷了痛了懂了就能好了嗎
曾經依靠彼此的肩膀
如今各自在人海流浪
逃不開愛越深越互相傷害
越深的依賴越多的空白
該怎麼去愛
如果還有遺憾是分手那天
奔騰的眼淚都停不下來
若那一刻重來我不哭
讓他知道我可以很好.....

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發表於 08-10-17 00:59 |只看該作者

樓主你有無了解過點解c6每個月都唔畀家用？係佢根本有錢都唔想畀你，還是佢份糧連自己都唔夠洗呢？

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