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別墅

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發表於 04-8-30 14:07 |只看該作者

BB出世後, D老人家...

BB出世後, 奶奶同父母都會緊張起來, 但我怕他們太投入, 日後可能會經常因揍BB而有衝突故此早早安排工人主力, 我亦不讓他們帶BB出街, 但有時都會覺得自己專制。


侯爵府

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發表於 04-8-30 16:25 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

其實都唔係專制呢個係自己bb係會比較關心,同時你唔想大家為揍bb而有所爭執啫. :wink:


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發表於 04-8-30 17:45 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

如果D老人家咁投入, 係唔係越黎越鐘意


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-30 18:19 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

My 99 also argue with me, but she just 發脾氣 to her son. She say I disagree her teaching method, and say I only allow she to take care my BB, not teach my BB. (She always say don't teach the children so much, dont' join the extra-activities for them, as the children know more, they will hard to teach)死未.

I just remind my husband again, his mother's teaching method really out-date, I will only teach my children using my method, of course, if anyone have better suggestion, I will listen.

If you dont' agree them, you can talk to your parent and your husband teach to his parent. This will better.

Good or not is hard to say, because I really have friend that his parents teach his BB is muct better than him.

:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-30 20:26 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

evachoy,
嘩~~你奶奶實行"愚民政策"喎~~你bb如果俾佢教實變一碌葛,乜都唔識。我初時都稔住俾奶奶湊阿b湊到一歲左右,因一歲後開始識多do野,無稔住俾奶奶教,但依家決定自己一手一腳湊阿b,幼兒教育好重要o既 :mrgreen:


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-31 01:29 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

calcal:
I always feel that my husband & his brothers also very "一碌葛".
My husband also feel that, so he also don't want to listen to his mother.
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-31 16:11 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

我都係唔比佢地自己帶BB落街, 因為唔知佢地會做D咩野!! 我奶奶又係好緊張BB架, 佢星期一至五每日來我家只係2小時(但我放假時佢一定唔會來的), 佢就扮到好似知道BB好多野; 我帶BB去佢地屋企, 佢地直頭當自己個仔一樣, 當我透明咁, 如果對佢地唔專制D第二時實有排煩. :-x


複式洋房

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發表於 04-9-1 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

WAh!! your mother-in-law comes to your home everyday??! I will be dead!!

I also hate them to be in my house to bother me since they always talk so loudly and bring lots of soups or 'sweet soup' or ' chinese herbal tea'.

they sometimes also kiss my baby, which is not proper!! very unhealthy!!


男爵府

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發表於 04-9-1 01:38 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

我會同奶奶講..我會吸取你的經驗及意見, 不過, 教仔我覺得係父母既責任, 正如你教自己個仔, 都唔會假手於嘛嘛(佢奶奶), 係咪...?


別墅

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發表於 04-9-2 00:22 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

mymelody2003,
我好明白你既感受, 尤其係果句〝佢就扮到好似知道BB好多野〞。
我係果種未有bb前, 一d都唔鐘意小朋友, 又咩野家務都唔鐘意做, 最多淨係識煮個麵個女人, 人地一定覺得我唔識揍bb, 下下都想幫我, 但係反而攪到我好驚無左亞媽既角色, 而且我憑睇書同請教別人, 實際上我覺得自己都揍得幾好。
其實之前同奶奶已為此事鬧不和, 宜家佢都放棄去爭住揍, 但係輪到我老豆, 開始同我bargin 要帶bb 落街, 但我想宜家我唔企硬, 第時佢越來越投入, 會bargin更多野, 到時去邊又要嘈一輪, 食咩野又要嘈一輪, 買咩野又要嘈.....最重要係管教方式唔一致, d小朋友好快識理用大人這弱點, 再加上我俾得老豆咁, 奶奶又話要咁.....
但係我老公唔幫我, 認為老人家要求好合理, 話我set條界線太高....
唔好意思寫咁長, 因為我真係覺得有壓力, 生bb唯一因引的不愉快就是與老人家的關係。 :cry:


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-2 11:50 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

唔好意思,我唔係好明點解唔比得D老人家帶小朋友落街?我細個時我爺爺嫲嫲都有帶我落街呀去公園玩呀。。。 我唔係好明有乜野擔心。。? ?-( ?-(


男爵府

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發表於 04-9-2 12:40 |只看該作者

Re: BB出世後, D老人家...

gavial :

其實好難界定邊個對的, 因為bb係自己生既, 每個人的處理手法唔同, 我都好認同你話生bb後同老人家的關係比以前差, 因為佢地不停咁挑戰我地的底線, 永遠唔會先問我地才去做, 雖然佢地係長輩, 但係佢地唔專重人我點叫我地專重佢地呢?? 我唔會覺得自己set的底線太高, 如果唔係佢地會越來越過份; 老公方面我都同佢解釋過好多次, 而佢從實例中都會看到邊個對的, 你慢慢同佢解釋啦, 佢慢慢會明白你的感受的.
我係在職媽媽, 對家庭及bb的事巳經好多事要處理, 有時工人唔聽時又要激氣, 又要加上同奶奶的相處關係(幸好不是同住的), 壓力真係好大好大, 好在現在老公都好明白我的感受, 如果唔係日子真難過 !! :wink:

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