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大宅

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發表於 04-8-27 14:01 |只看該作者

心痛!請幫忙

各位媽咪 :

最近兩星期同3歲的仔仔戒夜片,集合bk媽咪的意見,睡前一小時後唔好飲水�奶,半夜叫他起身VV, 頭一星期都還可以, 只是半夜起身後,我訓唔翻,因擔心起唔到身。
但這個星期起了變化,他睡前VV,但訓落床後就不停要VV,他可以在5分鐘內做7次,重複訓落床,起身,VV,問他是否急,如果唔急就唔好VV,(我認為他是緊張,但我絕對沒有給他壓力及閙他)。 半夜叫醒他VV,他就不停大哭及發狂地打人 (睡前已叫他半夜VV時唔好哭,他應成,但做唔到), 他哭到聲沙及日頭唔夠精神

我唔知我的方法是否不對, 請問有無類似經驗的媽咪可分享及提供解決方法。

yuekinwai


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發表於 04-8-27 14:13 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

Dear Yuekinwai,

My son was also experience that when he was 2.5 yrs old when he made his bed wet (actually just one time only). It was the psycological problem.

If he agree, let him have the diaper when sleeping. Only when his diaper is dry and not VV in midnight, you could ask if he want to have the diaper with him when sleeping. (My son rejected from 3 yr old).

Explain to him many children still have diaper when they are 4 or 5 yrs old. NO need to push if they are not ready.

Just keep talking with him and let them know even his parent also experience this before.

Hope this could help.


複式洋房

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發表於 04-8-27 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

唔會半夜叫醒 VV.

我係觀察佢一段長時間,如果每天醒來尿片都是乾,便唔用片,半夜 check 佢有冇賴尿,不過會放墊係床單下,萬一半夜賴尿都唔會濕張床.

如果長時間半夜叫佢起身VV,會變成半夜一定要去廁所,唔知醒去就會賴尿.半夜叫醒個仔都唔健康啦!

我同事個仔,佢會半夜唔叫個仔起身,不過用隻杯幫個仔去 VV,佢個仔訓住覺都會照去喎!


複式洋房

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發表於 04-8-27 15:47 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

我个女已經過左3歲, 諗住都係時候戒夜晚著片,9:30pm後唔飲嘢, 臨上床去一次VV,約10:30pm訓, 諗住12點叫起身VV, 但未夠钟已經賴咗, 就算好彩忍到叫起身, 之後到捱唔到天光又賴, 但每次咁叫法,她都發脾氣, 終於訓得唔好, 攪到病咗. 自此便放棄照著片訓, 但仍然9:30後不飲嘢, 臨上床去一次VV, 同埋講如果急急, 要起身同姐姐講. 反然近兩个星期, 很多時她可以自己忍到天光去廁所.
其實要提佢去廁所, 就算無賴都唔可以話佢成功戒到片, 始終都係要人哋提,唔係自己忍倒.
安慰自己, 佢都係3歲啫, 都仲有時間,不過仍然follow以上戒片程序但唔会半夜叫醒, 早上起床問問有冇賴VV, 無就有獎糖食, 有就講句, 點解咁唔叻呀....



大宅

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發表於 04-8-27 17:50 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

yuekinwai,

It seems that you son is not ready yet. Maybe you have better try it again later e.g. 6 months later.

I didn't wake my son up because for me, his sleep is more important than the diaper. And I waited until his diaper was dry in the morning. But to be fair, my son sleeps around 8-9 hours only at night. So if your son sleeps longer, it is harder.

We have to wait for the child's bladder to mature, and can hold the water for at least 8 hours, and it takes time.

Good luck!


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發表於 04-8-27 17:55 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

我女3歲半,我學褸下街坊順其自然。我等佢入學有規律啲先試叫佢瞓前去吓厠所試吓!我唔想好似對户咁,已好夜瞓...應過點幾;試過1點推車帶女落樓下,大人2、3點啦!半夜扯女起身,聽見佢女喊到....可能阿媽話呱?
佢片冇濕咪留用囉!好過佢賴濕咗,認為自己做唔到唔開心令父母失望,心理壓力咪成日要去。有啲會拍醒大人添
我女2001年1月8日QE出世  


別墅

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發表於 04-8-27 18:28 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

我個囡唔知咁算唔算介咗夜片,我個囡下個月3 歲,係佢2歲半時,我就同佢講"BB用完呢包片片後,媽咪唔買片片啦,BB夜晚唔包片片訓架啦,BB大個女啦,佢就應你話好,跟住你晚晚同佢講淨幾片,比佢知仲有幾多日用完片,係仲包片訓的同時,我會係1:00零晨叫佢起身尿尿,(多數佢仲訓緊,抱佢起身"薯薯"佢肯"柯",咁樣可以去到第二朝佢訓醒先再"尿尿"多數訓到8:00至9:00到,有時佢急佢自己會自己起身"柯",起身見佢片片無濕就贊佢,話佢叻叻BB,等佢覺得自己可以做到,跟住朝朝佢起身見片片無濕,佢會話自己好叻豬,咁我地就附和佢,如是者到片片用完,同佢講片片用完啦,如果急急要起身話比媽咪聽要尿尿,佢話知道,到而家為止,佢無包片有兩個多月,都未試過"柯濕"(TOUCH WOOD),我晚晚1:00叫佢起身"柯"一次,跟住去到第二,有時半夜急,佢會叫我話BB要柯尿,ANYWAY佢都識急叫我,佢臨訓有飲奶先訓(飲完即訓,所以1:00AM叫佢起身柯穩陣D),如果有飲奶可以一訓到早上8:00


男爵府

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發表於 04-8-27 18:42 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

pettywoman,

順其自然吧! 無謂令小朋友有壓力, 自己又不開心.
好似我對孖女3歲, 一個已戒片, 另一個還未可以.
我從來都沒要求她們戒夜片, 當她們有需要時, 自動自覺起床叫話要去廁所. 但到現在我每一晚還她們著片.


大宅

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發表於 04-8-29 01:53 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

我個仔係22個月大時,就全部戒晒日夜同出街片片啦,起初同佢戒夜片都好大壓力,成晚都唔敢訓睇佢有冇賴,過左幾日都無濕過張床(成晚),但係就好緊張,搞到好辛苦!於是我諗住放棄,等大家都無咁力壓力!點知當我想同仔仔包返片片時,佢竟然唔肯俾我包返片,咁我咪算囉,最多咪換床單......

但係佢都一路無賴尿到天光...後來保母同我講bb如果訓得熟的話,係唔會賴尿架!只有佢醒左先會賴架!
So far佢戒左幾個月到而家,夜晚都係試過幾次賴濕張床,我覺得已經好好啦,起碼慳返尿片錢嘛!

所以,都係試下大膽d去戒啦,睇下會唔會好d??? ?-(


大宅

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發表於 04-9-2 13:17 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

我個囝囝半夜起身無哭啦!

我沒有半夜叫醒他, 由得他, 如果濕左就換褲, 無濕就同他VV。
但他臨訓前不停VV, 5分鐘內可以去5次(頭一次正常,其它都是滴滴下, 我叫他系急先去, 滴滴下唔係急,但都無用, 我認為都是心理作用及緊張, 我唔知點處理好,請給意見!謝謝

yuekinwai


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-2 14:17 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

yuekinwai,

你囝囝生理未成熟, 但可能心智比你想像中成熟! 所以, 雖然你說沒有給壓力, 但他自己給自己壓力。 他會知道現在沒有尿片, 賴濕床是不好的。

種種蹟像, 似乎你囝囝是沒有信心, 我覺得應該暫停一兩個星期再試。 而這一兩個星期, 你可檢查他的片片有沒有濕 及 盡量留意是那段時間濕的, 去了解囝囝生理上是否準備好戒夜片。 不用急, 5 - 6 歲才戒, 大有人在。
「多元社區,和諧並存;你我出手,聾健共融 」


大宅

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發表於 04-9-3 14:22 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

jk67jk

我都考慮過放棄,但我的囝囝強烈抗拒用片片, 賓賓在他熟睡時同他著紙尿褲,半夜起身VV給他知道,他發很大脾氣,很大力地打她, 所以沒有同他著片片,迫於無奈同他戒。

yuekinwai


子爵府

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發表於 04-9-3 23:01 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

yuekinwai,

我又想問, 會不會其實他利用vv 唔想睡覺呢? 我仔仔見我地未o訓, 試過用哩招拖延睡覺時間喎!

你初初有講話半夜叫醒他vv; 後來你又話沒有, 只是順其自然 -- 其實係點呢? 我不太主張叫醒去vv的, 因為如小朋友膀胱成熟, 如睡前vv了, 應該是臨天光才有機會賴尿的, 半夜絕不應影響其睡眠.
「多元社區,和諧並存;你我出手,聾健共融 」


大宅

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發表於 04-9-4 00:42 |只看該作者

Re: 心痛!請幫忙

yuekinwai,

Then your son is quite mature in thinking, maybe he relates grown up = no diaper.

jk67jk maybe right, sometimes he may not be sleepy enough and just buy time by going to toilet. Or he is really worried about wetting himself during the night.

My son was like yours, he refused when I asked him to wear diaper again.

Have you tried these?

1. tell everybody, especially your son, that wetting the bed is NO big deal, just an accident, the only trouble caused is we have to change the bedsheets. And it is VERY normal to have accidents. (my son wets sometimes, and I try to praise him that he wakes up in time, if only the troussers are wet.)

2. Restrict the frequency to go to toilet, say 2 times only in an hour? Then down to once in 2 hours? He won't have much urine within 2 hours after the last urination. You can teach him about this, and help him to overcome his fear. I think he can understand.

I do admire your son, he is very determined to grow up.

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