I remember when my 99 first come to my flat, she want to control everything....... plates should place here, not there....... furnitures should bought that style.........
I was very angry! And my husband told me to ignore all her words and it will be the last time she come in our flat! :;pppp:
I can feel what you feel........... I have also a cat who lives with me for almost 10 years. I cried for 1 years when he died!
Then, my husband give another similiar kitty to me. However, it can not replace the old one.
The problem is your husband want to live with your 99 (his mother)......... and your 99 don't like cats!!
Don't be like that la...
My 奶奶 always tell me to throw my 狗狗 & 猫猫 away too! She will "forget" to call before she comes to my flat. But I just try to ignore or cry lor...hoping my 狗狗 & 猫猫 will behave so that my 奶奶 cannot make further comments...
Your bb doesn't know any of this and you should not 後悔生左BB because bb is very precious and will bring you alot of joy. Good luck!