Tell the truth, it also depends on the wife.
I can't understand why most of the wife will 'push' their husband in fornt of them (99 and wife) and complain that the husband don't help his wife.
If a man always stand in the side of his wife after married........ I am sure he is not a good man. A good man will never treat his parents like this.
I remember that when I got married, I told my husband if I have any 紛爭 with your parents, you should hide .............. It is because one is your mother, and the other is your wife. What can you do? I hope you can keep out of our 紛爭! It is the 紛爭 between 2 women.