Hi! I have a question. Did you guys ever been shout by your other half in the public area?
When we ordered the food in the fast food restaurant. I went out to pick up the food. But my little son cried for me. Then he lost his temper & shouted at me said "返黎呀!" I was so embarassed at that moment. But what should I response? I then went back to the seat & hold my son. He then went out to get the food. But many people were watching us, or me. Last night, when I can't went to sleep & cried, I realized that I was deeply hurt by his action. It seems very insulting. I never been shout by others in my life time. And this one is my husband. shxt!
Sorry to bother you all. I just want to express it out, to release my anger. Otherwise, I'll blow out.
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If I were you, I wiould grab my son and leave the restaurant, let him got the food and return to an empty table. Also I would told my son why I do that and why his father is wrong.
Perhaps you hubby was angered by your son, but he should control his temper, bacause he IS the role model for your son.
Just tell him that, I think he owed you an apology.
If I were you, I will carry my son together to take the food, show him that without him, I can also manage everything, I will not under his control like this.
我已經send左email比佢,話佢知我既feeling.估唔到佢會咁答我:
"Why don't you think to stop Anson first (by either responding him or calling him to come out with you) during that moment? Why to let Anson shout again and again so that even I and other customers are almost temporarily deaf!? If you think it is my fault, I am sorry that I cannot agree!"
哈哈!咁都得?!He can only think of the action, instead of his tone. :evil:
Tell your husband that it is also his responsibility to keep his son quiet. Remind him to think about why his son doesn't want to stick with him.
In order to avoid this happen again, I think you must learn to be more cruel than your husband. My husband would dare not to shout at me, as I am very cruel. Ha Ha Ha! :mrgreen:
Don't be angry with him, just think of happy thing!
I think you should have a chat with your hubby when you two are both calmed down. You will need to tell him exactly what you dislike about his action & behaviour in public. Forgive him this time, but if he lost his temper again in public again, then just take your son and leave...
Don't feel unhappy, I think your husband was not that mean. But you need to let him know that "he is not allowed to shout at you in public area, that's the bottomline."
In fact, I remembered I also punished (or talked to my husband very angrily) in the streets few times. I was so regret to have such action but I did not know why I could not control myself. My husband told me that he disliked this. Then, I remembered and to avoid this happen.
I think he got mad as you were not feeling his way (thus, turned back immediately to look after your son). This is a very common problem in couples. Just communicate more and situation can definitely be improved. But pls ask your husband to remember your "bottom-line" lor!
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