Moses also sticks to me very much when seeing
me, everyday when i return home, i immediately
take shower + dinner, while Moses is sleeping
or playing with my maid inside the room. But
he knows i have returned because of the sounds,
so he will cry heavily, when i was having dinner
last nite, my maid took him to the dinning room
and when he saw me, he looked at me bitterly and
crying, i explained to him everytime that i
had to finish all before playing with him,
though he understand, he still was unhappy &
kept looking at me, when i moved and wanted to
go to toilet to wash my hands, he immediately
cried because he assumed that i should hold
him after dinner.
Some moms here know how sticky of Moses,
when only Moses and me at home, if i go to
toilet, i have to bring him together, now
i can let him sit on the small chair and
wait for me, so funny.
I don't mind this as actually i love to
see this, because when he is 3 years, or
bigger, you will miss those dates.
also, he also does not want to take
soild when i am here, same as you.
i was heard from someone that if the baby
wants to stick to someone, means the baby
is so healthy, positively developed;
because they know " love" & want to be
loved by someone. take it easy/
yes yes, how old is your elder
daughter? can you let your younger
follow her more ? my friend has
2 boys, one is almost five and another
is 11 months, her younger always
plays with his brother, sometimes
when the younger is very fussy
& crying heavily, the elder will
play with him and finally all
settled.
also, the only way is to release
more works to your maid for taking
care of your elder daughter.
But my elder daughter don't like play with her younger sister. Both girls are like me to play with them alone especially my elder daughter. She always needs my attention.
When my younger daughter cry and I take care her, my elder daughter has feel angry.
Understand your situations,
but please still enjoy this
eventhough you feel tired,
so when my friends invite me
for dinner, i always bring
Moses together; I never
sparate with him except my
office hour. I really don't want
the little one to be unhappy,
frustrated, i would eager to
satisfy his needs, and i know
one day he will not need this,
which i will miss this very much.
Be relaxed, you have 2 angels,
which they will make you cry and
make you smile.