介紹三本書:
1.How to talk so kids will listen and listen so they will talk - Adele Faber
2.How to talk so kids can learn --Adele Faber
3.Raising your spirited child: A Guide for Parents Whose Child Is More Intense, Sensitive, Perceptive, Persistent, Energetic -Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
第一本我驚為天書,幾年前看的,裏面講的方法,一生受用.對孩子對老公對所有的人都用得著.第二本是姐妹作,集中小朋友學習的環境,家長和老師都很受用.這兩本都夾入小量漫畫,把重點用圖象重申,特別入腦.
第三本其實我沒有看過,不過這位作者另一本書Parents, Kids and Power Struggle是我其中一本至愛.對她有信心.就看書名,也應該很對題.
PoohNose:
你囡囡不就是feeling more intense, more sensitive and perceptive嗎?也許你可以去Dymocks, Kelly & Walsh或者Page One試試打書釘,看看合不合用.另外兩本書圖書館是有的,可以看完再決定買不買本旁身.
Thanks for all your sharing here, particularly the recommendation from Blythemia.
I have also immediately borrow a book from the library.
Though my son is a boy, 2 years and 5 months now. He will also cry when he watched VCD or listen to stories. Even when the baby sitter told me that he cried when watching VCD concerning ..... a little dog / bear lost his way home, he will cry again.
When I gave story on three little bears of "Ma Ma Po Po" just about a little girl entered into a house. The little girl broke little bear's chair, finished the bear's soup and slept on the bear's bed. My son is so sad that he cried immediately, even though I told him that little bear now is a good friend of the girl. This was about two or three months ago. I did not give this (kind) of story again.
I should also learn from Blythemia to read more books to deal with my sensitive baby. He is also sticky that he will follow you wherever you go, even at home.