我都是過來人,
take care of one thing at a time,
health is your top priority.
To 'hexx' with everything/ everyone,
deal with your health first,
drop the rest for now.
jm加油
ps.TV comedy 有句笑話:
"Every family is dysfunctional (功能障礙= 家人不睦)
because there is more than one person in it."