I had similar (bad) experience of employing my ex-PT's younger half-sister as DH.
The younger sister turned out to be vvvvv lazy and resigned after 3.5m. It was actually a free tour (Phil-HK-Phil) for her + a chance to earn some HK$.
My first helper was just like your maid. However, after I changed few helpers, I would consider she was good.
She took good care of my baby and cleaned the house very tidy. However, might be I treated her to good. She started to be tricky:- Mon, Wed, Fri -- she had headache. Tue, Thur, Sat -- her eye felt painful. I brought her to the doctor, the doctor said she was fine. Then She told me she did not have enough sleep everyday. But she slept more than me. She slept before 11pm and woke up at 8am. She was allowed to take a nap in the afternoon with my baby. (She did not sleep with my baby at night)
Then I talked to her "I know you don't want to work for me anymore, therefore, you always made a complaint for everything. I think you don't need to do that. Because I will let you go home but I hope you can wait for my new helper come."
pyianmum講得啱,我都覺得要比小小下馬威佢哋.
我個bun初初嚟時就有"山頭主義", 以為廚房同工人房係佢地方,我買嘢返嚟成日話no place,(no place我又會有工人房連洗手間比佢?)我專登做高佢張床等床下邊可以放啲嘢,點知佢就放紙箱嚟擺垃圾(即我哋唔要個啲衫褲鞋襪),我要擺嘢就no place,佢就幾箱嘢擺係度,最嬲係叫我擺個麵包爐喺飯廳,因廚房no place,家陣唔知邊個係House owner,結果我要佢執廚房啲櫃我睇,多出幾多位出嚟,買多幾個爐都仲得.又唔問我就將啲嘢放喺我囝間房嘅櫃頂,跌落嚟點算?卒之有次我同佢嘈,將啲不滿講晒出嚟,我話你唔改我唔需要你,佢可能知唔啱,將啲箱搬走,以後我要放嘢冇say no,仲自動執啲嘢入床下邊,到而家做咗3年tim,但係black face to my kids冇得改,對住我就冇.算啦,請個新嘅可能仲差,我諗我都會同佢續第3個約,即係要比長期服務金.
我建議你同佢講:If you can appear a smiling face to all of us (family members), I would extend your contract. It is hard to live with a person always with a black face.
估唔到一post左段野出來就有下文:
事源every Sun before she leave, 佢都會boil定congee for my BB, 咁上個week都不例外, 不過我星期六夜左小小番屋企, 返到去我入kitchen洗野, 見到個保溫壺入面已有boil好了的congee, 我問佢for what? 佢話係BB on Sun, 我話有無攪錯, 你知唔知BB唔食得隔夜粥?? :evil: 佢話我Sun very hurry, no time to cook for BB, 咁我話: you wake up earlier咪得law, 佢話holiday想sleep more, 跟住問我知唔知佢地holiday可有24hr架? 跟住我火到黎埋, 炳左佢成個鍾, 係好惡個隻(我老公都話未見過我咁惡!), 我話, 如果你想according to labour law, 我可以咩都according to labour law, 咁首先你Christmas唔好放假, 改為22 Dec, 另外我會再出一份daily time table俾你填, 你最好跟足點做, Otherwise, you will know what happen later.....
佢即刻喊晒, 又話佢唔係咁既意思...我話你唔好再搵excuse, 唔鐘意即刻執野走, 跟住佢問我BB咁點(即係試我啦), 我話BB只係唔可以無左父母, other than that, 佢無左邊個都得, the wrose case is we send BB to 育嬰院...
跟住佢知驚, 即刻話我想留底架....我都無佢咁好氣, 後來下一part由我老公同佢傾, 話佢咁樣講野真係好唔掂....etc叫佢即刻同我say sorry, 佢都有say sorry, 但係我地諗住換人lu........我都好hurt架, 俾心對佢佢竟然咁樣, 諗住live under the same house唔好咁計較, 點知係佢同我計... :cry: 可能我第一次請工人啦, 真係無下次........
In frankly speaking, I think she is ok at her performance after I read many stories at here. At least she didn't black face or argue with me when I asked her to help at Christmas Day. (Because I have party at home every Christmas)That's why I bought her Gift every Christmas even through she was not good to my kids(but not harm them).She just black face when she go along with my kids and I found that accidental.She seldom showed black face at home.
Me too :evil:
我唔係第一次用工人, but 99 係第一次, 基本上我哋好多野冇限制佢, coz對佢多嘅係 99, so, 佢好精咁同我哋劃線, 我哋越冇所謂, 佢就越過太.(佢已係HK做咗8年野)佢成日講之前employer對佢點好點好,另一方面又講佢哋是非,搗到我99對佢更好,驚比佢唱, 而且99要keep住好人形象(我哋成家都係冇咩所謂嘅人, 其實本身已待佢不薄, 好似多咗個親戚咁, 佢自己亦當正)請工人之原因click here