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男爵府

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發表於 04-12-18 15:15 |只看該作者

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睇左呢個topic好奈, 見到好多衰工人, 好工人既野, 有時相比之下會覺得自己隻賓雖然唔好, 但係又未至於你地講個D咁差, 不過, 最近發生好多野, 真係不吐不快! 等我重頭到尾打出來發洩一下:

我隻bun(A)係我識的一個bun(B)的妹, 阿B以前幫我做part-time, 做左2年, 我見佢個人唔錯, 家務一流, 咁岩我大肚, 咪問佢黎唔黎做, 點知佢話驚自己唔識take care new born, 想introudce佢自己個妹黎做, 咁我同老公相量過, 覺得反正都是隔山買牛, 就試下啦, 跟住....唉...

佢來是上年的事, (剛好一年), 個時我重大住個肚, 未生BB之前佢試過boil water唔記得熄火, 條門key開左門唔記得除番出來, 個時都向呢樹問過D人應否炒佢, 但諗深一層佢主要是來take care BB, 而且佢未來HK打過工, 可能佢home sick or absent mind都係一段時間, 我生了BB之後會改善, 咁我地就口頭warn左佢, 但沒有炒佢!

到我BB出了世, 佢take care得都不錯, 只係D 普通家務如ironing, cooking等真係唔掂, 咁我同老公都隻眼開隻眼clsoe, 向我差唔多坐原月要返工之前, 佢突然同我講佢唔做, 因為佢同男友argue, 佢男友說佢唔番去就分手, 我當時覺得好煩, 咩到warm up好又話唔做, 就call左佢家姐, 佢家姐炳左佢一輪, 後來我話不如等我請到人你先走啦, 佢話好! 待我搵到人, 準備請, 佢又話同男友好番, 想留底, 我地又心軟, 諗住做生不如做熟, 同埋唔想又side錢, so 又俾佢過左骨

之後, 當然佢又有很多careless mistake, 不過又唔係太serious, 我地又算!

再之後, 我重introduce埋佢個大家姐to my another friend, 跟住, 佢個大家姐成日話俾我個friend知佢細妹向樹做得唔開心, 我問我個friend佢唔開心D乜, 唔聽由自可, 一聽之下把幾火, 佢竟然話我地"黑溥", 無野俾佢食? 我自問雖然對佢D 野唔上心, 但講到食就真係.....首先, 初初我唔知佢鐘意食咩, 為左盡量滿足佢, 我有一個櫃係放佢的食物, 包括出前一丁noodel, 辛X noodle, 金寶湯, cereal, bread, 沙X魚, chocolcate, cholocate 餅......etc, 重有我every week 俾$20佢去自己buy breakfast, 晚晚我去買送都有魚有肉, 依家話我無俾野佢食?? 我聽完之後勁嬲, 我老公重立刻去影左個櫃張相send俾我個friend, 我個friend睇完都問我地做咩對佢咁好? 後來, 佢家姐又同我freind講話唔係無野食, 係D野唔岩食, 大佬, 你來打工不是來做女, 我同老公都是清茶淡飯, 你想食咩, 魚翅好唔好?????

之後我已想炒左佢, 但係又覺得好煩, 我又唔可以請假, 請過個又未必好, 不過我覺得我地太寵佢, 佢開始有面色!

最近佢燙我老公件衫, 燙漏左條領, 我老公叫佢燙番, 佢再燙完之後條領竟然有暗花, 咁肯定係佢太用力, 個燙斗印印左落條領度, 咁我老公問佢: 你係咪好用力再燙過條領(當時佢唔知有暗花), 佢話係, 跟住我老公話: 你睇, 攪成咁, 佢即刻話: 唔關我事, 我都無用力! 大佬, 唔關你事關邊個事???

佢D no common sense野重離譜, 可以將cleaning toys的cloth同clean地下的cloth放再一起, 俾我99話佢, 佢重要扮聽唔明....

以上都是part of 佢D衰野, 係咪真係衰到要炒? 但炒佢真是很煩呀!!!!!!!!!!!又要補錢, 又要take risk, 又要請假.........
:evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

本來我可以搵阿B再傾傾, 但係我無意中識左阿B個 employer, 先知原來阿B好識耍手段, 同埋都唔好得佢阿妹幾多, 個個人都想炒左阿B...不過又係同我一樣煩緊............ :cry: :cry:


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發表於 04-12-18 15:50 |只看該作者

Re: 終於輪到我!

:-x :-x :-x


子爵府

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發表於 04-12-18 16:04 |只看該作者

Re: 終於輪到我!

Coolpig,

I had similar (bad) experience of employing my ex-PT's younger half-sister as DH.

The younger sister turned out to be vvvvv lazy and resigned after 3.5m. It was actually a free tour (Phil-HK-Phil) for her + a chance to earn some HK$.


大宅

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發表於 04-12-18 19:11 |只看該作者

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I would never employ maids recommended by their relative, they only come to group up, not to work


大宅

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發表於 04-12-18 22:45 |只看該作者

Re: 終於輪到我!

I also had a similar experience with your's. I completely agress with elegant!
elegant 寫道:
I would never employ maids recommended by their relative, they only come to group up, not to work


大宅

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發表於 04-12-18 23:19 |只看該作者

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coolpig,
if i was u, i'll fire her. 日日對住個自己唔鐘意的工人, 心情當然唔好, 還要再忍一年, 咁你咪重唔開心, 換工人係煩啲, 不過一個好彩比你換到個ok啲, 你咪開心啲low...
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發表於 04-12-18 23:36 |只看該作者

Re: 終於輪到我!

My first helper was just like your maid. However, after I changed few helpers, I would consider she was good.

She took good care of my baby and cleaned the house very tidy. However, might be I treated her to good. She started to be tricky:- Mon, Wed, Fri -- she had headache. Tue, Thur, Sat -- her eye felt painful. I brought her to the doctor, the doctor said she was fine. Then She told me she did not have enough sleep everyday. But she slept more than me. She slept before 11pm and woke up at 8am. She was allowed to take a nap in the afternoon with my baby. (She did not sleep with my baby at night)

Then I talked to her "I know you don't want to work for me anymore, therefore, you always made a complaint for everything. I think you don't need to do that. Because I will let you go home but I hope you can wait for my new helper come."


我同佢咁講係想比佢知道,我唔係無咗佢唔得(但事實係佢對我好重要,可能佢都feel到啦,所以佢玩嘢嚟爭取一D佢想要嘅嘢) 我係一樣会換helper,我講完比佢聽後,佢D病突然好返晒。 另外我順便叫佢簽埋1 month notice,補錢都慳返,萬一佢再玩嘢,我可以再請另外一個,然後到最後一分鐘先通知我炒佢。結果佢係我屋企做咗1 1/2 yrs,日日話掛住D家人,所以我都比佢走。

雖然有段時間佢成日玩嘢,但compare跟住嗰兩個工人,佢相對又好少少,所以我覺得你先比少少下碼威佢睇,如果佢改過,就無謂換工人,下一個未必好,train另外一個又嘥時間。除非你嚇完佢後,佢仍然唔理你,你先再諗換人。


子爵府

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發表於 04-12-19 01:49 |只看該作者

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fire her la :evil:


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發表於 04-12-19 09:35 |只看該作者

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pyianmum講得啱,我都覺得要比小小下馬威佢哋.
我個bun初初嚟時就有"山頭主義", 以為廚房同工人房係佢地方,我買嘢返嚟成日話no place,(no place我又會有工人房連洗手間比佢?)我專登做高佢張床等床下邊可以放啲嘢,點知佢就放紙箱嚟擺垃圾(即我哋唔要個啲衫褲鞋襪),我要擺嘢就no place,佢就幾箱嘢擺係度,最嬲係叫我擺個麵包爐喺飯廳,因廚房no place,家陣唔知邊個係House owner,結果我要佢執廚房啲櫃我睇,多出幾多位出嚟,買多幾個爐都仲得.又唔問我就將啲嘢放喺我囝間房嘅櫃頂,跌落嚟點算?卒之有次我同佢嘈,將啲不滿講晒出嚟,我話你唔改我唔需要你,佢可能知唔啱,將啲箱搬走,以後我要放嘢冇say no,仲自動執啲嘢入床下邊,到而家做咗3年tim,但係black face to my kids冇得改,對住我就冇.算啦,請個新嘅可能仲差,我諗我都會同佢續第3個約,即係要比長期服務金.


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發表於 04-12-19 13:48 |只看該作者

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真係最怕被工人話我們 "刻薄"佢 - 明明已對她很好。這個經驗我都曾經試過。
以心開揚待人真  晴朗笑容樂在心


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發表於 04-12-19 22:33 |只看該作者

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我建議你同佢講:If you can appear a smiling face to all of us (family members), I would extend your contract. It is hard to live with a person always with a black face.


男爵府

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發表於 04-12-20 09:22 |只看該作者

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估唔到一post左段野出來就有下文:
事源every Sun before she leave, 佢都會boil定congee for my BB, 咁上個week都不例外, 不過我星期六夜左小小番屋企, 返到去我入kitchen洗野, 見到個保溫壺入面已有boil好了的congee, 我問佢for what? 佢話係BB on Sun, 我話有無攪錯, 你知唔知BB唔食得隔夜粥?? :evil: 佢話我Sun very hurry, no time to cook for BB, 咁我話: you wake up earlier咪得law, 佢話holiday想sleep more, 跟住問我知唔知佢地holiday可有24hr架? 跟住我火到黎埋, 炳左佢成個鍾, 係好惡個隻(我老公都話未見過我咁惡!), 我話, 如果你想according to labour law, 我可以咩都according to labour law, 咁首先你Christmas唔好放假, 改為22 Dec, 另外我會再出一份daily time table俾你填, 你最好跟足點做, Otherwise, you will know what happen later.....
佢即刻喊晒, 又話佢唔係咁既意思...我話你唔好再搵excuse, 唔鐘意即刻執野走, 跟住佢問我BB咁點(即係試我啦), 我話BB只係唔可以無左父母, other than that, 佢無左邊個都得, the wrose case is we send BB to 育嬰院...
跟住佢知驚, 即刻話我想留底架....我都無佢咁好氣, 後來下一part由我老公同佢傾, 話佢咁樣講野真係好唔掂....etc叫佢即刻同我say sorry, 佢都有say sorry, 但係我地諗住換人lu........我都好hurt架, 俾心對佢佢竟然咁樣, 諗住live under the same house唔好咁計較, 點知係佢同我計... :cry: 可能我第一次請工人啦, 真係無下次........


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發表於 04-12-20 10:34 |只看該作者

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In frankly speaking, I think she is ok at her performance after I read many stories at here. At least she didn't black face or argue with me when I asked her to help at Christmas Day. (Because I have party at home every Christmas)That's why I bought her Gift every Christmas even through she was not good to my kids(but not harm them).She just black face when she go along with my kids and I found that accidental.She seldom showed black face at home.


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發表於 04-12-20 10:38 |只看該作者

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Coolpig,
你工人想星期日訓耐 d 而之前一晚整定d 粥, 都算佢對你個b有心喇. 有好多工人真係唔理你咁多, 話之阿b 有冇得食啦. 而佢今次出言 頂撞你, 你 又咁 堅決 咁 擺明冇o左佢唔係 問題, 佢都知死架喇. 你仲有張 皇牌, 你 識晒佢家姐d 僱主, 佢有咩行差踏錯, 分分鐘佢2個家姐份工都冇埋, 叫佢醒定d 添呀.


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發表於 04-12-20 12:59 |只看該作者

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Me too :evil:
我唔係第一次用工人, but 99 係第一次, 基本上我哋好多野冇限制佢, coz對佢多嘅係 99, so, 佢好精咁同我哋劃線, 我哋越冇所謂, 佢就越過太.(佢已係HK做咗8年野)佢成日講之前employer對佢點好點好,另一方面又講佢哋是非,搗到我99對佢更好,驚比佢唱, 而且99要keep住好人形象(我哋成家都係冇咩所謂嘅人, 其實本身已待佢不薄, 好似多咗個親戚咁, 佢自己亦當正)請工人之原因click here

由於之前太過縱容佢, 現在對佢一有d要求, 或佢有咩唔鍾意就比面色我99睇(暫時未有咁對我哋), 激到我99 :evil: 成日話炒佢, 但轉頭又話比機會佢,but 已重演了好幾次. 我99對住我哋重有好多投訴.

而我自己也越來越唔like佢. 原因:
**佢講我朋友是非(有作野成份).
**喺我面前扮friend,背住我講是非(有部份Y曲).
**對我99 & 我老公個婆婆冇禮貌.
**唔鍾意去我外家(一星期一次), 曾經因此連續2日比面色我99睇.
**唔鍾意去嘅原因竟然係 "我媽咪有時買D馬蹄翻嚟食叫佢批皮, & 晚飯時我媽咪叫佢食快D, 食完幫我湊BB等我可以食飯. **..................
but 我自己都衰衰哋, 我好容易嬲人, 又好快唔嬲. 唔like之餘, 見佢幾照顧BB, 不自覺又對佢好, 嚟緊Christmas仲買咗禮物比佢添, 自己都要

不過現在我哋都 plan 炒佢, may be 另請印印, may be 我自己轉做全職, but 未行動.
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發表於 04-12-20 13:43 |只看該作者

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:-x :-x :-x :-x


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發表於 04-12-20 14:25 |只看該作者

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Coolpig

我以前的工人, 會煮埋粥仔, 煲埋湯比個仔先走架, 果時都已經10點幾11點(朝早).

如果佢不想煲埋粥仔先走, 我會let her go early, 最多自己煲law. 不好比bb食隔夜粥


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發表於 04-12-20 14:34 |只看該作者

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老友,
我個PT bun知我好想返出來做working mom, 都成日同我地兩公婆sell佢個妹同佢個女, 次次來就次次sell. 我本來都1516想請, 諗住佢都幾好, 佢個妹/女都怕唔差得去邊. 哇, 睇到你地咁, 我都諗清諗楚先得! 話晒第一次請工人, 真係好似買六合彩咁睇你好唔好彩!!!
I support autism acceptance!


男爵府

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發表於 04-12-24 09:32 |只看該作者

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工人尋日又一新經典, 就係向我媽咪來探BB時竟然問婆婆可唔可以落一陣街(之前(MON)已同佢講過唔得!), 我阿媽唔知頭唔知路, 就俾左佢去, 之後我同佢傾開電話先知! 我本來好嬲, 但我老公話since佢擺明想test我們底線and博炒, 我地就唔可以俾佢咁易得程, 所以我老公尋日自己handle左件事(如果我handle, 實炳 ), 佢話我只係講過唔可以去Market, 無話唔可以落街(咁有咩分別? ), 跟住我老公就explain左一大堆費話俾佢聽, 佢又辨知自己錯, 又同我say sorry again, 我今次很"大方"地accept左佢!!
今日係Christmas Eve, 佢同佢D家姐開party, 之前問過我, 我話我地今晚有party會預埋佢, 佢of course 想 join佢家姐, 尋日又問我係咪真係要去, 我咪再笑笑口話: of course, we celebrate together ma.........跟住佢又話驚BB get cold, 又話驚有蚊, 又話驚悶, 總之多多藉口, 我當聽唔到, 只係話俾左佢份錢, 唔去唔得...!!

我同老公都想等地新年去完旅行先炒, 因為佢衰極暫時對BB都算係咁, 暫時佢take careBB方面始終是一個比較"相得過"的人, 咁係咪依家要搵定agent呢?????




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