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finayang

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發表於 09-7-13 16:53 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

I am deleting the photos of my housekeeper. I just terminated her, and I don't want to see her in my photos. There are some photos that I must give up.

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pollyw

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好媽媽勳章大廚勳章

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原帖由 finayang 於 09-7-13 16:53 發表
I am deleting the photos of my housekeeper. I just terminated her, and I don't want to see her in my photos. There are some photos that I must give up.

Do you mean you are so angry at her that you want her out of you memory?

The hell I will take pictures of them unless I have a purpose in mind for doing so.

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eatcookies

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發表於 09-7-13 18:35 |只看該作者

I will choose to face it.
No matter how bad they are, these girls have become part of our personal history... even though I can delete the photos, I will not be able to delete my memories.

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finayang

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發表於 09-7-13 19:24 |只看該作者

She liked to join us when we took the pictures. Sometimes, I asked her to stay out of my picture, but she can't hear.

原帖由 pollyw 於 09-7-13 17:13 發表
Do you mean you are so angry at her that you want her out of you memory?

The hell I will take pictures of them unless I have a purpose in mind for doing so.

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finayang

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發表於 09-7-13 19:24 |只看該作者

The problem is when my kids look at the pictures, they will ask me questions.

原帖由 eatcookies 於 09-7-13 18:35 發表
I will choose to face it.
No matter how bad they are, these girls have become part of our personal history... even though I can delete the photos, I will not be able to delete my memories.

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makbaby

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發表於 09-7-14 00:36 |只看該作者

請工人好煩,很難找到好

如果頂咀你們會不會炒

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小圓圓

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發表於 09-7-15 11:43 |只看該作者

可能工人留給你不好的回憶,的確消滅有關佢既嘢都有幫助,隨着时間過去,記憶就淡忘.另外,我都唔會俾有舊工人在場的家庭相俾新工人睇,費事佢地多心.

makbaby,好多菲菲都會駁咀,有D重同我閙交,熊度極為惡劣,我就大聲過佢,重會叫佢"SHUT UP!""Just do what i tell you to do!"我唔會炒佢,炒咗佢所費不菲又無人幫手唔店,都要忍住先.而印印相對順服,但佢呆呆望住你閙,就一樣激死你! 佢地重有好多衷嘢,我無可能都炒哂,始終質素都係咁上下,唯有自己勞氣D.係好慘架,除非請個好少少,但撞彩唔容易.

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finayang

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發表於 09-7-15 15:36 |只看該作者

This is very usual. Even when I speak nicely to them, they sometimes shout back. Once my terminated maid asked me to buy 2 mobile phones at a small shop with my credit card. She wanted to pay by installments. She obtained all information before I go. Later on, I learnt from the store that the best value is to pay by cash. I settled full payment and offered interest free installment to this maid. When I got home, she noticed the packing is not Nokia's usual packing and the phones didn't come with memory chips. That shop sells 水貨. This is why the phones are much cheaper that Broadway. I already asked her to collect all information in advance. She was very angry with me. I even didn't ask her to pay me back the parking fee. She didn't appreciate my help.

The other story is I found a place selling Betty Crocker's cake mix in lower price. This maid wanted to buy a few packs for her family. When I got home with the cake mix, she noticed the expiry date is only 6 months away. She took a deep breath and was prepared to shout at me. I stared at her, so she hold her temper. Again, I didn't need to help her. Not to talk about appreciation, she should thank me for helping. If she has concern on the expiry date, she should tell me earlier. The cake mix always comes with short expiry date. It wasn't my mistake.

原帖由 makbaby 於 09-7-14 00:36 發表
如果頂咀你們會不會炒

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zozo2005

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原帖由 finayang 於 09-7-15 15:36 發表
This is very usual. Even when I speak nicely to them, they sometimes shout back. Once my terminated maid asked me to buy 2 mobile phones at a small shop with my credit card. She wanted to pay by in ...

做工人都可以咀惡既, ?? 收人$$ 打緊工~~!!

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finayang

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發表於 09-7-15 18:40 |只看該作者

I usually let them stay for 3 years until I can't stand them anymore.

原帖由 zozo2005 於 09-7-15 18:02 發表

做工人都可以咀惡既, ?? 收人$$ 打緊工~~!!

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rvbb

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發表於 09-7-15 21:43 |只看該作者

Well, I think you are too nice to them. I will never help them in that way. So most of them are pretty respect me as a employer. They are from different culture, what u need to provide is basic for them. Remember, you are the boss and she just work for me. Then your relationship will be good. They do the work, I pay their work. That's it.