It is because my husband say : The 'big' decision should be decided by husband (big man), such as buy a car, having kids....., and 'small' decision should be decided by wife (little woman), such as give key to 99 or not, eat outside with 99 or not, buy something to relatives......!
原帖由 ac321 於 09-9-23 15:57 發表
It is because my husband say : The 'big' decision should be decided by husband (big man), such as buy a car, having kids....., and 'small' decision should be decided by wife (little woman), such as gi ...
He don't want to be a 'sandwich' (between wife and mother). Therefore, when we got marry, he told his parents (62, 99) that he would give xxxx as living expenses to them monthly. And all other things (about our family), they should talk to me (and let me decided).