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發表於 05-1-26 09:46 |只看該作者

有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

我都無做野三年多, 做全職媽媽, 有ENJOY時候但大部份時間都係心不在焉, 例如覺得做家務很重覆很浪費時間(係好似覺得自己讀咁多書喺度做家務很浪費), 已經三年仍很不安份, 唯一慶幸天寒地凍可以睡覺我都很>很>很>明白育兒的樂趣與意義...但人就係咁, 不安份, 貪心.....

呢年9月打算AFTER 細女升小一便出山, 但很担心社會不接納我, (我之前做OFFICE), 又担心自己得閒慣了, 記性差了, 會被人看不起 (做左C9咁多年, 得唔得嫁....), 請分享下你們的感受! 有無媽媽停了工作好耐出山, 出番黎做野有什麼感覺, 會唔會感覺好怪(BOTH 自己和同事覺得)?? 有什麼最難適應呢? 等我作好心理準備.....THANKS!

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 05-1-26 10:05 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Dear Hellomummy,

I also has the feeling with you. I want to find a job after my son go to primary in the coming September.

I've been a housewife for totally six years. I wonder whether can I handle the challenge if I work again. I also afraid I can't find a job as I quit the business world for 6 years. I maybe a bit outdated.

I'm a graduate too. I want to raise my family income but I also need to employ a domestic helper if I go to work.

How to choose? Stay at home or Go to Work???

anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-26 10:09 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

dear anna,

我有時會諗如果俾我現在搵到一份時間fit既part-time, 唔影響我照顧小朋友, 即使份人工大半用黎請菲傭都較有價值吖, 你有無咁諗過??

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發表於 05-1-26 10:41 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

但是各位媽咪, 升小一後d功課多到倒瀉蘿蟹咁! 又要默書, 又要做功課, 又要做每日一篇 (中英文版), 根本無時得閒, 妳哋仲"養懶"咁耐, 我怕妳哋唔習慣, 不過大家都需要時間適應, 我只想俾大家有個準備o傘.

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發表於 05-1-26 10:48 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

you are right! 呢個係必然出現既情況, 一下子壓力會倍數咁上!!

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 05-1-26 11:18 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

我冇做野兩年後再出來搵工，搵過全職同兼職，大致搵工唔太難，只不過要有心理準備人工冇以前咁好！最後全職同兼職都有公司請，而我就選擇左做office part-time clerk，返上午，下午仲有好多時間陪大仔溫習同可以親自接倆個女放學！當然人工唔會高，最多夠俾工人，但勝在keep住用下腦搵d使用之餘又唔會忽略小朋友！

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發表於 05-1-26 13:15 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

hi all mummy,

I think i can be your example. I did not go out for work around 4yrs. Now i find a job (of course i can't let the employer know that i am a housewife for 4 yrs).

If your husband can support the family, pls don't go out to work. It is horrible, it's really different as before. For this 1.5mths in this new area, no one talk to u (cause the environment of this firm are like this) For myself, especially after my child born, I seem like always lost my memory, it was really difficult for me to work again, I just want to work until the end of March.

From the above only the feeling of myself, pls don't mind.

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發表於 05-1-26 15:11 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Dear marcha,

Are you planning to quit your job and return to be a housewife? Why do you decide to work again? Is it the same resons with me and Hellomummy?

I also worry that I can't adapt the new working life. I'm struggling....

I also think to set up a tutorial centre for primary students and employ by myself. But it involoves a lot of matter such as financial, manpower, business partner,...etc.

anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-26 15:18 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Dear Hellomummy,

I also has an idea to find a part-time job first , in order to let myself to adapt working life, before to work full-time. I also have time to take care my son.

In fact, this matter has in my mind for a long period. As my kid grows up, he may not want me to accompany him all the time. I need to work again. Then what can I do as I quit job for a long time.

Can I find a job? What kind of jon suitable for me????

anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-26 15:21 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Dear LEON,

You should be a smart guy as you can find job easily. So lucky you are.

regards

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發表於 05-1-27 00:09 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 05-1-27 00:15 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

marcha 寫道:
hi all mummy,

I think i can be your example. I did not go out for work around 4yrs. Now i find a job (of course i can't let the employer know that i am a housewife for 4 yrs).

If your husband can support the family, pls don't go out to work. It is horrible, it's really different as before. For this 1.5mths in this new area, no one talk to u (cause the environment of this firm are like this) For myself, especially after my child born, I seem like always lost my memory, it was really difficult for me to work again, I just want to work until the end of March.

From the above only the feeling of myself, pls don't mind.

Dear Marcha,

How did you tell your employer about your past 4 years? I am asking only out of curiosity!!

So, you are going to give up working and back to home again? I am interested in your story!

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發表於 05-1-27 00:16 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

LEON 寫道:
但勝在keep住用下腦搵d使用之餘又唔會忽略小朋友！

AGREE~!

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發表於 05-1-27 09:45 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Dear Hellomummy,

It's nice to talk to you. Yes, you're right. We are in common. But my situation is worse than you as I quit the business world 2 years more than you.

I got only one and a half year working experience before I've been a housewife. It seems no working experience at all after graudation. That why I can't put myself into the field I worked before. (I worked in surveying) No one will employ such a mature lady as a trainee. Right??

I know I should get a start into another field. But I wonder what kind of job is suitable for me.....quite annoying.....

Let changing topic.

How many kid do you have? Two? Boy or Girl? I know you have a small girl who is the same age with my only boy. (got to know from your first message)

Which primary school will your girl study in the coming school year? Did you decide yet? I chose La-Salle in Lucky Draw, if it failed, I will most probably let my son study in SFA (in Shek Kei Mei). How about you?

Good Luck. Keep in contact!!

anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-28 01:06 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 05-1-29 13:22 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Hi Hellomummy,

I think it's not difficult for you to find a job at all, as you hold rich experience in the field of Insurance.

My sister-in-law came from Austraila in H.K. 5 years ago and put herself in Insurance when she was 31. She was a starter, she also can develop her career in the field, why couldn't you? Have faith! 35 is not old at all.

About me...I'm 30. It's not young to get a start. I got no or can say just a bit working experience, it's much difficult....

My kid is a son. SFA is St. Francis of Assisi's English Primary School in Shek Kip Mei. My son is now studying in Kiangsu & Chekiang Primary School Kindergarten Section in North Point. I will move to Kowloon in May.

Keep in touch!!

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anna_leung

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發表於 05-1-30 01:01 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 05-1-30 08:09 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

Wish both of you all the best in your job hunting.

I am not a housewife, but I keep telling my colleagues and husband that I want to be full-time, because it's high pressure and you have to take care of human factor.

Of course, that's just a dream as my husband cannot support the finance of the family alone.

hellomammy
You mentioned about opening a tuition center, I had this idea before as well! However, I gave up because of several factors. What's your idea? Maybe we can talk?

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發表於 05-1-30 16:53 |只看該作者

Re: 有無媽咪停職多年再出山?

:-P

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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