I think u need to sit down and talk to him, ask him actually wht he want, maybe he worry about if he cant find a good job in HK but he really dont wanna hurt u, so ask him and see wht he thinking why he told u will go back to HK, but wht he doing now dont seem like he will!! Know wht he think first and see if can solve the problem together, right now it is reallly hard to find a job in HK, like my frd almost a year, he still couldnt find it, I also living in US, I like the life style in HK, but be honest, i dont wanna my husband upset if he cant find the job there and at least same salary wht he got pay right now!! My hubby hv to work OT too, i hate it, but money..u know, he dont really hv to OT, but he want to have extra money in the bank, at least we will need it if something happen! Trying to talk to him to know wht he thinking, better than he keeps giving u a hope, and in the end, u disappointed!!